Ndipo zochitika zimachoka -ngati kuti thanki inadutsa. Chifukwa chiyani anthu ena amakhala mosavuta ndipo ena ndi ovuta? Kodi ndi chisokonezo chani chomwe chimayambitsa galimoto? Mmene mungachotsere zovuta za chisangalalo chosayenera, chifukwa mitundu yolemera ndi yowala ya anthu nthawi zonse imakhalako.
Ndipo pamalo anga, ndi malo anu, alipo anthu omwe ali owala komanso olemera. Poyamba, zikuwoneka kuti palibe zovuta, sizikumangirira munthu ndi mavuto ake, amasangalala mwachidwi ndi moyo, ndipo chofunika kwambiri - onse amachipeza. Ndipo pali anthu omwe samangodandaula nthawi zonse, koma mwachoncho chilichonse chimene chimawachitikira amawoneka ngati cholemetsa. Sizowona kuti ndizovuta, koma, monga ndikumvetsetsa, anthu omwe amamva moyo mosiyana: ena monga mphatso ya Mulungu, ngati gwero la zosangalatsa, ena ngati mayesero, ngakhale ntchito. Ndiwaitana anthu awa "Mozart ndi Salieri" kapena "agulugufe ndi njovu". Kodi mndandanda wanga umagwirizana bwanji ndi sayansi? Ndipo bwanji, kuchokera pa lingaliro la psychology, ndi zolondola kukhala moyo - monga butterfly kapena njovu?
Mwamwayi, pokhudzana ndi maganizo aumunthu, sayansi sichizindikira miyezo yolimba ya mitundu yolemera ndi yosavuta ya anthu. Kukhala mophweka kapena vuto la munthu kumadalira pazinthu zitatu: zida za khalidwe lake, mtundu wa chikhalidwe ndi filosofi ya moyo. N'zosatheka kunena mtundu wa chikhalidwe ndi fano la dziko lapansi lolondola. Njira iliyonse yogwirizanirana ndi dziko ndi yowona, chifukwa ikugwirizana ndi chikhalidwe cha munthu wina, ndi makhalidwe ake a maganizo. Kotero musayembekezere kwa akatswiri a maganizo a maganizo yankho la funsolo. Koma afilosofi anagawa m'misasa iwiri. Ena amakhulupirira kuti moyo ndi wosavuta, ena ndi ovuta. Mwachitsanzo, akatswiri achifilosofi achigiriki anati:
"Amulungu amakhala mosavuta." Zimatanthawuza kuti anthu osavuta amapambana, ndipo amafika ku Olympus. Friedrich Nietzsche, mosiyana, anati: "Ndiwo okhawo amene amanyamula chisokonezo, akhoza kubereka nyenyezi yakuvina" - mwa lingaliro lake, munthu wovuta yekha akhoza kupanga chinachake chofunika. Nazi mbali ziwiri zosiyana ndi filosofi ya moyo.
Ndipo chifukwa cha zotsatira za moyo - kodi filosofi imapindulitsa kwambiri?
Mozart - munthu wopepuka kwambiri anali! Ndipo nyimbo zake ndi zofanana - zowala, zokongola. Ndipo kumbukirani ntchito za Schnittke - pakati pathu tikuyankhula, sikuti aliyense adzaima nyimbo zovuta komanso zovuta. Koma onsewa ndi amisiri. Kapena olemba ndakatulo Yesenin ndi Pasternak. Ife tikudziwa kuti Boris Leonidovich, kukopera malemba ake makumi asanu, anazunzidwa ndi mawu alionse. Monga Leo Tolstoy, mwa njira. Yesenin analemba mosavuta, mwamsanga, pafupifupi popanda drafts. Makolo oyamba a Soviet psychology, Alexander Luria ndi Alexei Leontiev, ndi chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri. Ndinawapezabe, anali ndi mwayi wopita ku zokambirana zawo ku University of Moscow State ndipo adazizwa kuti ndi osiyana bwanji ndipo ali ndi mphatso yomweyo. Luria anali munthu wokongola, wokondwa, kutulutsa maganizo. Leontief, aliyense yemwe amamudziwa, anadziwika mwachidule: munthu wolemera. Onsewa ndi asayansi aakulu. Komabe, molingana ndi lingaliro la dziko lapansi komanso zokhudzana ndi moyo - mwamtheradi. Kwa aliyense wa anthuwa zinali zachibadwa kukhala moyo monga chonchi, ndipo ayi. Pambuyo pa zonse, pali chilengedwe kuti chigonjetse, ndipo pali chidziwitso cha kuyendayenda. Amene amafunika kuthana ndi chinthu nthawi zonse kuti awonetsere, mwinamwake, anthu ndi olemetsa. Iwo omwe ali kasupe malingaliro popanda kugwirana koonekera kunja akhoza kutchedwa mapapu aumunthu. Kulankhula mwachidule, mzere wina ngati bulldozers, ena akuwuluka ngati ziboliboli, ndizo za mitundu yolemera ndi yosavuta ya anthu.
