Kodi atsikana amamvetsera bwanji akamamuwona mnyamata?

Msungwana aliyense amafuna kukhala wokongola kwa maso a anthu ndipo amathandizidwa ndi zodzikongoletsera zosiyanasiyana, komanso opaleshoni. Koma bwanji za anyamata omwe sagwiritsa ntchito zida zodzoladzola zambiri. Chisamaliro cha msungwana yemwe angakhale woyenera kuchita zachiwonekedwe kapena kukongola kwachilengedwe. Azimayi amatha kuzindikira mosavuta munthu mwa maonekedwe awo, nkhope zawo, kayendetsedwe ka kayendetsedwe kake, momwe amatha kusonyeza chidziwitso chawo mofulumira komanso moyenera. Choncho, n'zovuta kwambiri kuti munthu anyenge mtsikana. Msungwanayo, popanda zovuta zambiri, amamupusitsa chinyengo. Poona mnyamata wabwino, atsikana amamvetsera bwanji? Inde, chinthu choyamba mu kumwetulira kwake. Ngati mwayimilira kumbuyo kwa msungwanayo, ndiye kuti kufufuza kwake kuli kolunjika kwa thupi la munthuyo. Lamulo losavuta la amayi a chilengedwe, simungathe kuthawa kulikonse.

Sizowonjezera kuti asayansi a ku Britain, atayesera kufufuza kafukufuku wa diso la umunthu la umunthu, adapeza chodziwika bwino cha akazi. Mmene maonekedwe a mkazi wamba amawonetsera kupitirira kupenda kwa diso la mwamuna ndi madigiri 30-40! Izi ndi zoona ndipo simungathe kukangana naye. Chotsatira chachidziwitso ichi ndicho chitsimikizo chakuti amayi samatembenuza mitu yawo popita munthu wosadziwika, koma amawona ndondomeko zake monga momwe mwamuna amatembenuzira mutu wake. Izi zimakhala zochititsa chidwi kwambiri, zomwe zimakopa atsikana akamaona mnyamata, nthawi zambiri kumwetulira ndipo silhouette imatenga osachepera 1-3 masekondi.

Poyerekeza ndi chikhalidwe chachimuna choyesa mkazi, chomwe chimaphatikizapo kufufuza kwakukulu kwa mkazi kuchokera kumutu mpaka kumutu, kumatenga masabata asanu. Zonse zopanda phindu ndi zosangalatsa zomwe zimayesedwa ndi kuyesera kwa anthu amitundu yosiyana zimasonyeza kuti mkazi aliyense ali wochenjera kwambiri mofulumira kusiyana ndi amuna pambali pazikhalidwe zoyamba zachilengedwe ndipo izi ziyenera kuloledwa ndi theka lamphamvu laumunthu. Zovala zimathandizanso kuchepetsa chidwi cha mtsikanayo. Wokongola, wokongoletsera, mtundu wosankhidwa bwino wa zovala za mnyamatayu adzamvetsera ngakhale msungwana wonyada kwambiri. Ndipo ngati akadali yachilendo cha nyengoyi, kupambana kwa kukopa gawo labwino ndi lofatsa la anthu likutsimikiziridwa ndi 50%.

Mnyamatayu ayenera kungomwa zala ndi kumwetulira, ndipo asanakhale ndi nthawi yoganizira za chirichonse, mtsikanayo amamuyankha ndi kumwetulira komanso chidwi chake. Musataye mtima kuti mtsikana aliyense payekha payekha akukula mu malingaliro ake ndi mtundu wa kusankha kwake mtsogolo. Pambuyo pake, poyang'ana munthu wosadziwika, akuwoneka akuyesera malingaliro ake pa munthu weniweni. Ndi mwadzidzidzi wa fano lodziwika bwino lomwe liri ndi munthu weniweni pazinthu zambiri, pali chidwi chodabwitsa kwambiri. Ndipo kupititsa patsogolo kwa zochitika kale kumadalira momwe amatha kukhalira akamakumana ndi mnyamata. Anthu amphamvu komanso amodzi omwe samawoneka kwa ena akuwona kuti ndikofunikira kupereka chidwi chachikulu kwa munthu amakhutitsidwa kokha ndi odziwa.

Msungwanayo amamvetsera nthawi zambiri kwa anyamata osati mawonekedwe a chirengedwe, zomwe zimakhala ndi mphamvu zake zokhazikika komanso zamaganizo kuchokera pa mphindi yoyamba ya msonkhano. Anthu ambiri amachitcha kuti chikondi nthawi yoyamba! Koma musachedwe, ngati chikondi, ndiye kuti simungakonde kudzibisa. Posakhalitsa mudzazindikira kuti chilichonse m'dziko lino chili ndi malo ake ndi tsogolo labwino kwa anthu onse padziko lapansi. Ndipotu, chikondi ndi chidwi chachikulu komanso kugwirizana kwa mnyamata ndi mtsikana.