Timapeza njira yothetsera vutoli ndi mfundo: ku chidole chilichonse - malo ake.
Zoweta zazing'ono zimasungidwa mosungira masitukasi ndi mabokosi ang'onoang'ono. Pogwiritsa ntchito masewerawa, amafalitsa pepala lakale pansi, ndipo pamene mwanayo akusewera, ingotenga pepala pamakona onse ndikutsanulira zidole. Zosewera zingasungidwe mabokosi akuluakulu. Pano mukuyenera kukumbukira kuti simungathe kuyika zoseweretsa zamatsenga pamwamba pa wina ndi mzake, chifukwa akhoza kutha pansi pa zolemera zonse.
Woyendetsa wakaleyo adzatumikira monga "chotengera" cha zinthu zopanda ana. Makamaka ngati mwana wanu ali msungwana, ndiye kuti mumayenda pakhomo mukhoza kuika zidole zake ndi chidole. Mitsuko ndi zitsulo zachapa zovala zonyansa zingakhalenso cholandirako kwa toyese. Iwo akhoza kumangirizidwa ku khoma.
Njira yabwino kwambiri yosayikiranso zozizira zowonongeka zidzakhala mabokosi a masamba omwe akugwedezana.
Zida zonsezi posungirako zisudzo zingakongoletsedwe ndi chidutswa cha mapepala achikale ndi zojambulajambula za katoto.
Ngati zinyenyeswazi zanu zili ndi zidole zofewa zambiri, ndiye kuti zikhoza kusungidwa pa mimba yokha. Pa chidole chilichonse, sungani mphete ya pulasitiki, yomwe mungathe kuikamo. Ma tebulo amatha kufika kwa mwanayo, choncho adatenga chidole chokha popanda thandizo lanu ndipo, motero, abwezerani.
Zisewero zosungidwa m'bwalo la nyumba zikhoza kusungidwa muzitsulo zazikulu za pulasitiki ndi zivindikiro. Mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito zida zotere ndi nyumba. Kuti mwanayo aone zomwe zili mu "nyumba yosungiramo" yachinyamatayi, wina akhoza kuziyika pa nsalu zooneka bwino, mwachitsanzo, kusoka pa chikhomo chakale ndi kumanga chikwama choterocho.
Poyeretsa, amayi anga nthawi zambiri amapeza zidole m'malo osiyanasiyana m'nyumba. Pazinthu izi, sungani chidebe kapena bokosi laling'ono kuti musonkhanitse ana "toyidwa". Ikani izo mu khitchini kapena mu khola. Kotero mwanayo amadziwa nthawi zonse komwe amayi amaika chidole chomwe amachipeza.
Ngati pali zidole zambiri, hafu ya iwo imabisika kwa miyezi ingapo pakhomo, kotero kuti mwanayo samawawona konse, kenako amasintha maseŵera akale kuti akhale "atsopano". Kotero inu mukhoza kupitiriza mosalekeza, kusunga ndalama pa kugula zoseweretsa zatsopano.
Kwa masewera a mwanayo sizimatayika pamaseŵera mchenga wamchenga pabwalo, lembani makina ake okhala ndi msomali pamsana.
Ngati mwasankha mabokosi kuti musunge masewero, mukhoza kuyika chithunzi pa bokosi liri lonse ndi chithunzi cha zomwe zasungidwa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati pali zidole mu bokosi, onetsetsani chithunzichi ndi chidole chomwe chili m'bokosi. Ngati bokosili ndi toyese ofewetsa, kenaka kujambula chithunzi ndi chidole chofewa, ndi zina zotero.
Ana amakonda kusintha zisudzo zawo ndi abwenzi. Mu ichi palibe chodandaula. Ngati mwaitanira alendo ndi mwana, afunseni kuti abweretse zidole zochepa kuti anawo azitha kuwatsinthanitsa.
Kuti mukhale ndi mwana tsiku lililonse "zatsopano", mutha kukhala ndi mabokosi asanu ndi awiri tsiku lililonse la sabata ndikukhala nawo ma tebulo ambiri. Tsiku lililonse mwanayo amatha kusewera masewera apadera "atsopano". Ndipo mudzakhala osavuta kuyeretsa.
Phunzitsani mwana wanu kuyeretsa toyese obalalika kuyambira ali aang'ono. Kuti muchite izi, mungamuphunzitse kusewera "mnyumba yosungira katundu": ikani zina mwazoyikidwa mu bokosi ndi kuziyika pansi pa bedi - ndi malo otetezera usiku omwe mawere akugona.