Okondedwa owerenga, ndine wodandaula kwambiri, ngati vutoli linakukhudzani inu kapena abwenzi anu, achibale, abwenzi. Ngati, mwazidzidzidzi, muli kumbali ina ya mpanda, ndikuyesera kukupatsani malangizo othandiza, tk. iye mwini yekha anali ndi zochitika za tsoka ili.
Ngati khothi likutsutsa iwe, izi zikutanthauza kuti mutha kumaliza mwezi wotsatira kapena kumalo osungirako akaidi.
Choyamba, musati mutenge mutu wanu kuti muwope, tk. izo zimangokupwetekani inu basi. Musaganize kuti izi ndi mapeto a moyo wanu. Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndi kukonzanso maganizo, konzekerani kusintha kumeneku. Nthawi yoyamba izi zimachitika, muyenera kukhazikitsa pansi, kutaya maganizo onse osokonekera ndikuchita molondola.
Sindidzalongosola momwe zidalembedwera, ndi zina zotero. ndi zina zotero. momwe machitidwe akugwiritsidwira bwino, ndikuyesera kukufotokozerani nthawi yomwe mungakhalire ndi zomwe zikuchitikazo.
Ngati simunali mwapadera, simudzakhala m'ndende nokha ndipo mudzayenera kulankhula ndi anthu ena. Pepani chinachake chomwe ndasokonezeka ndipo sindinayambe mwadongosolo. Kotero pa zomwe tasiya, koma kumbukirani, munapatsidwa chigamulo pa chiyeso choletsedwa monga mawonekedwe.
Njira yoyamba yomwe tidzakambitsire njira yanu idzadutsa mu IVS, monga lamulo mu IVS, anthu samakhala nthawi yaitali ndipo amatumizidwa ku SIZO. Mukadzabweretsedwa ku IVS, chinthu choyamba chimene mudzakumana nacho ndi kufufuza, kufufuza kwathunthu kudzachotsedwa pa cholinga ndikuyang'aniridwa, zolemba zala zidzachotsedwanso. Ndiye amapereka zogona ndikupita ku selo. Mukamayima kutsogolo kwa kamera, kumbukirani nambala yake, idzabwera bwino.
Lowani mu kamera, onetsetsani kuti munene hello. Kodi mumatsimikiza bwanji kuti palibe amene ali ndi magazi anu omwe alibe ludzu, ali ofanana ndi inu kapena pafupi.
Musamawope aliyense ndipo muzikhala mwamtendere. Malo anu simudziwa, choncho musawope kukhala ndi chidwi ndi zonse zomwe zikukuzungulirani, t. chidwi chimakhala cholandiridwa, ndithudi iwe udzauzidwa za izo pamenepo. Koma monga lamulo pa IVS mudzasungidwa mofanana ndi momwe mwangobwera, chochititsa chidwi kwambiri chidzayamba mtsogolo.
Choncho mutatha tsiku limodzi kapena awiri mudzatumizidwa ku SIZO poyamba kuti mudzakumane ndi njira yanu yotchedwa "mlonda wam'chipatala", chipinda cha mamita asanu ndi mphambu ndi "mpando wa ubweya", chipinda chogona pangodya ndi mabenchi awiri. Alonda a ndende ali m'ndende ali ngati anthu omwe amaima pa ife kapena mungathe kunena kuti, pali anthu ochokera kundende omwe amapita kulikonse, kapena kukhoti, kufufuza, kupita kumsasa, ndi zina zotero. pitani kwa mlonda wa pachipata, nanunso, nenani hello ndikundiuza dzina lanu, fotokozani kuno kwa nthawi yoyamba.
Ngati pali munthu wina amene akudziwunikira kale, adzalankhula nawe ndikufotokozera momwe amachitira ndi mautumiki komanso zomwe mukuyembekeza m'tsogolomu. Pambuyo pa mlonda wam'chipatala muli ndi zinthu zowonongeka, spfigrafiruyut ndi kutsogolera kusamba, ngati nthawi ya chilimwe, ndiye kuti madzi otentha mukhoza kuiwala pomwepo m'nyengo yachilimwe, komanso chinthu chimodzi chokha chakuti ngati mutasambitsa sopo mu moyo wanu, ndiye kuti khala ndi mantha kuti iwe ukhoza kuzitenga ndipo palibe yemwe anganene kanthu kwa iwe, lingaliro langa lokha kuti iwe ukhale pansi, kuti uchotseretu kunyozedwa kapena chinachake chonga icho.
Pano inu mwatsukidwa ndipo munapatsa mateti, chotola bulangeti, mapepala awiri ndi pillowcase tsopano ndi malo anu ogulitsira. Kusiyanitsa kumakhala kofanana ndi inu, choncho pitani molimba mtima ndipo musamawope wina aliyense. Mukafika ku kamera, patsani moni anthu, funsani komwe mungapange zinthu, mumatha kupatsidwa tiyi ndipo mutha kulankhula.
