Tidzazindikira mtundu wa ubale umene mungamange ndi munthu wamkulu kuposa inu. Ndipo tidzapeza mipumulo yomwe ingathandize kuthana ndi zopinga zomwe ena amakonzerani.
Ubale ndi anzako amakumbukiranso momwe ubale ndi mwamuna uli wamng'ono kwambiri. Pali amayi omwe ali okonzeka kupereka chikondi, patronize ndi kusamalira mwamuna. Iwo akhoza kutchedwa "mayi" kwa mwamuna. Iwo samafuna chirichonse kuchokera kwa munthu, iwo amangopereka. Ndipo akazi omwe akufuna kuti akwatirane, samasamala za achinyamata kapena akulu.
Amuna omwe ali aang'ono kuposa akazi ali achangu ndipo amafunitsitsa kufika pamtunda, kapena sakhala okhazikika ndipo alibe zolinga zenizeni. Amuna amenewo omwe amamvera mayi wamkulu kuposa iwowo, ndi opanda pake, osagwirizana komanso osadziwika. Koma palinso amuna omwe amawona akazi ochepa kuposa iwowo kapena msinkhu wofanana ndi wopusa komanso wopanda kanthu, ndipo akakula amapeza akazi ophunzitsidwa bwino, okhulupilika.
Ubale ndi munthu wamng'ono kuposa iwe uli ndi ubwino wawo. Zimakhala zosavuta kusamalira, kuphunzitsa zonse zomwe mukufuna kuziwona. Iwo akhoza "kujambulira" munthu woyenera kwa inu. Mu ubale umenewu, ndinu mtsogoleri ndipo mukhoza kuchita chirichonse. Amuna oterewa sakhala ndi zochitika m'moyo, ndipo ndi iwo omwe mukuyamba kukhala anyamata. Inu mumakhala amoyo. Chifukwa cha mphamvu zawo zazing'ono, mumapuma moyo watsopano.
Ndipo kugwirizana kwa ubale wotere ndikuti amafunika kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zambiri. Mkhalidwe wanu wa zakuthupi udzakhalanso wotayika. Ubale ndi amuna oterowo nthawi zambiri sungathe kukwatira kapena kukwatirana. Iwo amafuna chidwi kwambiri pa gawo lanu, komanso muyenera kumachita nawo. Ndipo, ndithudi, anthu okuzungulirani adzakhala otsutsana ndi ubale wanu ndi amuna oterewa.
Ngati, komabe, mwaganiza kuti mupeze wokondedwa wamng'ono kapena mwaganiza zomanga ubale ndi iye, ndiye mumuthandize "kuima payekha". Ngati ali ndi abwenzi, pakati pawo pali akazi, chitani chomwe sichi. Chotsani mpikisano. Pamodzi ndi iye mungathe kumasuka, kutsanulira mdziko lake. Osayikiranso za msinkhu wake, popeza izi zingamukhumudwitse. Pambuyo pake, iye sadziwa zambiri monga momwe mulili, akungophunzira. Muloleni iye amve ngati kuti ndinu mwamuna weniweni, mtsogoleri mu ubale wanu.
Ngati mumakonda munthu wanu weniweni, ndiye kuti simuyenera kuthana ndi zolepheretsa ndipo ziribe kanthu ngati ali wamng'ono, kapena wamkulu, chinthu chachikulu ndicho chikondi ndi kumvetsetsa.