Munthuyo akuusa moyo , amayamba kumangodutsa mlungu uliwonse, amamuuza kuti ali wotanganidwa kwambiri, kuti moyo ndi wovuta ndipo palibe chilungamo padziko lapansi - ndipo kulankhulana naye kumakhala zomangirira. Mukuyamba ndi kudzilemetsa nokha: Mulungu wanga, ndondomeko yovuta kwambiri yomwe ine ndiri nayo, kodi ndi ndondomeko yodalirika, zingati zopinga pa njira yathu ...
Mukudziwa kuti kuchipatala muli malangizo otere - matenda a m'mimba. Kotero, mlembi wa ku America, Philip Bailey, mu bukhu lake, lotchedwa "Homoeopathic Psychological", akulemba kuti mu chitukuko chamakono, pali chiwerengero chowonjezeka cha anthu ngati Nuksvomika: olemerera, osagonjetsedwa ndi mavuto omwe anthu amakonda kuwerengera zonse. mantha kwambiri, ngati chinachake chikulakwika. Zimakhala zovuta kuposa ena kuti azunzidwe ndi matenda a m'mimba komanso m'mimba. Ndipo monga momwe Philip Bailey akuwonera, ndizosatheka kubweretsa mtundu wa munthu, chomwecho ndi chikhalidwe chake. Kotero, mwazindikira bwino: anthu olemerera polankhulana si ophweka, amakakamiza ndipo nthawi zina amakwiyitsa. Koma palinso anthu osatsutsika: akhoza kuchita chizoloŵezi ndi ntchito ya nthawi yaitali, pamene anthu ofunika amadana nawo.
Pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana yolimbikitsa. Mwachitsanzo, zolimbikitsa za ndondomekoyi ndi zotsatira zake. Kapena chilimbikitso cha mantha ndi cholinga cha chimwemwe. Pano pali chophweka, ngakhale chikhalidwe, chitsanzo. Ngati munthu wosavuta amagwira ntchito ngati trucker, amasangalala ndi msewu, amasangalala ndi chinthu china chilichonse: pali galu wosangalatsa kwambiri pa gesi, ndipo pano ndi khofi yokoma pamsewu wa pamsewu. Ngati dalaivala ndi munthu wolemera, sakudziwa zonsezi, chifukwa chake chinthu chachikulu ndichofika nthawi. Cholinga chake sichiri chisangalalo, koma m'malo mwake, kukhutira ndi mfundo yakuti zonse zikuchitika molingana ndi dongosolo. Ponena za kukondweretsa ndi chisangalalo, ndithudi ndiwopangidwa ndi anthu osavuta: ali okonzeka kuchita zimene amakonda, chifukwa cha zokondweretsa zomwezo. Koma cholinga cha mantha ndi chofunikira kuti anthu aziwoneka movutikira, olemetsa: iwo amalimbikitsidwa ndi chilakolako chopewa vuto, vuto. Ngati titembenukira kwa Artaxpe ya Mozart, timakumbukira kuti Mozart sankazunzidwa pa nkhaniyi: "Ndingathe bwanji kulemba nyimbo, ndingathe kumaliza bwanji?" Iye anasangalala ndi chisangalalo chodabwitsa pamene nyimboyi idatsanulira, monga momwemo.
Apa! Mfundo zenizeni - "ngati ngati zokha." Kawirikawiri ndimazindikira: mtengo wa zotsatirawu umatsimikiziridwa (kapena, mwachangu, wogwirizana) ndi "zamagazi zamagazi" za mitundu yolemera ndi yochepa ya anthu. Ndipo ngati munthu amachita zonse akusakasaka, ndi zophweka komanso zosangalatsa? Nanga, zotsatira zake ndizosafunika kwenikweni kuposa zotsatira za iwo omwe adayesa kutuluka thukuta?
