Aliyense wa ife kamodzi amakumana ndi kupanikizika ndi nkhawa. Kodi mungagonjetse bwanji maganizo oipawa? Kodi mungathetse bwanji vutoli?
Chinthu choyamba kuchita, monga akatswiri a maganizo akulangiza, ndiko kudzuka ndi kumwetulira! Kumwetulira ndi chizindikiro cha mzimu wabwino! Ngati munadziwuza nokha kuti mwayi ukuyembekezerani lero, ndiye kuti muli ndi mwayi wokwanira tsiku lonse! Ngakhale kuli bwino, tilankhule pamaso pa galasi moona mtima mawu achikondi ndi kuyamikirika ku adiresi yanu, muzimva kukopa. Dzidzilemekezeni nokha ndi kulemekeza thupi lanu, yerekezani kuyamikira kwanu, mosasamala kanthu momwe zikukhudzira maonekedwe. Ndipo kachiwiri - kumwetulira! Vvalani, khalani tsitsi lanu, koma osati monga nthawi zonse: mukhoza kuwonjezera tsitsi lopanda tsitsi kapena zosaoneka bwino. Zinthu zazing'ono zimenezi nthawi zonse zimakupangitsani kumvetsera. Nsapato zochepa, thumba lachikwama, malaya amfupi kapena jekete. Ndipo ndithudi mafuta onunkhira! Sankhani chinachake chamabulosi kapena zokometsera. Mafuta a kum'mwera kwa dzuwa amakulowetsani m'nyanja yamchere! Ndipo nyengo ya chilimwe idzakhala ndi inu tsiku lonse!
Kodi kuchotseratu zonsezo?
Izi ndi kugula! Tsopano pali zambiri zomwe zimaperekedwa pamsika. Tengani chibwenzi ndi inu. Lembani mumsika wina wa mitundu yonse. Ndipo mutatha kusangalala, mukhoza kumasuka ndikupita ku filimu kapena gulu. Inde, ndi kokha ndi anzanu apamtima. Izi zidzakuthandizani kupewa kusungulumwa. Musakane chisamaliro ndi chidwi cha anthu oyandikira, tsopano mukuzisowa kwambiri kuposa kale lonse. Kuyankhulana kosangalatsa ndi kokhulupilira kungakhale yodetsa nkhaŵa yabwino, ndipo mwayi woyankhula ndi kumveka udzakumasula kudziko lopondereza. Mu kampani yokondwa ndi yowona mtima mudzachotsa kulimbika kwa nzeru ndi kusowa chifuniro, mudzapeza chikondi kwa inu nokha ndi moyo, mutha kubweretsa zozizwitsa kumoyo ndikudabwa nazo.
Ngati zonsezi sizikuthandizani! Ndikukulangizani kuti musinthe zinthu. Kodi mungachite bwanji zimenezi?
Mafilimu a Perekley m'chipinda chogona. Ndipo ndi mitundu yanji imene imakhudza mtima? Buluu ndi zoyera ndi mitundu yopanda ndale. Mitundu ya Brown, yakuda ndi ya buluu imapweteka psyche. Wofiira, wachikasu ndi lalanje - ndizo! Iwo sangakulole iwe kuti ukhale wovutika maganizo nthawi yonse yophukira ndi yozizira. Chitani chilolezo. Chipinda chiyenera kukhala ndi kuwala kwambiri. Sinthani makatani. Kapena pitani kwa masiku angapo, kapena masiku khumi. Pitani ku nkhalango ya shish kebabs, mugwiritse ntchito, kapena bowa. Samalani kumalongeza. Chilimwe chozizira chidzakumbukira masiku osaiwalika!
