Nsanje.
Mwinamwake, iwo omwe amati sanaganizepo aliyense mu miyoyo yawo ndi achinyengo. Posakhalitsa, kaduka imatipeza ndipo sitingathamangire. Wokondedwa amakhala ndi chiwerengero chabwino, chomwe adachilandira, ndipo simunasiye masewera olimbitsa thupi kwa chaka. Wophunzirayo anakhala mutu wa chaka pambuyo pa maphunziro omaliza maphunziro a yunivesite, mwakhala pamalo omwewo kwa zaka 5. Winawake ali ndi mwamuna, ndipo mulibe galu. Wina ali ndi galimoto yaikulu, ndipo muli ndi njinga pabwalo. Pali zifukwa zambiri zochitira kaduka, kungomupatsa chifuniro, pamene akuopseza mutu wake.
Nsanje imabweretsa mantha athu, kudandaula ndi mwayi wosaphonya, zovuta ndi zolakwika. Mnzako angakhale mkazi wolemera amene amangovala zovala zamakono zomwe simukuziganizira. Wothandizana naye adakhala mtsogoleri wamkulu, chifukwa adayenera kukhala ambuye wa Bwana wakale komanso woipa. Mwamuna wa munthu wina amasintha zowonjezereka za munthu wina, makampani a galimoto ndi tsitsi. Koma simukudziwa za izi ndipo mukupitiriza kukhala achisoni.
Mwinamwake, kumverera uku kuyenera kutayidwa poyamba.
Ego yaikulu.
Aliyense wa ife amadziona kuti ndi wapadera ndipo ali ndi ufulu wochita zimenezo. Ngati muli otsimikiza kuti palibenso wina wabwino kusiyana ndi inu ndipo simungathe kukhalapo, ngati mukuganiza kuti aliyense akuyenera kukukondani chifukwa choti muli, ngakhale mutakhala ndi khalidwe, izi zili kale mavuto. Pamapeto pake, mukhoza kuonedwa kuti ndinu wodzikonda komanso wosadzikonda.
Chotsani zazikulu zanu, zomwe zakhala zikulepheretsani kukhala ndi moyo, kumamatira kuzing'onong'ono zonse zopweteka ndi kuvulaza ena. Mudzadzimva mwamsanga nthawi yomweyo ndipo musayesetse kukhala ndi matenda a megalomania.
Akudziwa zonse.
Kodi simunazindikire kuti pazochitika zonse zosavuta ndi zovuta mumayamba kuphunzitsa ena moyo? Kodi mukugawira malangizo kumanja ndi kumanzere, ngakhale simudapemphedwa? Ngati simukulola achibale kuthetsa mavuto awo payekha, ngati mukakumana ndi kuika maganizo anu, ndi nthawi yoti muime. Ganizirani, kodi maganizo anu ndi enieni okha, kapena mungathe kulakwitsa? Imani ndikuchotsani njira yophunzitsira aliyense ndi aliyense ndipo mudzawona kuti pali zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa padziko lapansi zomwe simukuzidziwa.
Chikondi cha kufooka.
Anthu ena samabisa zofooka zawo, amawakonda, amayamikira komanso amayamikira. Iwo amadziwa zonse zomwe zimakhala zabodza, ndi miyendo yopotoka, ndi ntchentiness, ndi pettiness, koma ... safulumira kuchotsa izo. Ngati mukuganiza kuti nkhani yabwino kwambiri yokambirana ndi kukambirana za zolakwa zanu, ndiye kuti muyenera kuzindikira kuti mulibe abwenzi ambiri, koma aliyense amene akufuna kuti apolisi amve mosavuta wodwalayo mwiniwakeyo.
Chotsani kudzimvera chisoni ndikuyamba kuthetsa zifukwa zomwe mumadzifunira nokha chisoni.
Kubwezera.
Inde, nthawizina ngakhale anthu oyandikana nawo amapanga zinthu zonyansa ngati zimenezo, zomwe sizingayankhidwe. Koma ngati mutabwezera anthu pa zifukwa zonse - ndikukankhidwira mumsewu wapansi komanso kuti mwataya mphotho, nkoyenera kulingalira zomwe ziri zolakwika ndi inu. Muzovuta zina, mukhoza kudziimba mlandu nokha, osati kwa ena. Musati muziimba mlandu mapewa awo. Khululukirani anthu omwe mwangozi kapena mwakukhumudwitsani kwambiri, yesani kuiwala izi ndikumabwezera. Yesetsani kukhala mosiyana, kukhala okoma mtima kwambiri. Mudzafulumira kumva kuti moyo wakhala wosavuta popanda chidani chopondereza.
Tonsefe tiri ndi zofooka. Wina amakonda kupanga malonjezo ndipo samawakwaniritsa. Wina amakhala wodandaula pa nthawi iliyonse, wina akugona nthawi iliyonse, wina sangathe kulankhula china chilichonse koma za iwo okha. Sitizindikira nthawi zonse zolephera izi, koma nthawi zambiri timawona ena. Mwinanso kuyeretsa nthawi zonse kungakhale njira yabwino kwambiri yochotsera mchitidwe wosasangalatsa. Kumalo awo akhoza kubwera zina, zomwe zingakupangitseni bwino.