Kodi mukumvetsa kuti dongosolo la maganizo ndi lotani pano? Choyamba, munthu yemwe zinthu zonse zimaperekedwa mophweka, zimakhala zopweteka kwambiri ndi anzake ogwira ntchito. Kodi simukuganiza kuti, "mophiphiritsa", "njovu" idzakhala yokhoza kuyang'anitsitsa momwe "butterfly" ikusewera masewera, omwe ndi kovuta kwambiri kwa iye, "njovu"? Chachiwiri, anthu olemera kawirikawiri amafunikira zopinga - ndiye kunena kuti: "Zinali zovuta, koma tinatero!" - kuwonjezera kufunika kwake.
Mavuto, kuswa ndondomeko, chisokonezo - mtundu wa zolinga, malo osungira anthu olemera. Ndipo ngati akusowa chisokonezo, amadzipanga okha. Nditafotokozera Vasily kuti omvera ake amafunika "magazi", pamene adziwonetsera okha, kudzipereka kwa ntchito, adagwira mutu wake: iye mwiniyo ndi wosavuta, sakusowa zina zovuta.
Tonsefe tinkayenera kupatsidwa mankhwala ku polyclinics ndi zipatala, tonsefe tinapatsidwa jekeseni. Kumbukirani kuti anamwino omwe amachititsa chidwi ndi osiyana kwambiri. Mmodzi amamwetulira, nthabwala - ndipo mosavuta amapereka jekeseni, osamvekanso momwe adachitira mwamsanga. Chinanso chimagwedeza mutu wake: "Eya, ndi mitsempha yovuta bwanji ... Ndizovuta kupeza!" Ndipo mwakhala mukung'ung'udza, ndikudandaula - inde, bwanji ndi mitsempha yotereyi ya chinthu chabwino choyembekeza? Ndili ndi ulemu waukulu kwa anamwino ndi madokotala, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo ndimamvetsa kuti anthu olemetsa m'zamalonda ndizovuta kwa odwala. Angathe, ndikutsindika izi, mwangozi ndikupangitsa munthu kusokonezeka maganizo. Kotero, mwa njira, mawuwo ndi "kuwala" ndi "lolemera" dzanja. Inde, matanthawuzo ameneŵa sali asayansi. Koma tonse timagwira nthawi yomwe timayenera kuthana ndi anthu olemera ngati ali dokotala kapena wovala tsitsi. Ndipo timayesetsa mwadala kupeŵa ocheza nawo.
Monga ndimakumbukira , molingana ndi Freud, chisangalalo chimabwera pambuyo povutitsa. Izi ndizo, chisangalalo ndi mphotho yomwe imayenera kupatsidwa. Ndipo mwa njira ina n'zosatheka? Kodi sikuti ndi "soviet" yovuta ya chisangalalo chosayenera chomwe munthu amverera kuti sichiyenera choyenera?
Zifukwa zikhoza kukhala zongoganizira chabe (kudzipepesa, kudzidzimvera nokha), ndi malamulo (mtundu wa thupi ndi mtundu wa manjenje), mahomoni, ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu. Mark Burno, katswiri wodziwika bwino wa maganizo a ku Russia, analemba kuti: anthu akumpoto ali ndi nkhawa kwambiri, m'madera akum'mwera ndi ofunika. Kodi sizingakhale zopindulitsa kwa ife kuyang'ana Cubans, Italians, Greeks kumvetsa: tanthauzo la moyo sikumvetsa, tanthauzo la moyo liri moyo weniweni? Monga katswiri wa zamaganizo ndingathe kupereka ndemanga pamapeto a Freud: chifukwa cha mtundu wina wa anthu, zosangalatsa zimayesedwa mu kuchuluka kwa khama lomwe limagwiritsidwa ntchito pokwaniritsa zotsatira. Koma ichi si lamulo kwa aliyense. Ichi ndicho lingaliro la mtunduwo.
Kuwomboledwa ndi kuthekera kwa munthu kusuntha zolinga za ntchito kuchokera pa ndondomeko ku zotsatira ndi mosiyana. Munthu wosinthika akhoza kukonzanso zolinga zake, pendani ndondomeko yake ndipo musayime pamenepo. Kutopetsa mutu umodzi m'moyo, amapeza zosiyana, tanthauzo losiyana. Mmodzi wolimba, ndiko, wolimba, wosasinthika, amamenya mbali imodzi, monga woyambitsa injini yosatha. Kapena, pokwaniritsa cholinga chake, amamva zopanda pake ndi zopanda pake pamoyo, popeza malingaliro ake palibe chochita china.
