Ndine mtsikana wokongola kwambiri komanso wachikulire wa moyo waulele. Koma posachedwapa, ndinavomera kukhala mkazi ndipo ndikufotokozera chifukwa chake sindinachite izi. Sindinadabwe kwambiri kuposa momwe ndinagwirira ntchito mu December chaka chatha. Ndamudziwa mkwati mmoyo wanga wonse: tinapita kusukulu limodzi, zaka khumi ndi zitatu zapitazo tinakumana ndi chilimwe chonse, koma aliyense adayenda yekha. Abwenzi anga atadziwa kuti zaka zonsezi takhala tikusiyana ndi Gosha, amayamba kulira kuti adakhala mosasamala. Koma, ndikuganiza kuti izi ndi zaka zanga - chuma changa. Gosh, ine ndikutsimikiza, samadandaula chirichonse kaya ...
"Buluyo ndi maziko, nyumba yolimba, ndi zomwe zimamveka bwino, ndiye kuti ndife ofunikira kwambiri," monga momwe blond imayimba. Anadziŵa zomwe anali kuimba ponena za: maseŵera abwino amafuna ufulu wochuluka. Amatilolera kuti tizilumikizane ndi zovuta zomwe zimapangitsa kuti tisayesetse kuzindikira chabwino ndi choipa kumanzere kwa nyumba. Pambuyo pofufuza zomwe ndikukumana nazo komanso zomwe ndikukumana nazo khumi ndi awiri a abwenzi anga, ndadzafika kumapeto kuti padzakhala magawo 10 otembenuka mu moyo wa mkazi aliyense. Ndipo, asanati asankhe kunena "inde" kwa munthu woyenera ndikusunga mawu ake. Nthawi izi ndi malamulo a golidi omwe angatithandize pamoyo wa aliyense wa ife. Momwe iwo anandithandizira ine kamodzi.
1. KUSAKHALA KUTI MUZIKUMBUKIRE NDIPO MUZIKHULUPIRIRA.
Mnzanga Anne ali ndi zaka 28, ndipo ndi mkazi wanzeru. Pa nthawi yomweyo, amakhulupirira kuti kuyenda kudzera m'masautso ndizofunika kwambiri mu chikondi. Zaka zisanu zapitazo, Anna anakumana ndi mnyamata, amene anakopeka naye ngakhale kuti mutu wake unanyezimira kulembedwa kuti "padzakhala mavuto". Tsiku lina madzulo m'bwalo lomwe adamupempha. Ndipo adagwirizana ndi kumwa mowa ndi maso ake opyoza. Koma miyezi iwiri isanakwane, iye anasintha malingaliro ake ndipo anasiya chinthucho. Chifukwa chiyani? "M'malo mwa ulendo wapamtima wokondana ndi ine, anapempha Petro kuti apite naye ku chipatala, chimene anandiuza pamakalata." Anna sanayankhe kalatayo, popeza sanabweretse vutoli kubwezeretsa mphete yomwe adalandira kwa sham. Pa ulendowu, iye anapita yekha ndipo ananyengerera ndalama zabwino za ndalama zomwe analandira kuchokera ku sitolo yodzikongoletsera. Ali pamtunda, anakumana ndi Tolik, osakhala chidakwa ndipo osati konse. Miyezi ingapo iwo amasaina - popanda phokoso lambiri ndi fumbi la diamondi.
2. MUSAMAPE KUYESA NEW.
M'gulu la abwenzi anga Alice, 27, wodzichepetsa kwambiri. Ngakhale jeans ndi oyeretsa. Ndipo fifa iyi imati mtsikana wake adabweretsa limodzi la phindu lawo, komwe tsiku lililonse la chaka liyenera kuyankhidwa. Mkwati anatsindika pa "mphero" (mkaziyo akutsitsa manja ake pansi, ndipo wokondedwayo akukweza miyendo yake). "Sindinali wokondwa kwambiri kuti ndine raskoryachivatsya pamaso pa wokondedwa wanu, yemwe akuyenera kundipanga ine kupereka ndi kutchula zaka zake. Koma chidwi chinalipo. Ndipo sindinadandaule nazo! "Mkwati nayenso anakonda zochitikazi - ndipo zopereka sizinayembekezere, koma Alisa akuwononga nthawi. Zimamuwonekeranso kuti chipinda chokwatirana sichinthu chosavuta kuti chikhale chokoma. Ndipo mkwati amayesera. Zovuta.
