Lembani Akazi Akazi-Dziwani
Mayi uyu amadziwa mayankho enieni a mafunso onsewa. Malingaliro ake ndi osagwedezeka, ndiye choonadi chenicheni. Amadziwa ndondomeko yomwe angapangire mwana mkati, munda wamtundu wanji kuti alembe ndi momwe angachiritse chifuwa. Adzakuuzani za zolakwa zanu zonse, komanso momwe mungapewere. Mudzalandira kutsutsidwa ku adiresi yanu mulimonsemo - nthawi zambiri ndi kofunika kuti iwonetse chidziwitso chosiyana ndi chanu.
Momwe mungakhalire nawo?
Ndi amayi oterewa n'kopanda phindu kukangana, musawononge mphamvu. Lingaliro lake likhoza kumvedwa (mwadzidzidzi lingakhale lothandiza?), Koma, mulimonsemo, musati mulingalire ndipo musataye mtima chifukwa cha kutsutsidwa. Malingaliro a amayi oterewa ndi ofunika kuposa anu. Kuti anasankha chinthu china chifukwa cha ziphunzitso zake, muuzeni kuti mumadalira akatswiri okhazikika m'madera ena, osati dilettantes.
Mtundu wa ungwiro
Kukhala mayi ndi ntchito yake. Mwana wake nthawi zonse amavala bwino, ndipo nyumbayo ndi yoyera. Amamamatira mwachidwi ku boma la tsikulo, ndipo amadya nthawi zonse ali ndi mbale zinayi zokonzedwa molingana ndi buku lakuti "Healthy Nutrition of the Child". M'zinthu za ana nthawizonse zimakonzedwa, ndipo m'mawa - kubwereza. Sadziwa kuti mulibe nthawi yochuluka bwanji yachitsulo ndikusula zidole tsiku ndi tsiku.
Momwe mungakhalire nawo?
Kupambana kwa mayi woteroyo kumayenera kutamandidwa chabe. Koma angakuchititseni kudzudzula: "Ndine mayi woipa, sindikusamala za mwana". Osapenga chifukwa cha izi! Choyamba, muli ndi machitidwe omwe ngakhale "Kudzikonza Kwathu" kungaderere. Chachiwiri, kusamala mwatsatanetsatane kungatanthauze kuti mayi uyu, mosiyana ndi inu, alibe china chilichonse choti achite.
Sakanizani nkhawa
Angakhale kale ndi mwana wachiwiri, koma nthawi iliyonse amachitanira anzake kuti afunsane. Iye ali wotengeka kwambiri ndi maganizo a akatswiri osiyanasiyana pazinthu za ana. Ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Zikuwoneka kuti akuchita chilichonse cholakwika ndipo ndi mayi woipa. Amatha kusamutsa mwanayo kuchokera ku sukulu ya kindergarten kupita kuchipatala, ndipo amatha kuthamanga ndi dermatologist. Akudabwa kuti mungathe kugona bwinobwino ngati mwana wanu ali ndi tsiku lachiwiri lofiira.
Momwe mungakhalire nawo?
Choyamba, yesetsani kuti musachite mantha. Ngati mayi uyu ndi mnzanu wapamtima, ndiye kuti muyenera kukwaniritsa udindo wa katswiri wa zamaganizo ndikuyesera kumufotokozera kuti chisangalalo chosafunika sichingakhale cholimbikitsa. Amachititsa kuti banja likhale mwamanjenjemera, zomwe sizikuwathandiza. Kuwonjezera apo, mudziko lino nkovuta kupanga zofunikira zowonjezera. Ngati uyu ndi amayi "akunja", dzifunseni nokha ngati mukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu pa zokambirana zaulere, zomwe zidzafunike tsiku ndi tsiku.
Mitundu imapezeka kawirikawiri. Inu simunapeze nokha muzinthu izi? Izi sizosadabwitsa. Koma ndithudi adawona zina mwa makhalidwe awo kapena khalidwe lawo mosiyana? Zatha, kuposa kusonyeza ...
Pezani mpikisano mum
Kwa mayi uyu, ndi kofunikira kuti mwana wake apite patsogolo komanso bwino kuposa ena. Amakonda kuyerekeza: "Miyezi yanu isanu ndi itatu kale ndipo sizili koyenera? Nthawi yangayi yapita kale! ". Kuphatikizanso amayi awa: Amagwira ntchito ndi mwanayo. Koma, komano, pokwaniritsa zosowa zawo, amayi otero nthawi zambiri amapatsa mwanayo udindo waukulu.
Momwe mungakhalire nawo?
