Mwachidziwikire, izi ndizovomerezeka chabe ngati maseŵera osewera, nthawi zambiri zogonana. Inde, pali zochitika pamene mu chiyanjano mkazi ndi dona, mwamuna ndi kapolo. Pachifukwa ichi, anyamatawo ali osapota kapena achikondi kwambiri. Amapotoza, monga akufunira, amafuula zingwe ndikukakamizidwa kuchita zonse zomwe mtsikanayo akufuna. Azimayi amene amatembenuza amuna awo kukhala akapolo amawonongedwa osadziwika omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti m'moyo nthawi zonse zimachitika momwe akufunira. Kawirikawiri, atsikanawa ndi ana okhawo m'banja. Pogwiritsa ntchito zifukwa zilizonse, makolo awo amathera miyoyo yawo kuchotsa phulusa, amati iwo ndi abwino kwambiri, amakwaniritsa zonsezi ndipo samakana chilichonse. Izi zimapangitsa kuti atsikana asanduke akazi osakondwa omwe amadziwa kuti pali maganizo awo komanso olakwika okha. Nthaŵi zambiri, palibe mabwenzi enieni ozungulira iwo. Amasonkhanitsa okha akapolo omwe amawakonda ndikusunga malamulo onse mopanda kukayikira. Ngati wina ayesa kufotokoza maganizo ake, nthawi yomweyo amayamba kukwiya ndipo munthu uyu amasiya nawo kampani kapena kuganizira chilango chake. Akazi oterewa nthawi zambiri amakula m'mabanja olemera, koma pali nthawi pamene amayi otere amakhala ndi makolo omwe ali ndi ndalama zochepa kwambiri.
Ndi kovuta kunena chifukwa chake amuna amayamba kukondana ndikugwirabe atsikana omwewa. Onsewa amamvetsa bwino kuti ali pafupi ndi munthu wodetsa nkhaŵa, komabe akupitirizabe kuchita zomwe akufuna. N'zotheka kuti ndi nkhani yokongola, chifukwa atsikana otere amakhala ndi maonekedwe abwino. Kuwonjezera apo, chifukwa chakuti anthu onse oyandikana nawo amawagwirira ntchito, amatha kusamalira bwino khungu lawo ndi tsitsi lawo, kupita ku spa salons, kukhala olimbitsa thupi, kumasuka kudziko lina, zovala ndi zodzoladzola. Ngati mkazi woteroyo amagwira ntchito, amagwiritsabe ntchito ndalama zonse payekha. Kawirikawiri, amayiwa alibe ana, ndipo ngati mwanayo ali, sakhala ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse mayiyo. Izi kwa iye ngati khati kapena galu yemwe mungathe kusewera, ndipo pamene mukumva chisoni, ingophwetsani maondo anu. M'mabanja oterowo, ana amaleredwa ndi atate wawo. Momwemonso, amakhudzidwanso ndi mavuto ena apakhomo. Amuna awa ndi amayi enieni. Amakonza chakudya, kutsuka mbale, chitsulo, kutsuka, zoyera, kuthandiza ana ndi maphunziro ndikubweretsa chakudya chamadzulo, chakudya chamadzulo ndi chakudya chamadzulo kwa akazi awo. Ndipo dona akudzipereka yekha, akuwombera magazini kapena kuyang'ana TV. Pamene ana akukula ndikuyamba kukwaniritsa zofuna zawo. Ndipo, ngati mwana wapanduka, mikangano yowopsya ndi zowopsya zimayamba m'nyumba. Mwamwayi, mkazi woteroyo sangathe kusintha ndipo ngati mwamuna asankha mkazi wofanana, amavomerezera zomwe zidzachitike kwa kapoloyo.
Zoonadi, zinthu zomwe tafotokozazi ndizovuta komanso zosayenera. Ubale woterewu ndi wolakwika ndipo umabweretsa mavuto kwa mamembala onse a m'banja, kupatula kwa ambuye. Chifukwa cha amayi otero, ana amakula kwambiri (makamaka anyamata). Iwo amavomereza chitsanzo cha banja lawo ngati okhawo omwe alipo ndipo, motero, amakana kwathunthu chikondi, kuti asakhale chigole chimodzimodzi ndi bambo. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, ndi kovuta kwambiri kuti azindikire chikondi cha amayi ndi chisamaliro chawo. Iwo ali osamala kwambiri za izi komanso kwa nthawi yaitali osangodalira. Zimatenga nthawi yaitali kwambiri kuthandiza mnyamata wotere kuti akhulupirire kuti pali malingaliro apadziko lonse ndipo sikuti amayi onse amagwiritsa ntchito amuna awo. Ndipotu pali ena omwe sali mumtima wokondedwa ndipo ali wokonzeka kumuthandiza pazochitika zonse.
Koma, ngati simutenga moyo, ndiye kuti chikhumbo chokhala dona chikhoza kuchitika mwa mkazi wokha basi. Nthawi zina mayi amangofuna kuti azilamulira. Mutsogolere mnyamata wanu. Ndipo si nthawi zonse za BDSM, ngakhale izi, ndithudi, zimakhalanso. Ndipotu, amayi ambiri omwe samapereka chidwi chokwanira kwa anyamatawa chifukwa cha zochitika zina, pali chilakolako chofuna kuti munthu asungidwe. Pakhoza kukhala malingaliro a momwe zingakhalire zabwino kukamangirira iye ndi manja a batteries kuti asapite kulikonse ndipo anali pafupi kwamuyaya. Inde, sakanamukhumudwitsa, nthawi zonse amadya zakudya zokoma komanso zokonda kwambiri, amadula tsitsi lake, amavala tsitsi lake, amavala bwino. Mwina, mwina, mulole kwa kompyuta yanu yokondedwa. Zoonadi, pasadakhale, ziyenera kulepheretsa malo omwe angayendere nawo kudziko lina ndikupempha thandizo kuti apulumuke. Kwa kapolo wake wokondedwa, sakanati avulaze, sanagwire ndipo sanakhumudwitse. Angakwanitse kukwaniritsa zonsezi, ngati akadali pafupi, amakhala pafupi ndi batri ndipo samusiya yekha.
Inde, malingaliro oterewa ali ndi chisoni, koma, palibe chinthu chachilendo mwa iwo ngati msungwanayo sakuyamba kuganizira mozama ndi kumanga zolinga zogwidwa. Zikatero, nkhaniyi imakhaladi yofungo kwambiri chifukwa cha vuto lalikulu la maganizo ndipo mayiyo amafunika kuyendetsa galimoto zoterezo kapena kupita kwa dokotala kwa odwala matenda a maganizo.
Mkazi ndi dona, mwamuna ndi kapolo, ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zochitika zachikazi zomwe zimawakonda masewera a kugonana. Nthawi zina amai amafuna kukhala amphamvu, kulamulira ndi kulamulira. Nthawi zina, palinso chikhumbo chopweteka munthu, ndithudi, mu malire ochepa. Ndi zilakolako izi zomwe zimawonetsedwa pamene mayi amapereka munthu wa BDSM. Pano, naponso, mautchi, mabatire komanso zinthu zina zambiri zokhudzana ndi BDSM zikuyenda. Koma izi ndi zonse, zosangalatsa. Ndipotu, mtsikana wachikondi sangawononge chibwenzi chake. Koma iye amafanizira chilango ndi chisangalalo. Mwinamwake mwa njira iyi timagwiritsa ntchito mfundo za amuna athu, pamlingo wina timadzitchula tokha ndi kulanga amuna athu okondedwa pang'ono chifukwa cha zolakwa zawo ndi kusasamala kwa ife.