Kusokonezeka ndi kupweteka.
Kawirikawiri msungwana sangakhoze kuima, anyamata osintha nthawi zonse, chifukwa nthawi ina anachitidwa nkhanza kapena kugwiriridwa. Kwa aliyense, zovuta zotero sizidutsa popanda tsatanetsatane ndi kusiya chidindo kuti muyanjana ndi anyamata. Pamene chisokonezo chikudutsa, funso limabwera: "Chifukwa chiyani izi zandichitikira?". Kawirikawiri aliyense amavomereza kuti cholakwikacho ndi chigawenga.
Anthu, mwatsoka, amangofuna kuona nthawi zambiri pazomwe akuzunzidwa kusiyana ndi wozunzidwa, koma wotsutsa amene adamupusitsa. Atamvetsera "zolemba" pa mutu uwu, msungwanayo amadzimvera yekha mlandu pa zomwe zachitika yekha ndipo akuyamba kuganiza kuti chiyanjano choyenera sichiri choyenera. Makhalidwe ake apamwamba ndi kuwongolera yekha ndikuyesera kudziiwala nokha. Nthawi zonse amasintha zibwenzi, mtsikana sangathe kuyankha kuzunzidwa chifukwa choopa kuti apitirizebe kuchita zachiwawa.
Zindikirani. Ndikofunika kulimbana, ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka kuti palibe mphamvu yakuchitira, simungatayike, ngakhale atakuseka! Choyamba, ndizofunikira kukhala mu chipindamo, ndipo chofunika kwambiri - mu chidziwitso, chojambula cholembedwa: "Moyo satha!". Chachiwiri, chotsani kulakwa kwanu. Chachitatu, palibe chifukwa chake muyenera kudzipangira nokha, kuseka kwa mtsikana kuli kovuta kwambiri kukhala ndi moyo. Inde, musamuuze aliyense za ngozi.
Koma pa chikhalidwe cha aliyense wa ife tiyenera kukhala ndi munthu wapafupi kwambiri, wodalirika amene mungadalire. Kuonjezera apo, tiyenera kupeza mwayi wokambirana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo, popeza kuti kuseka kwa atsikana sikungopita mosavuta.
Chingwe chachikulu chomwe chiyenera kutsogoleredwa ndikuti pali anthu abwino kuposa anthu oipa. Inde, musamangokhalira kuthamangira khosi la munthu aliyense panjira. Koma panthawi yomweyi, musathamangitse komwe kuli okonzeka kukupatsani malingaliro anu, osati kuti aliyense adzakuchitirani manyazi. Zoona, sikuli ntchito kuuza munthu za vuto lake pomwepo. Mungathe kugawana chinsinsi ndi mnyamata, pokhapokha mutangomva kuti munthuyo ayenera kudzidalira yekha.