Pamodzi kapena padera?
Musafulumire kugula mabedi awiri. Kukula kwa mapasa omwe amangobadwa kumene ndi ochepa kuposa a ana wamba, kotero amatha kugona pabedi limodzi ndipo sangasokoneze wina ndi mnzake. Komanso, kukhala pamodzi kwa iwo ndizozoloŵera komanso zowonjezera. Ana omwe ali ndi miyezi isanu ndi anayi ali pamodzi ndi amayi omwe ali pachibelekero, nthawi yoyamba amakhala omasuka pamene ali pafupi. Koma muyenera kukonzekera ana okalamba kuti posachedwa zidzakwanira momasuka mabedi awiri.
Kuchokera
Mavuto omwe ali ndi chakudya angathe kuchitika mwa amayi onse, makamaka amayi a mapasa. Amayi ambiri odziwa bwino amatha kuyamwa ana awiri mwakamodzi, popanda kuwonjezera maukwati awo. Izi zikhoza kuchitika ngati ana apatsidwa chisamaliro choyenera. Mukhoza kutsogolera njirayi, ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito mtolo wapadera popatsa mapasa. Zimasindikizidwa ngati mawonekedwe a kavalo wamkulu, omwe amavala pachiuno, ndipo kumbali zonse ziwiri za mtolo umene anauika ndi ana. Kudyetsa mapasa nthawi imodzi kumakhala ndi ubwino wambiri. Poyamba, mayiyo ali ndi mavitamini ambiri omwe amapanga mavitamini, omwe amakhudza kwambiri mkaka wopangidwa. Chachiwiri, nthawi imapulumutsidwa kwambiri, ndipo panthawi ino mkaziyo akusowa kwambiri! Ndipo kotero kudzakhala kotheka kutenga nthawi yopanda theka kuti mukhale pansi.
Pamodzi, ndizosangalatsa!
Mukasankha woyendetsa masewera, samverani kukula kwake, kulemera kwake, kuwonetseredwa bwino komanso kukwanitsa kuyendetsa. Kawirikawiri, woyendetsa mapasa m'mapangidwe okwera angagwirizane pokhapokha atapangidwa. Kusiyanitsa kwakukulu pakati pa oyendetsa kawiri ndi momwe ana amaikamo: ana amakhala mbali imodzi, kapena limodzi, ndi "locomotive". Zonsezi ndizo ubwino ndi kuipa kwake. Ngati ana ali pafupi, zimakhala zosavuta kuyankhulana wina ndi mzake, chifukwa chimodzimodzi chiwerengero cha ndemanga chikutsegulidwa. Koma "zinyumba" zimakhala zowonongeka kwambiri ndipo zimayikidwa mu chombo cha katundu, mu khola kapena pa khonde.
Kusamba limodzi
Makolo ali ndi mafunso ambiri okhudzana ndi njira yosavuta monga kusamba. Ndi mapasa, nthawi zina izi zimakhala zovuta. Funso lofunika kwambiri ndi kusamba ana pamodzi kapena mosiyana (makamaka ngati sakugonana). Inde, m'chaka choyamba cha moyo ndibwino kusamba mapasa pambali. Ndipo kale pamene ana akukula ndipo angathe kukhala ndi chidaliro, mukhoza kuwasamba mumadzi osamba nthawi imodzi. Kotero ndi bwino kuti makolo azikonzekera kusamalira mapasa, ndipo kwa makanda amakhala osangalatsa kwambiri. Musaiwale za chitetezo ndipo musasiye ana okha m'madzi. Ngati anawo ali azimayi osiyana, ndiye kuti muyenera kuyang'anitsitsa khalidwe lawo. Kuzindikira kusamala kwambiri kwa ana pazosiyana ndi zosiyana siyana, ndiye, mwina, ichi ndi chizindikiro choti musambe kusamba kwa ana. Mungathe kusambitsanso ana m'magalimoto a kusambira. Kumbukirani kuti kuletsa ana kukhala ndi chidwi ndi matupi awo sikutheka! Kotero mungathe kungopangitsa anthu kukhala ndi chidwi chokwanira komanso kuwonjezera chidwi.
Chinthu chachikulu ndicho chitsimikizo!
Simungayesedwe kuti "mugawitse" ana pa mfundo zabwino - zoipa, zosangalatsa - zotsekedwa, zonyansa - zongokhala chete. Ana ali ndi udindo wokula monga momwe makolo amawaonera, ndipo kulemba mawu owonjezera nthawi zambiri kumapangitsa kuti pakhale mapangidwe akuluakulu a mwanayo. Yesetsani kuona zabwino zomwe mwana aliyense ali nazo, musayese kuzifanizira ndi mapasa ndipo musalole kuti muzimasuka zolakwika pa ana. Ndipo mochuluka kwambiri musapatse mwayi kwa ena (ngakhale ali achibale apamtima) kuti afotokoze ndemanga pa nkhaniyi.
Izi ndi zofunika!
Kukonzekera kusamalidwa kawiri sikungodyetsa komanso kusamba. Udindo wofunikira umasewedwanso ndi kulera kwawo, kapena kuti kuthekera kwa makolo kuti awone mwana aliyense. Makolo ambiri amavala mapasawo mofanana, kuti apitirize kutsimikizira kuti ndi ndani. Icho, ndithudi, chimayambitsa chikondi kumacheza. Koma molingana ndi mawu a psychologists a ana, kulakwitsa kwakukulu mu maphunziro a mapasa ndi generalization yawo yonse, kuwonongedwa kwa nkhope pakati pa makhalidwe awiri osiyana. Zonsezi zingalepheretse ana kudziyesa okha. Mapasa onse amafuna kudzizindikira yekha osati "ife", koma monga "Ine". Ndipo kuvala komweku kumatsindika kokha "kuyendetsa" kwawo. Choncho, tiyenera kuyesetsa kuti tipeze zowonjezera za zovala za ana, kulera ana ogwirizana, koma zofanana, zinthu zosiyana.