3. KODI MUNGADZIWE KUTI MUDZAKHALA OTHANDIZA?
O, inde, ili ndi lamulo lagolide. Pasanathe mwezi umodzi wapitawo, chibwenzi changa Gosh ananditengera ku sitolo kukatenga desiki. "Ine ndimakonda iyo, ndi kavalo woyera," ine ndinati. "Ngakhale kuti mwendo umenewo ndi wabwino kwambiri ..." Gosh anaseka: "Maganizo anga, simudziwa kupanga zosankha nkomwe." Ndinapsa mtima kwambiri, ndipo anapitirizabe kumwetulira mpaka nditachipeza - ndithu, ali bwino! Iyi ndi nthawi yomwe mumadzichepetsa komanso kudzichepetsa modzichepetsa nokha kuti mumakhalabe ofooka, ndipo mumatanthawuza kuti magawo a smalt apangidwa kukhala chitsanzo chosavuta komanso chokongola - limodzi lonse. Kudziwa nokha ngati chinthu chofooka sikophweka, koma n'kofunikira. Kupweteka kwa kuzindikira zolakwa zanu sikungatheke kuposa kupweteka kochokera pansi. Koma chimwemwe chokhala ndi chidaliro chakuti amadziwa inu ndikukumvetsetsani bwino, amachiritsa moyo wanu wonse.
4. PHUNZITSANI KUCHITA.
Bwenzi langa Sasha, wazaka 25, ndi wotsimikiza kuti kulimbana ndi misozi ndi kuzunza kwasintha moyo wake. Zonsezi zinayamba ndikutsimikizira kuti Sasha, yemwe adamuyendetsa bwino, anayamba kusewera ndi banjali ndi wachibwenzi wake wa Sasha tsopano. Anakhumudwa, bwenzi langa - nayenso. "Ndinakwiya kwambiri! Koma ndinazindikira kuti ngati sitidziwa, ndiye kuti tidzatha kugawana. Ndinafunika kuvomereza kuti chowombera ichi chinali chokongola kuposa ine. Koma pamene ife tinagwirizanitsa! "Zoonadi, apa mkhalidwewu unapulumutsidwa makamaka ndi luso lomwelo lozindikira kufooka kwake. Ndipo kukhoza kusokoneza. Ndipo popanda izi mu moyo wa banja - basi paliponse.
5. MUSATATUMUTSE SOS SIGNAL.
Sitiwonetsa kawirikawiri zofooka zathu kwa amuna. Ndipo mopanda phindu, monga momwe mnzanga Evgenia adadziwira. 26. "Nthawi ina ndinaganiza zopachika mabuku a mabuku okhawo," akukumbukira mkazi yemwe kale anali wodziimira. - Ndipo izi zinandiyendera bwino - mpaka mphutsi idagwa ndipo zomangamanga zonse zinayamba kugwera pa ine. Ndinadandaula, adathamanga ndikugwira regiment. Ndipo iye anati: "Si ntchito ya tsar, ndipo ndithudi si ya mkaziyo. Simunafune kufunsa? Ndipo ine, ndikuyenda, ndikusangalala kukwaniritsa zopempha zanu. " Makhalidwe abwino: chikondi - landirani thandizo lake. Ndipo ku Jahena ndi kumasulidwa!
6. PHUNZITSANI KUDZIWA ZOCHITIKA.
Potsatira ndondomeko iyi yagolide, chinthu chachikulu sizingachedwe ndi kuganiza. Zaka zingapo zapitazo, chibwenzi chokwiya chinandifikitsa: wokongola, wolemera, ndi wolemera - sindiloleni ndikulekerere ndi mwana wake. Koma pamene tinkapita kwinakwake, sindinasangalale. Anali wamwano komanso wosasangalatsa poyera komanso kunja. Potsiriza iye anasiya kunditcha ine, ndipo ... izo zinandipangitsa kumva bwino. Kufunafuna mwamuna molingana ndi mndandanda wa zofunikira ndikutaya nthawi. Kawirikawiri, ine, nditadutsa mawu oti "ndalama", analemba "nthabwala" kuchokera pamwamba. Ndipo moyo ukumwetulira kwa ine mpaka lero.