Musayese kuuza wina aliyense za mlandu wanu, nkhani yaikulu. Chifukwa nambala yambiri ya nkhuku, mwachitsanzo, Oimba phokoso amalowetsa mwapadera m'maselo kwa iwo omwe amangolowa pakhomo la ndende. Kulankhulana ndi onse mwakachetechete ndi molimba mtima, koma mwanjira iliyonse musanyengedwe wina aliyense, ndi bwino kusiya yankho, kusintha nkhaniyo. Zowonjezera zambiri pazonse zomwe zikukuzungulira. chidwi ndikulandiridwa, sindingathe kunena motsimikiza kuti mudzatha kufotokozera chirichonse kwa aliyense kumeneko, koma mu selo wamba pamenepo zonse zidzanenedwa kale.
Komatu. Tanthauzo lake ndilopatula misala yonse ndikuyesa magazi kuti apeze kachilombo ka HIV, kukayezetsa magazi, ndi zina zotero. payekha, ndinkakhala paokha kwa milungu iwiri.
Pambuyo pofufuza zonse zakonzeka, mudzasamutsira ku "nyumba yodziwika" ie. kale mu selo kumene ndende imakhala moyo weniweniwo. Kuchokera pamenepo zonse zimayamba. Kachilinso, mukafika ku kamera, nenani hello, ndipo mufunseni kuti "Anthuwa?" Ichi ndi chachikulu kwambiri kwa inu, chifukwa pali maselo aumunthu omwe ali ndi ziphuphu mmenemo, monga lamulo, iwo amakhala kapena amakhumudwitsidwa, kapena iwo omwe athyoledwa kuchokera kunyumba kuti achite zosavomerezeka.
Mukauzidwa kuti nyumbayi ndi munthu, ndiye kuti mutha kukhala chete ndikumvetsera mwatcheru zomwe mudzauzidwa ndi zomwe mudzafunse. Palibe amene adzakukwapulani, ndipo palibe amene angayese kukupusitsani. Mudzayankhulidwa kotero tikunena "kuyang'ana" kamera. Cholinga cha zokambirana ndikupeza mtundu wa munthu wabwera kwa iwo komanso ngati pali zosavomerezeka kale m'mbuyomu.
Ndikukhulupiriradi kuti ndinu munthu yemwe alibe mbiri, ngati ndi choncho, ndiye kuti mulibe mantha, yankhani moona mtima. Pambuyo pa zokambiranazi mudzapatsidwa tiyi kapena chifir, musakane ngakhale simukumwa, mukatha, koma sindikukulangizani. Pambuyo pa nkhaniyo, masiku atatu a mlendo akuperekedwa, panthawi yomwe mudzakondweretse zomwe mungachite komanso simungathe kuchita, yang'anizani momwe zinthu zikuyendera ndipo mutha kumvetsa kuti ndende ili kutali ndi zomwe tikuwonetsedwa ndi mafilimu kapena mafilimu.
Madzulo oyambirira mukalowa mu selo ponena za inu, amalemba zomwe zimatchedwa malyava, kuti zoterozo zatha, pakhoza kukhala ena omwe ali m'ndende omwe akudziwani inu kapena anthu anzanu. Masiku atatu a alendowa, pitirizani kudzipindulira nokha, dzipangire nokha zomwe mwazimvetsa masiku atatuwa, fufuzani kuti msewu ndi chiyani komanso kuti ndi chiyani komanso chifukwa chake anthu amafunika kukhala ndi chidwi ndi nyumbayi kapena ayi.
Pambuyo pa kukambirana koyamba mudzauzidwa kuti mu masiku atatu adzalankhulanso nanu ndipo mutatha kukambitsirana kachiwiri mudzatenge kapena selo lina la anthu. Musagwiritse ntchito mapepala mukulankhula, poyamba sali abwino, ndipo pamakhala koopsa, chifukwa pa mawu alionse omwe muyenera kuwayankha, mvetserani zambiri, mutha kunena nthawi zonse))).
Ndikukuuzani pang'ono za njira zoyankhulirana mu ndende kapena momwe zimakhalira kuti amutchedwe Mfumu Yaikulu. Msewu ukhoza kukhala wa mitundu ingapo, mu cabrio, i.e. dzenje la khoma mothandizidwa ndi zidutswazo zimasunthidwa ku chirichonse molingana ndi makulidwe a kutseguka, palinso msewu kupyola mumlengalenga - mothandizidwa ndi zingwe zonse zimangosamutsidwa podutsa pazenera ndipo pali msewu wopita ku bafa yomwe imatumizidwa kupyolera mu chirichonse. Nthawi zonse izi zidzauzidwa kwa inu, chifukwa mu ndende iliyonse ndi malo ake enieni.
Musayese kudzipatula nokha, ziribe kanthu momwe kulili kovuta, kulankhulana ndi anthu, kuyankhula, kudzitenga nokha, kuwerenga mabuku, ngati mutasiya, pitani. Ganizirani za thanzi lanu, kusamba nthawi zonse n'kofunika kwambiri muzochitikazi.
Patapita nthawi mukhala ndi moyo ndipo simukudzidalira kwambiri, koma pakali pano chidziwitsochi chikukwanira kupeŵa mavuto ndi zovuta zosafunikira.
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