Atsikana osakwatiwa nthawi zambiri amalota kuti tsiku lidzabwera pamene kalonga woyera (kapena woipa kwambiri, wamalonda ku Mercedes wakuda) adzawonekera pambuyo pawo, kupereka dzanja lake ndi mtima ndikupita naye ku ufumu wake kumene kulibe nkhawa ndi mavuto. Koma momwe tingakumanitsire munthu uyu wokongola kwambiri ndi wokongola mu dziko, ngati ife sitikudziwa momwe tingadziwire bwino?
Ndipo pomwepo anakumbukira nthawi yomwe Moyshakazhdy madzulo amamufunsa Mulungu kuti apambane cholota, zomwe pamapeto pake amayankha kuti zingakhale bwino kuyamba kugula tikiti ya loti. Mapeto a malemba awa, omwe ndi nthabwala zokha, ayenera kukhala motere: ngati mukufuna kugwira nsomba yaikulu, konzekerani zida zoyenera.
Ndibwino kukumana nanu
Atsikana amakono, ngakhale kuti ali ndi zosangalatsa, amavala mathalauza ndi jekete za amuna, amachita manyazi ndi pulogalamu yonse yogwiritsira ntchito phindu lomwe lingaliro lawo limapereka. Choncho, kuti mukwanitse kukumana ndi amunawa, pangani anzanu ambiri, musamawope ndikuwatsogolera. Kumbukirani, ino si nthawi yomwe mudzatsutsidwa chifukwa cha zochita zanu.
Kumene mungadziŵe
N'kutheka kuti mukakumanana ndi chikondi chanu mumzinda kapena pamsika, mutasankha nyama ya shish kebabs, mukufunika kukumbukira kuti muyenera kuyang'ana theka lachiwiri m'malo omwe mumadziwa bwino. Kodi mumaphunzira sayansi, mumathera masiku anu muzipinda zamakono, nthawi zambiri mumapezeka masemina ndi misonkhano? Chabwino, palibe chophweka kusiyana ndi kukonzekera kuti mumudziwe munthu amene mumamukonda komanso kumatha kungatembenuke kuti mupeze anzanu kapena mu chikondi ndi chinthu chimodzi. Loweruka ndi Lamlungu lirilonse mumakhala mumabwalo a usiku? Pano, palinso anthu okwanira omwe mungakumane nawo.
Choncho, malo otchuka kwambiri kukumana ndi mabungwe a anthu, omwe ndi yosungiramo zinthu zakale, ma libraries, malo owonetserako, malo owonetsera, mabombe. Izi ndi chifukwa chakuti muli ngati gawo losadziwika, kumene mungathe kulankhulana mwadongosolo.
Konzani ndi kukonzekera
Mutasankha kumene malo omwe mungathe kukhala nawo kachiwiri, mutha kulingalira za momwe mungapezere pazokambirana ndi zomwe mungayankhule maminiti oyamba.
Ngati ndondomeko yokhala ndi chibwenzi chodziimira payekha siyimayesedwa, yesetsani kupeza wamba ndi munthu amene mumamukonda - mwina, adzakhala wand-zashchalochkoy wanu. Komabe, pazochitika zotero, ndi bwino kudziwerengera nokha, mwinamwake zingatheke kuti mlendo wabwino adzatsogoleredwa ndi mnzanu wapamtima. Mwachidziwikire, pakakhala pano, mudzakhalabe opanda kanthu koma ngakhale mutagwiritsa ntchito thandizo la kunja kwa anthu omwe mumadziwana nawo, tsatirani izi kuti mukulankhulana nokha.
Kodi mumagwirizana chiyani?
Kuti mutenge chidwi ndi anzanu atsopano, m'pofunika kupeza mutu wamba wa zokambirana. Ngati munakumana pa chiwonetserochi, mukhoza kukambirana za ntchito zomwe zafotokozedwa pachithunzichi, pamphepete mwa nyanja kapena ku sanatorium ndi zabwino kukambirana zina zonse. Ngati simungathe kukhala ndi mutu wapadera, aliyense adzachita.
Njira yabwino yothetsera mnzanu pamene mukuchita izi ndikusokoneza zolinga zanu. Kotero, msungwana akhoza kutaya ngongole yake mwangozi, kukhumudwa, kufalitsa mapepala, ndipo kalonga adzakondwera kupereka thandizo lake. Kumbukirani, amuna amakonda kumverera ngati ankhondo ndipo akhoza kusewera bwino pa izi.
Kodi ndizovuta? Palibe cha mtundu uwu: pali maganizo okwanira ndi chidaliro kuti chirichonse chidzachitika. Ndipo zambiri: kumbukirani kuti, omwe mumadziwana nawo kwambiri, zimakhala zosavuta kulankhula ndi anthu atsopano.