Kodi mumayesetsa kukhala ndi amayi apakati ndi ana?

Tsopano Lent Great, ndipo mafunso ambiri pankhaniyi amapezeka, mwachitsanzo, mwa amayi omwe ali ndi pakati, komanso amayi omwe amadyetsa ana pachifuwa. Wokhudzidwa ndi funso la kusala kwa okalamba, ana ndi anthu odwala. Anthu ambiri amafunsa ngati n'zotheka kugonana pa nthawi ya kusala?

Kusala kudya kwa amayi oyembekezera ndi amayi

Pano mungapange magawo awiri: Akazi okhulupilira, omwe amadziwa bwino nkhaniyi ndi miyambo ya banja ndi Akhristu wamba, osadziwa zambiri pa nkhani za chikhulupiriro, komabe pa chidziwitso kumvetsa kuti kusala ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri pa moyo wathu wauzimu. Iwo sadziwa kudzidziwitsa nokha ku malowa ndi momwe angatsatirire nazo; kwa nthawi zonse, wina amafuna chinachake ndipo amafuna kudziletsa yekha, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosavuta kuzizira.

Timofey wa ku Alexandria mu ulamuliro wake wachisanu ndi chiwiri akuti mkazi yemwe wabereka mwana safunikira kusala kudya, koma kuti adzipangire chakudya chokwanira kuti athandize mwanayo. Kubadwa kwa Asamo kuli kale pamaso pa Mulungu choncho ngati akufuna kusala kudya, kuti asawononge thanzi lake komanso thanzi la mwanayo. Ndipo vuto lake mu nthawi ino liyenera kukhala losangalatsa, losangalala, chifukwa laperekedwa kwa mwanayo. Mulungu si wowerengetsa ndalama yemwe amalemba momwe mumadyera mofulumira, ndikofunika kwambiri kwa iye momwe mumakulira mwana wanu komanso mu miyambo yomwe mudzabweretse.

Dzichepetseni kusala kudya choyamba, zosangalatsa, kutsutsa, ndi kuwonjezera chidwi kwa ena, komanso kulimbikitsa thandizo la ena. Izi zidzakhala chakudya chabwino kwambiri.

Kodi ndi koyenera kuti mukhale osamala muukwati ?

Pachifukwa ichi, atsogoleri achipembedzo akhama amakonda peregibayut, kutenga ufulu wotsutsa kuti pa nthawi ya kusala kudya, palibe yemwe ayenera kugonana naye. Si zoona kapena tidzatero, theka la choonadi. Apanso, tiyeni tipeze magwero oyenerera. Ngakhalenso Mtumwi Paulald kwa mabanja apabanja oterewa: Musanyengedwe kapena mwachangu kwa nthawi yochepa, yomwe inu nokha mupereke kwa mapemphero ndi kusala kudya. Azatem kachiwiri akhale pamodzi, kotero kuti satana sakuyeseni mwachibadwa. Ndipo ndi ndani amene tiyenera kudalira nkhaniyi, bwanji osati mmodzi wa ophunzira a Khristu?

Kotero apa zonse ziri zomveka bwino: mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kusankha momwe amachitira kudya ndi kuchuluka kwa momwe ayenera kupeŵa. Ambuye samasowa banja kuti liwonongeke chifukwa cha kudziletsa muukwati. Cholemba chotero chiri chofunikira kwambiri, pambuyo pa zonse, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndi kusunga ubale m'banja mwazochitika zonse.

St. Timothy akulongosola kuti masiku a mpumulo ali ololedwa kuti azidziletsa, ndipo izi ndi chifukwa chake masiku ano mu Liturgy Church the Divine Passes. Ponena za Lenti Lalikulu, masabata oyambirira ndi omalizira okha adzakhala ololedwa. M'masiku ena - kokha pa chifuniro.

Kodi tifunika kusala kudya ana?

Funso limeneli ndi lovuta. Momwemo, palibe yankho lachidule kwa izo. Pano, ndikutembenuka, ndipo maganizo a madokotala ndi atsogoleri achipembedzo sagwirizana. Nthawi zambiri, mwanayo, monga thupi lokula kwambiri, sayenera kusiya kutaya thukuta ndi mkaka.

Choncho, ndibwino kuchepetsa mwana osati mankhwala omwe amafunikira kuti apititse patsogolo thupi (gawoli lidali lalitali), koma, mwachitsanzo, m'maseŵera, kukhala pa kompyuta, kuyang'ana katoto. Mukhozanso kuchepetsa kudya, kupatulapo kugawa kwa mankhwala omwe ali pachiwalo chomwe sichibweretsa. Mwachitsanzo, mikate, mikate ndi maswiti. Izi ndizo, ndizo zokoma, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mwanayo akule bwino kwambiri kuposa kupindulitsa. Choncho, n'zotheka kufotokoza zoletsa zotere kwa mwanayo. Ndipo iwo sadzavulaza thupi ndi kubweretsa moyo ku moyo.

Kodi tiyenera kutsatira anthu akale komanso anthu odwala ?

