M'mabuku akale, mungapeze zitsogozo ndi mafanizo achikondi cha Chifalansa (izi ndi zomwe kugonana kwa m'kamwa kumatchedwa lero). Zina zoterezi zinaiwalika pakapita nthawi. Izi zinali chifukwa chakuti nthawi iliyonse yabweretsa ubale wawo ndi thupi la munthu komanso kuchita chiwerewere.
Kwa mabanja ambiri amakono, si chinsinsi kuti milomo ndi lilime ndi zida zodabwitsa zomwe zimabweretsa zokondweretsa zambiri. Ziwalo zoberekera zamwamuna za Laski, madokotala, sexologists amatchedwa felacio, ndi malo apamtima aakazi - cunnilingus.
Mosiyana ndi malingaliro a anthu kuti pamlomo caresses ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yogonana, oimira akazi ambiri amakana kuchita chikondi choterechi, akukamba kuti kugonana kumaleche ndikokuphwanya malamulo ndipo kumafuna kuti chigamulo choyipa chikhale choyipa, ndipo, chifukwa chake, n'kosatheka kumasula mkazi. Komabe, akazi otero sapempha chifukwa chomwe amachitira manyazi ndi mwamuna wawo. Azimayi akuwopa kuti kununkhira ndi kulawa kwa malo awo apamtima akuwoneka osasangalatsa kwa wokondedwayo. Komabe, kwakhala kale kudziwika kuti fungo lachilengedwe lazimuna, ndithudi, ngati mayiyo ali wathanzi ndipo amadzisamalira yekha, amadabwitsa kwambiri anthu.
Kuphatikizanso apo, anthu ogonana amatsutsa kuti zosakondweretsa ndi mantha pa zonyansa za ziwalo zankhaninkhani ndizo tsankho zomwe ziribe chifukwa chilichonse chamankhwala. M'kamwa kamene munthu amakhala ndi tizilombo toyambitsa matenda timakhalamo ndipo apa pali zambiri kuposa malo amodzi. Kugonana kwachisawawa, malinga ndi kugonana kwa amuna okhaokha, njira yabwino kwambiri yolimbikitsira kugonana. Ndiponsotu, kumpsompsonana kwa malo apamtima kungabweretse bwenzi kumalo opambana. Kukhumudwa koteroko kungakhale mbali yogonana.
Pakati pa chibwenzi, nthawi zonse mumatha kupeza kuchokera kwa mnzanu mwachangu, zokhumba zake, komanso kugawana malingaliro anu ogonana. Ena mwa kugonana kosangalatsa sangathe kumasuka panthawi yogonana. Komabe, wina ayesetse "kumvetsera" kumverera kwa wokondedwa. Ndikofunika kuti mukhale omvetsera pang'ono: yesani ndikuwonani zomwe mnzanuyo akuchita. Kusangalala kwa mwamuna wake, monga kusakanikirana, kumapangitsa chikhumbo chakukhutitsani inu. Izi zimachitika kuti mkazi amanyazidwe ndi lingaliro lakuti wokondedwa wake adzakhudza milomo ya malo ake apamtima. Koma nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti mwamuna nthawi zonse amasangalala kukwaniritsa wokondedwa wake. Kuwonjezera apo, kunyada kwake kumakondwera ndi kutseguka kwake ndi chidaliro chake, komanso kuthetseratu zopinga zonse zamaganizo m'maukwati awo.
Kugonana momasuka ndi wokondedwa ndi kupambana kwa mkazi. Mwamuna amamvetsetsa zogonana. Ubale mwa awiri awiriwa umamangidwa pa chikondi, chikondi ndi kumvetsetsa.
Kodi kugonana kumlomo kungakhale koyenera? Posachedwa, mtundu uwu wa caress unaletsedwa, zomwe nthawi zambiri zinkasokoneza mgwirizano waukwati. Chifukwa cha kusokonezeka kwa ubale chinali kugonjetsedwa ndi kusagwirizana ndi maganizo a mnzanuyo. Wothandizana naye adayankhula pamlomo, ndipo wachiwiri sakanatha kukwaniritsa wokondedwa wake chifukwa cha zikhulupiliro zake.
Amuna ambiri amavomerezedwa mu chiyanjano cha kugonana, koma 30% mwa iwo akukonda chikondi cha Chifalansa ndi amodzi. Amuna ena, kugonana kumalankhula kumangokhala ndi zibwenzi zosakwatirana, kumene kulibe zoletsedwa. Ndiyeno mkazi wake ndi wokonzeka kugonana. Gulu lina la amuna, French amakonda chikondi chodabwitsa, chifukwa amayamba kuganiza kuti wokondedwa wawo ndi womasuka kwambiri ndipo amavunda, choncho n'kosatheka kukwaniritsa mkazi woteroyo.
Kodi ndi bwino bwanji nthawi yokwanira kukwaniritsa chilakolako chogonana ndi mnzanuyo?
Tikulimbikitsidwa kuti tiyambe madzulo a chikondi cha Chifaransa ndi madzi osambira. Njirayi imatsitsimula ndikumasula, imasintha mawonekedwe omwe amafunidwa ndikuchotsa kukayikira konse ponyansa za malo apamtima. Poyamba, mwamuna ayenera kumetedwa mosamala kuti atsimikize kuti mayiyo sagwidwa ndi zowawa.
Pose "69" kapena phokoso losinthidwa la kugonana kumalankhula silokhazikika. Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito zoterezi, sizingatheke kuti mugwirizane ndi mnzanuyo ndipo nthawi yomweyo mukondwere nawo. Amagulu opatsirana pogonana amalimbikitsa anzawo kuti apeze zachiwerewere kuchokera kumagonana amlomo kuti akhumudrane. Kotero, mwachitsanzo, mkazi amagona kumbuyo kwake, ndipo mwamuna ampsyopsyona ntchafu zake ndikupita kumalo osangalatsa. Mwamuna sayenera kusintha mwadzidzidzi mphamvu yakupsompsona, kuti asangalale kwambiri, kusintha kumayenera kukhala pang'onopang'ono.
Atasintha maudindo, mwamunayo ayenera kugona kumbuyo kwake kapena kuimirira. Ndizofunikira kuti abwenzi aziyesera maulendo angapo kuti adziwe okha kuti ali ndi udindo wabwino komanso wabwino.
Inde, kugonana kwakamwa sikuyenera kukhala kokha kokha kwa ogonana nawo. Zochitika zogonana zimathandizira okwatirana omwe akhala palimodzi zaka zolimba, kulimbikitsana ndi kuonjezera mlingo wa potency. Amagulu opatsirana pogonana amalimbikitsa kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kwa amayi omwe ali ndi zisokonezo nthawi zambiri.
Malinga ndi chikhalidwe cha dziko komanso maganizo a dzikoli pamagulu ogonana amasiyana. Choncho, a Ukrainians samakana kuti azimayiwa ndi 70% amakhulupirira kuti njira imeneyi amachititsa kuti azikakamiza anzawo nthawi imodzi pamlungu.
Anthu a ku Russia ali osamala kwambiri, chifukwa amayi 40 ku Russia amakana kugonana. 20% a kugonana mwachilungamo akuchitidwa chikondi cha ku France osachepera 4 pa mwezi.
Koma woimira khumi ndi mmodzi wa ku Girisi amachitira chikondi cha Chifalansa tsiku ndi tsiku. Ambiri mwa azimayi a ku France amachitirana chiwerewere tsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo amayi makumi asanu ndi awiri (60%) a ku France amachititsa anzawo kuti azidyera kangapo kamodzi pa sabata.