7. MUSAMAPE KUPITA KU MOUNTAIN.
Amati munthu wabwino kwambiri amadziwika pa tchuthi. Mnzanga Julia, wa zaka 25, adanena kuti atatha ulendo wopita ku Burma, ubale wake ndi Marik unayamba kufalikira. Tsiku lina mtsogoleriyo anawatsogolera kupita ku phiri kumene mapazi a munthu wa kumadzulo akuganiza kuti sanapite. Yulia anati: "Sitinayambe kuchita nawo zokopa alendo. - Ndipo njirayi inayikidwa pafupi ndi miyala. Mitsempha imapereka, ndipo kuti asagwe pansi, pali chiyeso chachikulu chogwera pa yemwe ali pafupi. Komabe, izi sizinachitike - Marik, osati mtundu wolepheretsa kwambiri padziko lapansi, adakhala wolimba komanso wosadzikonda. Ndipo ndinazindikira: ngati ndi munthu wotereyo ndinakwera phiri ndikulichotsa moyo ndikusavulaza, ndiye kuti tifunika kuthamanga pamodzi ndi zopinga zomwe zili m'chigwa chokhala pamodzi. " Kuyambira apo iwo akuthamanga: pamodzi komanso osapambana.
8. KUKHALA KWAKHALA.
Kwa zaka zambiri tatsutsa munthu wathu, ndipo palibe chithandizo chabwino mwa kudzizunza kumeneku kuposa munthu wina amene amatikonda ife popanda tsatanetsatane. Mnzanga Ira, wa zaka 30, akutiuza za mwamuna wake kuti: "Takhala pamodzi kwa nthawi yaitali, koma ndikapanda kusokoneza, amathabebe ndi chimwemwe. Chifukwa cha changu chake, ndikukhulupirira zogonana ndi mphamvu ya ubale wathu. " Ndingatani apa ...
9. SMELL KUCHITA KUDZIWA KWAMBIRI.
Kugonana kumakhala kosasangalatsa. Ichi ndi axiom. Koma kumbuyo kwa chisanu chokongola kwambiri ndikutsimikiziridwa kuti ndimasamba bwino komanso kutentha kumene kumalamulira - malingana ndi malamulo onse a chilengedwe. Chofunikira ndi china: chilakolako chodziwa, mosasamala kanthu kalikonse, munthu wina asanafike mapeto.
10. ZINTHU ZOFUNIKA KUTI MUZIKHALA ZINTHU.
Lolani imodzi yokha, koma ine ndiri nayo imodzi. Kodi ndikuuzeni? Zizindikiro. Ndiye iye ndi chinsinsi, kuti asamafotokoze mwatsatanetsatane. Chabwino, ine ndikuuza: izo zinali mu Cuba pansi pa kanjedza. Zomwe ndimakumbukira ndimakhala mumtima mwanu, ndimamva kugunda komwe ndimataya mutu. Kupezeka kwa zinsinsi kumasonyeza kuti moyo sunayambe kudutsa. Ndipo iwo ndi ofunikira, kotero kuti mu zaka 95 mu mpando wokhotakhota akadakali chinsinsi kwa winawake amene anayenda motsatira.
Zoonadi, pafupifupi zigawo 10 zokopa mu moyo wa mkazi aliyense zingakhale nthawi yaitali kukangana. Winawake ali ndi zocheperapo - sizofunikira kwambiri. Chinthu chachikulu ndikudutsa mwa iwo musanapange chisankho chofunika kwambiri. Pitirizani kutsatira malamulo a golidi omwe angakuthandizeni pamoyo wanu. Kuti mudziwe nokha. Dzivomerezeni nokha. Ndipo zonse zidzatha, ndipo zidzathetsedwa, ndipo zidzaikidwa pamasalefu, ndipo sizidzasokoneza khoma la mavuto a banal. Ayi.