Ndipo apa pali funso lochititsa chidwi. Ngati pali "njovu" imodzi mwa awiriwa kapena m'banja, ndipo yachiwiri "butterfly"? Nanga bwanji?
Chitani chitsanzo: Ngati mwamuna ali wolemera ndipo mkazi wake ali wochepa, mkaziyo akhoza kusintha. Monga mkazi wa mkazi woteroyo anandiuza ine poyankha ndemanga kuti mkazi angadziyerekeze kuti ali wokwatiwa kwa zaka zisanu: "Inde, ndadziyeretsa kukhala katatu asanu!" Choncho, pazochitika zoterozo, ntchito ya mkazi ndikhazikika, "pangani" munthu wokondedwa, kuti athetse mavuto. Koma ngati mwamuna ndi wosavuta, ndipo mkazi ali wolemetsa, awiriwa amagwera mu gulu loopsya. Chowonadi ndi chakuti mu lingaliro la banja mkazi amachititsa mbali yaikulu. Ndipo "gulugufe" wamwamuna nthawi zambiri silingathe kupirira mavuto omwe mayi wolemera, wolimba amakhala nawo. Iye, nayenso, akuwoneka kuti ndi wamwano, wosasamala, wosasamala ...
Ndinayambenso chidwi pa izi. Anthu ofunika akukambirana njira yothetsera vutoli, ndipo zovuta ndizovuta. Ndili ndi abwenzi omwe amakonda kwambiri kufotokoza chifukwa chake sadapambane, chifukwa chake sitingathe kuchita - mmalo mofotokozera momwe angagwiritsire ntchito.
Ndikumvetsa zomwe mukuzinena. Ena amakambirana za mavuto ndi zosatheka kuthetsa, pamene ena akufunafuna njira ndi mwayi, molondola? Kumbukirani, kumayambiriro kwa zokambirana zathu tinatchula za filosofi ya moyo?
Timavomereza moona mtima: m'chilengedwe, zonsezi zimafunikira. Apo ayi, mtundu wina wa zamoyo wakhala utatha. Koma, pokamba za ubwino ndi zamwano, mungagwiritse ntchito njira yotchedwa "hyperbolization." Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ngati kutentha kwa zizindikiro za mitundu iwiriyo, ndiye pamodzi umodzi - zosavuta - timapeza matenda osadziwika a infantile psycho, amene sasamala za chirichonse. Kumbukirani, monga Bogrov adanenera, adamuwombera Stolypin: "Ndisiyana bwanji, ndidya zidutswa zingapo za cutlets kapena moyo wanga udzatha tsopano." Ndipo ngati muli ndi matenda oopsa kwambiri, mumakhala ovuta kwambiri - wokonda masewera kapena masochist, omwe amatanthawuza kulimbana, kuvutika, kupanga zovuta, kuzigonjetsa, kuthyola aorta ndi kuphwanya mafupa - kwa ena kapena kwa inu nokha. Monga katswiri wa zamaganizo, ndikuwoneka kuti kupita mopambanitsa n'koopsa. Kuphweka, ndi kwa munthu wolemera, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kupeza "gawo la golidi", mgwirizano, umene utipatse ife kugwiritsa ntchito mbali zathu zolimba ndi zofooka, monga mbalame - mapiko.
Protozoa ikuwoneka ngati ichi. Kwa agulugufe:
1) kukhazikitsa ndondomeko yoyenera kwa mlungu umodzi, podziwa kuti moyo ukusintha, koma tidzachita chimodzimodzi ndi mfundo za dongosololi, ngakhale kuchedwa;
2) musazengereze kuuza anthu ena za nthawi ya misonkhano, yomwe ili yabwino kwa ife, osati kwa iwo;
3) nthawi ndi nthawi amasintha chilengedwe cha kukhala ndi chilengedwe kuti athaŵe ku malo omwe akukhalapo ndi ozungulira;
4) timayambitsa kamba, timayesetsa kumvetsetsa.
Kwa "njovu":
1) kukhazikitsa nthawi yosamalira nthawi ndi chaka ndi malo okhala;
2) timalola anthu ena kukhala ndi zolakwika, chifukwa ali ofooka, ndipo ndife amphamvu;
3) nthawi ndi nthawi timawerenga zolemba zosiyana siyana, zomwe zimaonedwa ngati zopanda pake pazifukwa zina ndikuyesa kumvetsetsa zazo;
4) timayambitsa galu ndikuliphunzitsa. Pamapeto pake, mu April - ndi nthawi yoganizira za kukhala kosavuta!