Kotero, mutu wathu wamakono ndi momwe tinganyengere mnyamata: luso lachinyengo.
Luso lachinyengo ndi momwe mungapezere munthu kugonana ndi inu ndi chithandizo cha zipangizo, manja, zizindikiro ndi zokhudzana.
Musanayambe kumunyengerera munthu, kumbukirani kuti izi sizili zoyenera kuchita ngati ndi bwenzi la mnzanu, ngati mulibe njira yotetezera nanu ngati mwaledzera.
Ngati mwakhala mukukumana ndi mnyamata kwa nthawi ndithu, ndipo sakuyesera kukupatsani ubwenzi wapamtima, ngati mwatopa kuyembekezera ndipo mwakonzeka kale kugonana, kapena ngati mukufuna kuyesera mzimayi wofunayo, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito njira yanu yoyamba ndi kumunyengerera.
Choyamba, muyenera kuvomereza kuti muyenera kukhala ndi nthawi yokonzekera kunyenga. Ndikofunika kuganizira zovuta zambiri, kulingalira ndondomeko yowonjezera. Kupusitsa mnyamata mumakhala zofunikira, kuti zinthu zonse ziziyenda bwino komanso opanda mavuto.
Zilibe kanthu kuti mumakhala ndi ndani ndipo mumakhala ndi ndani: ndi makolo, ndi anzanu. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho "kufotokoza" malo amoyo panthawi yoyenera kuti pasapezeke wina amene angasokoneze zolinga zanu mosazindikira. Taganizirani kuti chinthu chonyenga sayenera kuganiza kanthu, kuphatikizapo sayenera kudziŵa kuti muyenera kukhala nokha.
Kenaka - luso la sayansi yachinyengo ndi malingaliro anu. Njira yabwino - kutsegula chitseko kwa iye mu thaulo ndipo, monga momwemo, "manyazi", kufotokozera kuti mwangosiya kusamba. Njira ina: kukonzekera chakudya chamantha, ndiye pemphani mnyamata kuti ayang'ane filimu yachikondi. Pa filimuyo, ndikutsanulire vinyo wonyezimira. Komanso, poyang'ana momwe amachitira, mungathe kuchita zinthu zowopsya, mwinamwake iye mwiniyo adzafuna kuyambapo. Pano pali nthawi yamtengo wapatali yomuuza kuti iwe udzakhala ndekha, ndipo palibe amene angakuvutitse. Ndipo n'zotheka ndi njira yotere yomwe mutatha kuyang'ana kanema yomwe mukupempha kuti mukhale nayo, chifukwa simungathe kukhala nokha ndikuopa mdima.
Ngati muli panyumba pake ndipo mukuyenera kumunyengerera kumbali yake, fufuzani ngati adzakhale yekha lero. Ndiye mukhoza kukhala mosatekeseka. Chinyengo apa ndikuti musataye nthawi ndi nthawi ndikusowa nthawi yomwe trams ndi mabasi adakalipo. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kumuthandiza mnyamatayo mu ntchito yodabwitsa, kotero kuti anaiŵala konse za nthawi. Chinthu chachikulu ndikudandaula kuti mulibe nthawi yopangira tamu ndikuganiza kuti mukuganiza mozama momwe mungabwerere kunyumba. Ngati chibwenzi chanu ndichangu, sangakutulutse kunja usiku akuyang'ana pamsewu. Musakwiyire kwambiri, mwinamwake mumakhala pachiswe usiku wokha, monga momwe mnzanuyo amagona mogona kuti agone m'chipinda china.
Ngati tsiku lapamtima silingakonzedwe m'nyumba yanu kapena mumalo mwake, ndiye kuti mufunsapo wina kuchokera kwa anzanu kapena anthu omwe mumamudziwa kuti akuthandizeni. Pachifukwa ichi, yang'anani pasadakhale kwa maphwando onse omwe akubwera ndi maholide. Njira yoyenera kwa inu - holide pa dacha ya winawake, komwe mungasankhe. Bwino, ndithudi, ngati nyengo yatentha kale. Musanayambe, kambiranani ndi anzanu, ngati angakupatseni chipinda chofunika kwambiri pa chochitika chofunika kwambiri. Kawirikawiri abwenzi aakazi nthawi zonse amasangalala kuthandizana wina ndi mzake muzakayi. Ngati simukugwirizana kwambiri ndi eni ake a dacha, ndiye kuti mukudziwa kuti nthawi zonse mumatha kusungulumwa kwa ola limodzi pa phwando. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhala ndi lolo mu chipinda.
Ngati ubale wanu uli kale pamsinkhu wopitilira, ndipo chibwenzi chanu sichikuyesera kukupatsani kugonana, kapena poyamba inu mwamupempha kuti asakufulumizitseni ndi izi, ndiye mumangoyenera kumufulumira.
Kuchita chinyengo ndikuti mkazi amagwiritsa ntchito njira zonse zomwe amachitira akazi: kumanga maso, kugwiritsira ntchito manja, kupangitsa chidwi ndi mawu, kuyang'ana ndi malingaliro. Koma muzonse muyenera kudziwa chiyeso.
Inde, mu chinyengo cha mnyamata, gawo lofunika kwambiri limasewera ndi zochitika bwino ndikukonza, kuika pa ubwenzi, mkhalidwe. Koma sizo zonse. N'kofunikanso kuti mnyamatayo amvetse bwino. Kuti muchite izi, m'pofunika kupeza momwe amachitira zinthu zachikondi, momwe amafunira kuthera nthawi, zomwe amakonda. Ndikofunika kuganizira pazinthu zonse zazing'ono: njira zotetezera, mwachitsanzo.
Chikhalidwe chofunika kuti chinyengo chikhale chaulere, chisangalalo chosangalatsa komanso palibe chikhalidwe. Mnyamata ayenera kukhala woyamba ndi wosavuta komanso wokondweretsa kulankhula ndi inu, ndiye mukhoza kuyamba ntchito zowonjezereka.
Ngati ubale wanu wapamtima uli wosakwatiwa, musataye mtima ndi kukwiya nawo. Yang'anirani pa nkhaniyi kuchokera kumbali ina - pambuyo pake, mutapambanabe, ndipo kupambana uku kuli kochepa, koma kosangalatsa!