Phunzirani kukopa mwamuna pabedi. Inde, sizophweka, koma palibe chosatheka chomwe chingachitike. Ndi khama lanu, mudzakhala kwa iye amene mukufuna kubwerera, omwe amatsegula mwayi wa munthu uyu mwa iye.
Kotero, tiyeni tiyang'ane zotsatila zothandiza komanso malamulo othandizira kuti anthu azipusitsidwa pabedi. Kwa ambiri, si chinsinsi chimene amuna ambiri amagonjetsa, eni ake ndi braggart. Kotero tisati tisawasokoneze pa izi ndikupereka chisangalalo chaching'ono chotero: tiyeni tiyese kuyesa kukugonjetsani. Khalani mfumukazi kwa iye. Lolani kuti likhale kwa inu osati mawu okongola okha, lolani ilo likhale lingaliro la malingaliro. Musamulole kuti azichita zonse mwakamodzi, khalani patali pakati panu, chifukwa zidzamuthandiza kwambiri. Ndipotu, ndinu mfumukazi! Kumbukirani izi. Sewani nawo, kukopana, kukhala okhwima kwambiri, kenako kumasulidwa - osakaniza. Mudzawona, mutatsatira malangizo awa osavuta, mudzasokoneza zonsezi ndikukuchititsani kupenga.
Sichiyambitsa china chilichonse ngati kuphatikizapo mulungu (mulungu wamkazi ali pabedi, msungwana wopanda nzeru yemwe akufunikira kuphunzitsidwa china chirichonse - kodi iwe udzakhala ndani kwa iye lero)? Lolani kudziletsa kuti musakhale pachibwenzi. Khalani otsimikiza, kuyembekezera - kumangopatsa chilakolako. Ngakhale, kumbukirani kuti sizothandiza kuchepetsa izi. Ndikofunika kumverera mzere wina apa. Koma inu nokha mukhoza kuphunzira momwe mungamvere mbali iyi.
Kodi mukufuna kuwonetsa chilakolako chake mochulukirapo usiku wotsatira? Muzimuchitira nsanje. Inde, inde, lolani chuma chake chikhalepo. Palibe chimene chimasokoneza munthu kuposa kuzindikira kuti mkazi amene amamusankha amafuna amuna ambiri. Choncho, kumangokhalira kukondana ndi mnzanu wogwira naye ntchito payekha pakhomo kapena paulendo - kokha kumamulimbikitsa. Zoona, apa ndilofunika kwambiri! Ndikofunika kwambiri pang'ono kwambiri ndipo zonse zidzapita mosiyana, zopanda phindu, zolemba. Koma tinakhala ndi cholinga chomunyengerera pabedi.
Mwamuna aliyense akufuna kukhala ndi mkazi wokongola, wokonzeka bwino. Kotero, pokonzekera nthawi ya chibwenzi, musaiwale kuti mukhale odzisunga nokha. Sikofunikira kuti izi zithandizidwe ndi njira zamtengo wapatali zamagetsi komanso zovala za mega chic zomwe simungakwanitse. Zokwanira kutsatira malamulo oyambirira a ukhondo. Samalani kuti pa nthawi yovuta simudandaula kuti inu, mwachitsanzo, mulibe miyendo ndi ziwalo zina za thupi, zomwe zimadedwa ndi tsitsi loposa. Pa nkhani yotsatirayi, musaiwale kugula mtundu wina wa zovala zamkati. Adzayamikira bwino zinthu zabwino izi. Amayi ambiri ali ndi chidaliro kuti ndi bwino kupanga chikondi mu mdima wandiweyani, ndipo ngakhale pansi pa bulangeti, kotero kuti osankhidwa ake samakhala umboni wosadziwika pa zolakwa zirizonse (cellulite, kulemera kolemera ndi zinthu). Atsikana okondeka, ndikhulupirire, ngati simusamala za mtundu umenewu, mwamuna wanu, mwina, sangathe kuwona nthawi zonse, ndikukuvutitsani. Koma onetsetsani kuti mumvetsere wanu kwambiri zakurchennost ndipo kwenikweni kumva wanu zovuta. Choncho yesetsani kusonyeza. Kudzidalira ndicho chinsinsi cha kupambana. Ngakhale mutakhala ndi zolakwa zirizonse, khulupirirani ine, bambo anu amadziwa kale za iwo, koma ali ndi inu tsopano, ndiye bwanji osasokoneza izi.
Yesetsani kukhala ofatsa, opanikizika, mumusonyezeni kuti iye ndi wokondedwa kwa inu. Mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kupanga kupuma kwabwino, kudzakuthandizani kuti muziyenda bwino. Tsambulani mbali iliyonse ya thupi lake, musadutse komanso mumakhudza. Musamangidwe! Iwe ndiwe mtsikana wamkulu ndipo muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti pabedi mulibe ziboda komanso zoletsedwa sizingakhale, ngati zili zokondweretsa onse awiri. Pa bedi la chikondi, palibe malo a mantha kapena tsankho.
Mwa njira, ine ndiyenera kuzindikira kuti ngati inu mukugwirizana ndi maubwenzi a nthawi yaitali ndi kupusitsidwa nthawizonse kwa mwamuna pabedi, osati nthawi imodzi, musalole kuti muyanjane mu masiku oyambirira achidziwitso. Kawirikawiri sizimatsogolera pa zabwino. Koma nthawi ya nthawi yoyamba kugonana ingagwiritsidwe ntchito podzipindulira nokha. Phunzirani chikhalidwe chake, funsani zambiri za zomwe amakonda pa kugonana. Mwachitsanzo, munaphunzira kuti mwamuna wanu amakonda kukhala pamtunda panthawi yogonana, dziwani - musanakhale woimira anthu ambiri, omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zonse ndi kulikonse kukhala mtsogoleri. Ngati kholo lanu likukutsani inu - lolani kuti izi zikhale zabwino. Mwamuna yemwe amakonda ntchito pa gawo la mkazi nthawi zambiri amakhala mtsogoleri, pomvera kwake pali anthu ambiri, choncho ali pabedi amafuna kuchitapo kanthu. Mpatseni iye mwayi woti amve kugonjetsedwa, kugonjetsedwa ... ndi inu ... Choncho molimba mtima kukwera pa iye ndi kulamula izo mwanzeru.
Kwenikweni, izi ndizo malamulo oyambirira a kunyengedwa kwa munthu pabedi. Ingokumbukirani - khalani mwachilengedwe momwe mungathere. Ngati mnzanuyo akukumverani, ndiye kuti mukuyenda mwachangu, mumayankha mogwirizanitsa ndi kugwidwa ndi thupi lake. Chinthu chachikulu sichikuphwanya chirichonse, munthuyo si wopusa ndipo amatha kuzindikira kuti simunamvere. Palibe chifukwa choyenera kumukhumudwitsa panthawi yogonana. Ngakhalenso nthabwala zapadera, kunja kwa malo akuti, zikhoza kupweteka kunyada kwake. Kodi mfuti yake inaphedwa? Chabwino, izi zimachitika, nthawi yotsatira zinthu zonse zidzakhala zosiyana, musaziganizirepo. Pemphani kuti muzimuthandizira kuti muzimuthandiza. Muwonetseni mtundu wachangu umene mumakhala naye chifukwa cha ulemu wake, kumupweteketsa, kumupsompsona ndi kukhala wotsimikiza, mwamunayo adzayamikira. Mwachidziwikire, amakondwera kwambiri kuti akhoza kukukhutiritsani, kotero kumapeto kwa chikondi, musaiwale kumuthokoza chifukwa cha nthawi ya chimwemwe.