Maganizo
Pano pali msungwana yemwe amabwera nthawi yomweyo, amapanga zolakwika zofanana, koma amakhala okhutira ndi nthawi yosangalala komanso amasangalala ndi moyo. Zikuwoneka kuti iye akuwoneka kuti ndi "moyo ndi kupuma chifuwa chonse," amasangalala ndi mphindi zonse zokongola ndipo akuchita zonse bwino, kuti ndizofunika kuchita. Timamuwona akusangalala ndi watsopano, pamene akuwala kuchokera mkati. ndi maloto. Koma pamene mtima wake wasweka kachiwiri, mukuganiza kuti: amaoneka bwanji wopusa kuchokera kunja. N'chifukwa chiyani akuvutika kwambiri? Chifukwa chiyani sindingathe kudzitenga, chifukwa aliyense amachita zimenezo, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti sivuta. Maganizo pa nkhope yake amasintha wina ndi mzake, kenako amavutika, kenanso amadzigwira yekha. Ndipo mwayi wotsatira ukabwera, amaugwira mwamphamvu.
Kodi munayamba mwakhalapo ndi milandu pamene munachita zosiyana ndi ena? Simunamvere makolo omwe nthawi zonse ankakukopani inu, koma munachita mwanjira yanu? Kapena mukamenyana ndi akuluakulu a boma, wamkulu amalamulira, ngakhale zofuna zawo ndi zolinga zawo basi? Chifukwa iwo ankafuna izo choncho? Pa milandu yonseyi, inu munachitadi kumvetsera maganizo anu. Ndipo n'zotheka, ngakhale theka la milanduyi, amadandaula zomwe adachita.
Ndipo ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri kumverera kumatilepheretsa ife, timabwereranso kwa iye mobwerezabwereza, timapanga zofuna zathu, timapanga, timapanga zolinga zathu. Timathamanga, kugwa, kuwuka ndikukhala ndi moyo. Mwa umunthu wa munthu uyu, mvetserani. Ndipo ngakhale mutasankha kukhulupirira kokha malingaliro anu - kudzakhala kudzinyenga nokha, chifukwa munthu sangathe kukhala wopanda maganizo. Ovomerezeka anali odalirika bwanji, sanapange zolinga zawo ndi malingaliro awo, aliyense wa ife ali ndi zofooka ndi "zofuna". Aliyense amafunika kulakwitsa nthawi zina, kuchita zinthu zonyansa kuti azikhala wamoyo.
Maganizo angakhale osankha omwe ali ofooka komanso amphamvu kwambiri. Pamene kumverera ndi kusankha kwa munthu wofooka - izi ndizozizunza zaka zambiri. Izi ndi zofooka, zojambulidwa zomwe sizikutilola kukhala ndi moyo. Uyu ndi mkazi yemwe sangathe kumusiya mwamuna wake-moledzera chifukwa cha kukhudzana ndi kusokonezeka. Izi ndizochitika zambiri pamene malingaliro amatiteteza kupanga chisankho chofunikira kwambiri, amatizunza, amavutitsa moyo. Maganizo ndi malingaliro sayenera kubweretsa mavuto aakulu. Ngati timasankha maganizo ndikumva chifukwa cha chisankhochi - ndiye chinachake cholakwika.
Pa nthawi yomweyi, maganizo amatha kukhala osankha kwambiri. Chifukwa pamene tikhulupirira chikhalidwe chathu - timadalira tokha. Ndi kusankha kwa munthu wodalirika amene amakhala mogwirizana ndi dziko lake la mkati. Chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri sitingasankhe, koma kusankha chisankho, chikhalidwe, chisankho chimene anthu ena apanga patsogolo pathu ndikupangira maganizo awa pa ife. Razum nthawi zambiri amawonongera maganizo. Munthu amene amakhulupirira maganizo awo sachita zolakwa mwa iwo. Pambuyo pa zonse, chofunikira chonse cha chisankho chimenechi, kuti asadandaule ndi kukhala wotsimikiza kotheratu kuti cholakwacho n'chokwanira. Maganizo amasankhidwa ndi munthu aliyense payekha komanso umunthu wamphamvu, chifukwa amadziwa kudziwonetsera okha ndi zomwe angauze dziko lapansi. Pambuyo pake, pamapeto pake, ndikumverera kwa ietik yomwe imatipanga ife anthu ndikudzaza miyoyo yathu ndi tanthauzo.
Maganizo
Munthu ali ndi "machimo" ake, zolakwa ndi kukayikira. Aliyense wa ife pa mphindi ina amaponya "mphete ya moyo", amathetsa mavuto, amathandizira kumvetsetsa vutolo komanso ngakhale kukhazikitsa. Pali anthu omwe amaganizira lingaliro lothandizira pazovuta zonse za moyo. Ndipotu, maganizo amachititsa kuti zisankho zisokonezeke, zimatipangitsa kukhala odzikonda komanso osadziwika ndi chilengedwe chathu. Maganizo ndi mwana wamng'ono wodzikonda mwa ife, amene amafuna kuti akwaniritse zovuta zake. Maganizo ndi munthu wachikulire yemwe nthawi ndi nthawi amasangalatsa mwanayo mkati. Komanso, kukonzekera komanso kusankha zochita kumatithandiza kupewa zolakwa zambiri.
Koma ngati mukukonzekera zonse pasadakhale, mwamsanga mungadzitenthe nokha. Anthu omwe amapereka njira zothetsera malingaliro amakhala oda nkhawa, amaopa kuchita chinachake cholakwika, kutaya, kupanga zolakwitsa. Kudalira "I" wanu nthawi zambiri kumathandiza, komanso kumvetsera zamkati. Njira ina imabweretsa nkhawa, kukhumudwa ndi kusamvana nokha. Posankha maganizo oyambirira kapena mochedwa, muzindikira kuti mbali yokhudzidwa ndi zotengeka zimachokera kwa inu ndi inu simungathe kuzimva bwino. Tsopano mu zokongola ndi zosangalatsa, malingaliro ndi kusanthula zimabwera populumutsa. Ndipo tsopano akutiuza kuti: "Zonse ziri bwino, zonse ndi zodabwitsa. Koma n'chifukwa chiyani ndimamva ngati wamng'ono? "
Chiyanjano mwa ife
Inde, palibe amene angasankhe njira imodzi yokha - kukhala ndi maganizo kapena kumverera. Timadziwa kuti m'madera osiyanasiyana ndi bwino kumvetsera maphwandowa. Ndipo, mwinamwake, iwo sali ngati amatsutso monga ife tiriri? Nthawi yosankha malingaliro, ndi nthawi yanji? Ndipotu, iwo sali oyipa kwambiri. Kukhala ndi chidziwitso kumabweretsa mgwirizano, komanso mogwirizana ndi zisankho zabwino zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuphatikiza mayankho a maphwandowa, kuyeza zozizwitsa zanu ndi zilakolako zanu, komanso kufufuza zomwe zikuchitika ndikupatseni mkhalidwe woganizira. Chidziwitso chidzatiuza nthawi yoti tizimvetsera. Ndipo ngakhale titapanga kulakwitsa, enawo adzatidzudzula, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusankha kwanu. Musawope njira zatsopano ndi njira zothetsera mavuto, muyenera kukhala ndi chidaliro pa zosankha zanu, musamenyane ndi inu nokha ndikudalira mtima wanu kapena maganizo anu. Ndi bwino kuphunzira kuchokera ku zolakwa zanu kusiyana ndi kumvetsera malangizo a ena.