Mukabwerera kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito, mumasiyidwa nokha ndi inu. Mphungu yaikulu imakukuta ndi cocoon wolimba kwambiri. Inu mumadzigwira nokha mukuganiza kuti mukuyankhula mokweza ndi makamu omwe mumakonda kwambiri wailesi, ndipo TV yosavuta yakhala membala wathunthu wa banja ... Zomwe amayi akusowa, momwe angachitire ndizofotokozedwa pansipa.
Kusungulumwa ndi mtundu wa kudzidziwitsa wekha, monga mwa onse oiwalika, odulidwa, osiyidwa, osowa. Musanayambe kulimbana ndi kusungulumwa, muyenera kumvetsa zomwe zimayambitsa. Kawirikawiri pali atatu okha:
Zoyembekezera zambiri
Makhalidwe athu nthawi zambiri samagwirizana ndi miyezo ya anthu ena. Anthu oyandikana nawo amaoneka ngati ife opusa, osasangalatsa, osakhala auzimu. Kufufuza kwa munthu woyenera kuyankhulana kungachedwetse, ndipo kuwopseza kwa moyo wonse kuti akhalebe yekha kumangokula.
Yankho:
Musayang'ane munthu wangwiro, bwenzi langwiro. Palibe zolinga zenizeni! Kawirikawiri chithunzi chopanda chidziwitso chimapangidwa osati kuchokera ku zikhulupiliro za moyo weniweni, koma kuchokera m'maganizo anu. Kusweka kwa mgwirizano ndi dziko lenileni sikutilola kuti timvetse kuti mu moyo wamba anthu awa sangakhale mabwenzi abwino, oyanjana, okonda. Posachedwa mudzapeza "zambiri" zosokoneza "mwa munthu aliyense, zomwe nthawi zonse zimadzetsa kutayika kwa zokopa zilizonse. Njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera vutoli ndi kuganizira za "pluses".
Kuopa kukanidwa, mantha a kuyankhulana
Mofanana ndi mantha alionse, mantha oyankhulana amachokera ku kudzichepetsa. Mukuwopa kuyankhulana ndi anthu omwe sayenera kukanidwa, chifukwa chakuwopa kukhala osasangalatsa. Koma ngati mukuganiza kuti simuli woyenerera chikondi, ndiye kuti simudzadikira! Kumbukirani izi.
Yankho:
Kulankhulana zambiri. Ziribe kanthu momwe zinalili zovuta komanso zosasangalatsa poyamba. Palibe chifukwa chokhala pakhomo nthawi zonse! Munthu wosirira yekhayo ndi wosaoneka kuti akuwonekera mwadzidzidzi "kuchokera kuti". Simusowa kuti mukhale ndi heroine ya njinga yapamwamba yomwe imakwera pansi pa bedi kwa zaka makumi anai, ndikuyesera kupeza munthu pamenepo, ndipo pambuyo pake pali zina makumi anayi, kuti mwayi wowonjezera bwino.
Tsopano mamiliyoni a anthu akudziwa intaneti. Izi, ndithudi, sizomwe zimakhala zofunikira pazomwe zimapindulitsa, chifukwa amuna omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi zibwenzi limodzi. Komabe, anthu ambiri mu intaneti amasonyeza mopanda mantha maganizo awo, kukondana ndi kusewera. Sankhani! Musamafulumire kukangamira khosi la bongo lokongola ndi chithunzi cha pulogalamu chifukwa chakuti adanena kuti mulibe kanthu.
Kusakondwa kosavuta kulankhula
Anthu oterowo amawoneka ngati amakonda kulankhulana, koma amawathamangira mwamsanga ndipo chidwi chimatayika. Kudzimva kusungulumwa ndi zifukwa zosiyanasiyana zowawa pamutu uwu zimabwera chifukwa cha kusokonezeka pakati pa zilakolako zawo zobisika ndi kuyanjidwa kwa anthu. Kusungulumwa kotereku sikuchokera pa chikhalidwe, koma pa umunthu wanu. Cholakwika ndizosungiramo zinthu zonse, zomwe ndi zovuta kuwongolera.
Yankho:
Yesetsani kudzikonda nokha! Khalani mogwirizana ndi dziko lanu lamkati. Inde, si zophweka. Poyambirira, tifunika kusiya kuwona dziko lapansi monga momwe amachitira akazi akale omwe ali pabenchi, akufunsa kuti: "Ndizotani kuti muli 30 ndipo simunakwatirane, mulibe ana?". Phunzirani kudziyimira, perekani nthawi yanu yonse yaulere. Chitani chinthu chomwe mumawakonda, mudzaze tsikuli ndikumverera bwino. Onetsetsani kanema yomwe mumaikonda, muziyenda musanagone, mukasambe madzi osambira, werengani buku lanu lokonda, mvetserani nyimbo. Kwa munthu yemwe amachititsa kuti anthu azigwirizana, anthu amayamba kutambasula. Kumwetulira kwaubwenzi ndi chiyembekezo chanu sichidzasiya ena osasamala.