Pakati pa anthu tsopano pali chisokonezo chonse m'maganizo. Winawake amakhulupirira kuti ndikofunika kusunga positiyo molingana ndi malamulo, yekhayo amakana nyama, ndipo wotsatira "samadya nsomba, koma amadya munthu," monga Seraphim wa Sarov adanena. Zimatanthawuza - kuchokera kuzinthu zanyama zomwe zimakana ndikulemba mwakhama, koma chisokonezo chapafupi ndi mkwiyo wake ndi kukwiya sikungatero. Koma ndani akufunikira positi iyi? Kusala kudya ndi chimodzimodzi, poyamba kudziletsa kwauzimu, ndiyeno thupi.

Kotero, Abambo a Tchalitchi amati kusala kudya n'kofunika, monga momwe munthu angathere. Ena amakhulupirira kuti kuchepetsa kudya kwambiri kumathandiza munthu wathanzi, koma wodwalayo ayenera kukhala ndi nthawi yosangalala, makamaka ngati matendawa ndi ovuta. Atsogoleri achipembedzo amatsatiranso maganizo amenewa, potsutsa kuti Mpingo sumaumiriza munthu kuti achite zomwe sitingakwanitse. Makhalidwe a kusala kudya amapangidwa mpaka pamapeto ndipo palibe kusiyana pakati pa olemekezeka ndi anthu omwe ali nawo, choncho aliyense ayenera kudziyesa yekha kudziletsa. Ndipo ngati kusala kudya kumatha, ndiye kuti ayenera kudandaula chifukwa cha zofooka zake, kuti Ambuye akhululukire.

Matendawa kale ali ndi malire paokha, akuti John John, ndipo ngati munthu samadandaula panthaŵi ya matenda, koma amachitira chifundo, podziwa kuti izi zonse ndizochokera ku machimo athu, ndiye izi zakhala zikuyenda kale. Ndipo ngati nthawi yomweyo samadziletsa yekha, koma mtima wake ndi wamtendere ndipo chisangalalo chimakhala chosangalatsa, ndiye malowo ndi olondola. Ndipo ngati munthu pa nthawi ino akupereka chikondi, amathandiza osowa, amagawira chidutswa cha mkate - izi ndizo zokondweretsa kwambiri kwa Mulungu.

Ndizithamanga bwanji masiku ano

Kale, kale, anthu anali kusala kudya kwambiri koma komabe chilengedwe chinali chosiyana, anthu anali athanzi. Chakudyacho chinali chachirengedwe ndi madzi oyera, kiyi, chothandiza kwa anthu. Ife tsopano ndife osiyana kwambiri ndi makolo akale omwe ali ndi thanzi lawo, komanso, mwakuthupi, mosakayikira, mwauzimu. Aliyense amavomereza, kuphatikizapo atsogoleri achipembedzo ndi madokotala. Choncho, miyambo ya makolo athu sali yolandiridwa kwathunthu, lero, ndi misala yathu yopusa, mzinda wopanda pake ndi mantha olemetsa.

Madokotala a Orthodox akunena kuti cholinga chachikulu cha kusala kudya ndicho kuyeretsa mtima ku machimo, kusiya zosawerengeka za tsiku ndi tsiku ndi kuganizira za moyo wanu, za ntchito ndi ntchito, za malo anu. Syeretsani mtima wa mkwiyo, kutsutsa, kaduka, kunyada ndi kuwonjezera pa moyo wanu pang'ono chikondi ndi chifundo kwa ena.

Choncho, sikulakwa kulumikiza kusala kudya zokhazokha. Kusala kudya ndiko kuphunzitsa chifuniro, khama limene munthu amadzitengera yekha, kukana kuledzera, zizolowezi, kuledzera, kususuka ndi moyo wotsitsikana. Gawani chidutswa cha mkate kwa mpikisano, mutsogolere wodwalayo ndikuthandizani munthu wachikulire - ndipo positi yanu idzakhala yowonjezera kwa Ambuye kuposa ngati mukusowa njala, koma mumtima mwanu mukhala ndi mkwiyo ndi udani kwa ena.

Kufotokozera mwachidule, tikhoza kuzindikira mfundo zazikulu za positi lero:

  1. Onetsetsani Lent, komanso m'chaka chosalephera - Lachitatu ndi Lachisanu.
  2. Kuwotcha popanda nyama ndi mkaka kunyamula.
  3. Masabata oyambirira ndi omalizira - malo osamalidwa, m'malo ena - mukhoza kugula nsomba ndi nsomba.
  4. Zosangalatsa pamapeto pa sabata zimalola.
  5. Musatsatire lamulo lachiwonongeko ndipo musaumirire nokha changu ndi ena.
  6. Dziphunzitseni nokha muzochitika za chikondi, kubweretsa chikondi kwa anthu ndikuthandizani kuvutika.
  7. Pitani ku tchalitchi, kuvomereza ndi kulandira mgonero.
  8. Musasangalale, khalani ndi moyo wochuluka komanso wodekha. Osasunga mtima, kupsa mtima, kukwiyitsa ndi kusakonda, kuti asamatsutse wina aliyense kapena kusinamizira. Musakhale chidani ndi wina aliyense, khalani ololerana ndi zofooka za ena ndikuyesani kukonza zanu.

Izi ndi malamulo omwe angapambane ndi munthu aliyense amene akufuna kusala ndi kusunga moyo wake.