Komabe, izi ndi zodabwitsa kwambiri za anthu zomwe zimabweretsa mavuto ambiri kwa ife, chifukwa tikuyenera kukhala ndi iwo mwanjira inayake. Ndikufuna kuti iwo azitiyamikira ife, ndikudzipereka, ndipo chifukwa cha ichi tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti akazi amtundu wanji ndi amtundu wanji.
Pa funso la amayi omwe ali ngati amuna, mukhoza kuyankha m'mawu amodzi - osiyana. Poyamba, zikuwoneka kuti tikuyenera kuwapatsa ma blondes onsewa, koma ngati zinali choncho, 95% mwa ife tikhoza kukhala atsikana akale. Komabe, ife tonse ndife osiyana, koma aliyense ali, musalole mwamuna, koma ndithudi fanasi. Choyamba, tiyeni tisiyane nthano za ma blondes otchukawa ndi a barbie (ndikuyembekeza kuti atsikana athu okongola omwe ali ndi chitsanzo chabwino sindinakhumudwitse).
Amanena kuti amuna amakonda maso. Mungathe kunena kuti izi ndi zoona, koma maso awo amasiyana kwambiri. Wina amakonda makina ochepa, aang'ono, aang'ono, anyamata ena aang'ono a Rubens, ndi atsikana ena ataliatali ochokera m'magazini. Ndizosatheka kupeza bwino momwe chikoka cha akazi ena amachitira. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti mwamuna akuyang'ana mkazi m'chifaniziro cha amayi ndi akazi awo ali ndi chinachake chowakumbutsa amayi muunyamata wawo, asayansi amanena kuti amuna amakonda kusankha asungwana omwe amakwaniritsa zofuna zawo zobereka, amuna amanena kuti palibe mtundu wapadera wa amayi, Azimayi omwe amawamvera chisoni, koma pali ena omwe sali okongola. Koma chinthu chimodzi chinganene motsimikiza kuti palibe munthu aliyense amene angamvetsere kwa msungwana yemwe samatsatira maonekedwe ake. Sindikuganiza kuti aliyense wa inu, atsikana okondeka adzamvetsera munthu wolemera, wodwala, wamwamuna wolemera mumatumba ovala nsalu komanso mpweya wabwino. Zomwezo zikhoza kunenedwa ponena za amuna, ngati mkazi amamuyang'anira, ngati uyu ndi mkazi wowala, iye adzapanga chidwi chodabwitsa pa amuna ambiri. Ndipo atsikana amakono ali ndi mwayi wambiri wodzipangira "maswiti." Pofuna kuchepetsa mawu a Coco Chanel, tikhoza kunena kuti ngati mtsikana wa zaka makumi atatu (30) akuwoneka woipa, ndiye kuti si munthu woyenera.
Koma musaiwale kuti anthu amangoyang'ana maonekedwe oyambirira, malinga ndi asayansi kwa masekondi atatu, ndiyeno dziko lamkati likuyesedwa. Nawonso, ndi anthu angati, malingaliro ambiri. Anthu ena amakonda ntchentche, vampu ya amayi, ndi amayi ena amtendere. Palibe zopanda pake kulemba zifukwa zonse za zokonda zosiyanasiyana za abambo, mukhoza kulemba buku la multivolume encyclopedia pa izi. Mmodzi angakhoze kunena kuti pali khalidwe limodzi lachikazi lofunika kuti amuna ambiri azikonda - izi ndi nzeru. Mkazi wanzeru akhoza kukopa mwamuna yemwe amakonda heroines a amzake a James Bond, ngakhale atayang'ana ngati amayi a Marple. Kuleza mtima, kakhalidwe kakang'ono kakazi, gawo la chithumwa ndipo munthu adzakutsatirani kumapeto a dziko. Amayi ambiri amadziwa zochitika pamene mwamuna anali wokonda ufulu, ndipo sizingatheke kumukankhira ku ofesi yolembera mwa njira iliyonse, kenaka panali mtsikana amene anakwatirana naye miyezi iwiri atatha kukumana. N'zosatheka kuti iwo ali opambana, iwo amangokhala ndi njira zawo zokha. Koma simungaiwale malingaliro osamvetsetseka achikondi, mwinamwake Cupid ndi mivi yake ndi maso openya, omwe nthawizina amakhumudwa, akadalipobe.
Kotero, amuna, monga momwe mwakhala mukudziwira kale kuchokera muzochitika zanu, monga akazi osiyana, mwachiwonekere ichi ndi lingaliro la chirengedwe, mwinamwake anthu akadakhala atatuluka kale. Kotero kwa atsikana inu, pakhale munthu yemwe akufuna kukutsatirani mpaka kumapeto a dziko.