Kodi mungayang'ane chiyani mukadandaula ndi makoswe mumaloto?

Tanthauzo la maloto omwe munawona makoswe.
Monga mu moyo weniweni, mu maloto, makoswe amachititsa kuti munthu asamangokhalira kukondana ndi anzake, makamaka ngati akukudani. Kwenikweni, kulota mabuku ndi olimba chifukwa ndi chizindikiro chosasangalatsa ndi choipa. Kutanthauzira kwa lotoli kumaphatikizanso kumadalira malingana ndi malo omwe nyama yakugwirani.

Kodi ngongole idalota chiyani?

Kodi zikutanthauzanji ngati makoswe akulira mu loto?

Otanthauzira ali ogwirizana pa lingaliro kuti makoswe amaluma mu loto samakhala bwino. Maloto oterewa angakhale chizindikiro chabwino payekha - ngati akukuyenderani chidendene. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mu kanthawi kochepa mudzasintha kwambiri ndalama zanu.

Chimodzi mwa matanthauzidwe amene makoswe akulirawo ndi awa: maloto obwerezabwereza mobwerezabwereza amasonyeza kuti wolota amatsatira chikumbumtima chake. Mwinamwake iye anachita chinthu chosafunikira, chomwe chinayambitsa kuti chifukwa cha iye, anthu omwe anali anzake anali muzovuta. Atangokhalira kuthana ndi vutoli m'moyo weniweni, kuchepetsa vutolo - zoopsa zimasiya kuzunza.

Ngati makoswe akukukozani ndi dzanja, khalani okonzekera mavuto a zachuma - samalani ndi ndalama zooneka ngati zopindulitsa panthawi yoyamba.

Kuluma kwa ndodo iyi ya mwendo kumapangitsa kusagwirizana m'banja chifukwa cha kuchitapo kanthu kwa wogona kapena, ngati njira, kukangana ndi abwenzi ake. Yesetsani kupeŵa mikangano, komanso, kuti muyambe kuyambitsa.

Chizindikiro chosayanjanitsika chimanenedwa ngati chilonda chimatuluka - ichi ndi chisonyezero kuti posachedwa wina wa achibale anu akhoza kudwala kwambiri. Njira yothetsera kumasulira malotowa ndikuti muyenera kukonzekera kudandaula, komwe kudzakhala kovuta kutuluka.

Ngati makoswe akukukozani m'maloto zovala, ndiye ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino - posachedwa mudzatha kulota maloto kapena cholinga, chomwe mwakhala mukupita kwa nthawi yaitali.

Ndipo ngakhale kutanthauzira kwakukulu sikuli koyenera, simuyenera kukwiya. Kufufuza molondola maloto anu, simungathe kufotokozera momveka bwino zochitika zomwe zidzachitika mtsogolomu, komanso mutenge njira zothandiza kukonzekera pasadakhale zovuta kapena kuziletsa.