Inde, sikuti amayi onse amavomereza ndi malingaliro anga. Kwa iwo ine ndikulangiza izi zotsatirazi. Ngati simukufuna kuchoka panyumbamo, ndipo mukufuna kukhala madzulo m'nyumba yabwino, pamenepo pali yankho lanu - konzani chakudya chatsopano. Kapena, mwinamwake, simunayambe kwa wina aliyense kwa nthawi yaitali? Itanani mnzanu kapena bwenzi, lembani ku ICQ. Gulani magazini yatsopano. Kapena, ngati mukufuna kukhala nokha, ndipo mumakonda kuŵerenga, kuluka ndi kumanga nsalu, kenako sankhani wotsutsa kapena wosangalatsa. Mabuku oterewa salola kuti maganizo oipa azidziletsa. Kudziwa kapena kuvala, kungathetsedwe ndi pansi pa audiobook (kuphatikiza zosangalatsa ndi zothandiza).
Nanga bwanji ngati mavutowa akadali amphamvu, osakondwera ndi moyo komanso osasamala nthawi zonse amabwerera? Ndiye ndi bwino kukhala nokha ndiwekha, kuyang'ana mu kuya kwa moyo wanu ndikumvetsetsa zomwe zikuchitika.
Tengani mpweya wozama, kenako pita pang'onopang'ono. Gwiritsani ntchito kupuma ndi kuzungulira komweko. Idzakutonthoza ndikuthandizani kumva mau amkati. Ndi malingaliro otani omwe amakulemetsani? Kodi ndikuganiza za zoipa? Kulemba zochitika zakale, zizindikiro za mavuto amtsogolo? Yesetsani kuthana nawo. Musalole maganizo oipa kuti akulandeni. Chifukwa chiyani? Ndi lingaliro chabe! Zilibe kanthu, monga zomwe zimachitika. Chofunika kwambiri ndi momwe mumachidziwira!
Mavuto akale samakhalanso ndi mphamvu pa ife! Kumbukirani zovuta ndi zolephera, musakumbukire zomwe simungathe kubwerera. Tsopano zonsezi ndizochitikira chanu! Musati muwopsyeze nokha ndi tsogolo lanu, kulemba zovuta zana - zambiri za izo sizidzachitika konse.
Nzeru zanu ndi mphamvu zanu pakali pano. Landirani monga chidziwitso: ziribe kanthu kaya moyo uli ndi zotani zomwe zikuchitika mmenemo, nthawizonse mumachita zonse mwa mphamvu yanu kumvetsa kwanu za moyo, kudzidziŵa nokha mmenemo ndi kudziwa kwanu. Landirani zomwe simungasinthe, koma pezani kulimba mtima kusintha zomwe zingatheke.
Musayese kuthawa kuwona. Kubatizidwa mu malingaliro kumadza ndi ngozi yaikulu, ndipo kumanong'oneza kosalekeza kumapangitsa kutopa kwakukulu ndi kunjenjemera kwakukulu. Ndipo zenizeni pali mbali zabwino. Pambuyo pa zonse, nchiyani chomwe chiripo mwa inu, palibe ndipo palibe chomwe chingatenge. Ngati ndi zanu, muli nazo, kapena zidzakhala nthawi yake. Ngati simungapeze chinachake, ndiye kuti mwakonzeratu. Tengani ndikupitirira!
Musakhale odzifunira nokha! Kudziwa ubwino wanu ndi ubwino wanu, kuvomereza nokha monga momwe mulili, kumatanthauza kuonetsetsa kuti dziko lamkati likugwirizana. Musadzitsutse nokha ngati chinachake sichikugwira ntchito. Aliyense amachita zonse zomwe ziri m'mphamvu zake mwa chidziwitso ndi zikhulupiriro zake. Palibe njira zolakwika. Ndipo kodi ndi zopanda pake kutsata ena, kutenga maganizo a wina pa chikhulupiriro, kudzipangira nokha? Lingaliro lawo ndizo malingaliro awo ndi zochitika zawo, osati zanu. Kugwiritsa ntchito ndi chitukuko chazochita zawo, kuphunzira za mphamvu zawo, kulimba mtima panjira yopita kwatsopano - kodi izi sizotsitsimula moyo? Nanga bwanji za kuvutika maganizo?
Zangokhala zochitika zothandiza pamoyo wanu. Sankhani mosamala maganizo anu, phunzirani moyo ndikuyesera kuyang'ana dziko m'njira yatsopano, kusintha ndi kukula mwauzimu!