Kawirikawiri anthu amachita zimenezi pamene maganizo awo enieni amadalira maganizo a ena. Chikhumbo chanu chimamudyetsa kudzidalira, zomwe si zoyipa, ngati simunakhumudwe. Zimatsimikiziranso pazinthu zanu, ndipo ziri kwa inu kusankha ngati mukufuna kusewera ndi malamulo ake. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza kupewa mgwirizano wa "mpikisano wamuyaya". Ngati mumayenera kulankhulana, muuzeni tsiku lina kuti mukutsimikiza kuti Lomonosov kapena Pele ali patsogolo panu (mwana wake). Kugwirana ndi mawu anu achinyengo, iye sadzasiya kudzitama tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndipo musamuuze za zomwe mwana wanu wapindula, bwino kupeza munthu yemwe ali wokondwa kwambiri pa inu.
Mtundu wa mwana wamkazi
Zikuwoneka kuti mukuyenera kuwatumizira amayi ena amodzi ndi mwanayo. Amachedwa mozungulira ndipo sangathe kudyetsa chakudya chamasana, chifukwa adanyamulidwa ndi zinthu zokondweretsa. Amayiwala kutenga kalata ya zachipatala kwa dokotala ndipo nthawi zonse amafunsa abwenzi kapena oyandikana nawo kuti amuthandize kukonza zinthu zake.
Momwe mungakhalire nawo?
Mulungu asalole kutenga udindo wa amayi ake kapena abwenzi ake akulu. Mudzam'tenga kupita ku sukulu ya mwana wakeyo, ndikuchita zambiri. Mayi uyu, ngati mwana, akuyang'ana njira yopulumukira kuzinthu zirizonse ndipo ziribe kanthu zomwe ali kale 30. Ndipo ziri kwa inu, kaya mum'patse "whims" kapena ayi.
Mtundu wapadera
Mayi uyu amafuna kuti anthu oyandikana nawo akhale ndi ubale wapadera ndi mwana wawo. Ayenera kukhala pamzere kutsogolo, amafunika kudutsa popanda kuyembekezera ... Amafuna chidwi chapadera kwa madokotala a polyclinic ndi antchito a sukulu ya kindergarten. Mwana wake ali ndi ufulu wogwiritsa ntchito zoseweretsa zina mosasamala malingaliro a eni ake. Amafuna maudindo apadera okha popanda chifukwa.
Momwe mungakhalire nawo?
Mukawona makhalidwe amenewa kwa amayi omwe mumakambirana nawo, ndi bwino kusiya khalidweli mwamsanga. Ngati mutayamba kukana pokhapokha pamene "kuleza mtima" kukuphulika, chinyengo chidzatha. Ndiponsotu, ndi bwino bwanji kuposa inu? Limbikitsani ufulu wanu molimba ndi molimba mtima. Ndipo ndizomveka kuvomereza naye za dongosolo la "mwayi".
Lembani demokalase
Amakhulupirira kuti mwanayo ali ndi ufulu wovota ngati wamkulu. Iye amachirikiza demokalase, yomwe ingathe, ndi mwana wanu, kunena kuti iye ali wolondola, osati inu, kuposa kuwononga mwamphamvu ulamuliro wanu. Demokalase yake ikhoza kugwirizana ndi zovala ndi tsitsi la mwanayo, ufulu wake posankha ma teys ndi njira yogwiritsira ntchito nthawi. Ana amakonda kwambiri kupita kukachezera amayi oterewa ndikuwapanga chitsanzo chawo.
Momwe mungakhalire nawo?
Demokarase ndi yabwino. Komabe, afotokozereni amayiwa kuti mumakonda kubweretsa mwanayo ngati mukuwona kuti mukuyenera. Ndipo inunso muli ndi ufulu wochita zimenezi. Muwuzeni kuti njira zolera ana ndi nkhani yachinsinsi pa banja lililonse. Mufunseni kuti asawononge ufulu wanu ndi mwanayo, ndipo pangani maganizo anu pamasom'pamaso. Mu mawu, dzikani nokha ndi mfundo zake.
Mtundu woteteza
Mwana wake akhoza kuyang'ana katoto kwa maola ambiri ndikusewera masewera a pakompyuta. Ana amakonda kumuchezera: amawalola, amadya maswiti asanadye ndi kumwa soda monga momwe amachitira. Kawirikawiri mayi woteroyo "amayenda mumitambo" ndipo amayang'ana pazochitika zawo. Amakhulupirira moona mtima kuti chilichonse chimene chachitika chikuchitika bwino komanso kuti simukuyenera kuchenjezedwa kuti mwana wake ali ndi mphuno komanso wanu akhoza kutenga kachilomboka.
Momwe mungakhalire nawo?
Ziribe kanthu momwe mumalankhulirana ndi iye, izo sizilibe kanthu kwa iye. Adzapeza yekha chifukwa chake, ndipo adzakuimbani mlandu chifukwa chochita zinthu mopambanitsa, ngakhale kuti nkhawa yanu ili ndi chifukwa chabwino. Ngati ana anu ali abwenzi, tengani vuto lanu - kuti muzinena kuti n'kopanda phindu, ndizo machitidwe ake.
Mu nkhani yathu - Amayi amafunika, Amayi ndi ofunika kwambiri, munaphunzira kuti amayi amtundu wanji alipo lero.