Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale ndi chibwenzi m'banja?

Mutapereka zopereka kwa wokondedwa wanu, mukhoza kukhala otanganidwa kukonzekera ukwati. Koma kale panthawi ino ndi nthawi yoganizira funso limodzi losavuta. Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale ndi chibwenzi m'banja? Pambuyo pake, moyo wakwatira ndi wofunikira kuposa ukwati. Ukwati weniweni sungakhale wophweka ngati simukukonzekera ubale wa nthawi yaitali muukwati. Kuti muteteze ubale muukwati muyenera kuzindikira zinthu zotsatirazi.

Kukhulupirika m'banja.

Zidzakhala zoopsa ngati ubale wanu umasokonezedwa ndi munthu wina (pokhapokha ngati ana anu). Komabe, kodi ndikupusitsa kwambiri mgwirizano m'banja? Mkwatibwi akhoza kusintha nthawi ndi nthawi, koma ubale wa okwatirana ukhoza kukhala wabwino. Ndi bwino kuyesera kukambirana izi ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu musanakwatirane ndipo kumbukirani kuti palibe munthu wangwiro.

Kulemekezana.

Tiyenera kulemekeza okwatirana athu. Kusayeruzika kungachititse kuti pakhale kusiyana. Musayese kufufuza ma SMS kapena kutchulidwa manambala pa foni yam'manja ya mnzanu popanda kumuuza za izo. Ngati muli ndi kukayikira, muyenera, poyamba, kugawana nawo.

Kugwirizana kwa ndalama.

Ndalama zanu zidzasintha kwambiri mutakwatirana. Mwachidziwikire, mudzataya zambiri mukatha kukwatira. Izi zingakhale, monga kubwereka nyumba kapena galimoto, ndi kugwiritsa ntchito ana. Muyenera kukambirana ndi zomwe mukuyembekezera kuti mukhale ndi moyo kuti pasakhale kusamvana.

Zipembedzo.

Muyenera kulemekeza zikhulupiriro zachipembedzo za theka lanu lachiwiri. Sizothandiza kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu akhale ndi chikhulupiriro chanu. Ngati mukufunadi masomphenya a dziko lanu kuti agwirizane, ndiye kuti muyenera kupeza munthu yemwe ali ndi zikhulupiriro zomwezo, zomwe zingakuthandizeni kupeŵa kusamvetsetsana ndikuletsa kulekanitsa muukwati. Sitiyenera kufunsa mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu kuti asiye zomwe akuganiza kuti ndizolemba. Apo ayi, mukuyembekeza kuti mutagawane.

Zosangalatsa zofala.

Kodi mukudziwa zosangalatsa za mwamuna wanu. Mukhoza kuyenda mu nthawi yanu yaulere, pamene wokondedwa wanu wasankha kuwerenga buku kunyumba. Ndipotu, palibe cholakwika ndi kukhala ndi zokondweretsa zosiyana. Winawake amaganiza kuti anthu awiri amapita limodzi, chifukwa ndi osiyana. Chinsinsi cha ubale wabwino muukwati ndikogawana chimwemwe ndi zokondweretsa. Kugawana chisangalalo ndi zokondweretsa, mumangowonjezera ubale wanu m'banja.

Kugonana.

Kugonana ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri mu ubale wabwino. Komabe, maanja ena akhoza kuchita manyazi pofotokoza zokonda za kugonana kwa anzawo. Ndipotu, njirayi ndi njira yolakwika pa chitukuko cha ubale wanu. Ndikofunika kudziwa zomwe mnzanuyo amakonda komanso sakuzikonda. Musamaope zoyesera, zidzakuthandizani kuti musataye kukongola kwa mnzanuyo, motero kulimbitsa ubale wanu muukwati.

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