Nanga bwanji za mphamvu yachirengedwe? Monga mphatso ya Mlengi, yokhudzana ndi kukongola kwachilengedwe kwa okhala m'dziko lathu lapansi. Kukongola sikumaganiziridwa moyenera, kawirikawiri kumapangidwa ndi mfundo yeniyeni ya maphunziro a umunthu. Masiku ano, mafashoni apita patsogolo ndipo samakonza pa nkhope yofiira, yowonjezera ya zitsanzo.
Kukongola kwachilengedwe tsopano kumabwera koyamba, ndipo mapulaneti amatha kukongola kwa zokongola za mkuntho wodabwitsa wa mafashoni amakono. Mitundu yambiri imatuluka pakhungu la munthu, imatha kupezeka pamaso, ndi pamilomo, miyendo ndi thunthu la munthu. Kawirikawiri amawoneka ali aang'ono mwa anthu ndipo ali ndi zaka 30 akhoza kutha. Iwo amafalitsidwa molingana ndi chikhalidwe cha cholowacho. Zokondweretsa ndizoona kuti msungwanayo sapanda malamulo sakonda eni. Koma kafukufuku wamasewerawa amaphwanya lingaliro lovomerezeka la zokongola za caulked, 75% mwa anyamata ofunsidwa amakhulupirira kuti asungwanawo, omwe ali ndi mawanga a chikasu ndi a mdima wonyezimira, amapatsidwa chisangalalo chodabwitsa, chinsinsi komanso, ndithudi, kukongola. Choncho, 25% otsala a theka lachilungamo la umunthu akhoza kuchitira nsanje zokoma za ambiri.
Chitsanzo chodziwikiratu cha kuvomereza kwa azimayi ambiri ndizochita chidwi kwambiri ndi nyenyezi za padziko lapansi monga Courtney Cox, Penelope Cruz, Jodie Kidd, Christina Aguilera, Lindsay Lohan, Juliane Moore, Neve Campbell, Gisele Bundchen ndi ena ambiri. Kodi iyi si yankho la funso lakuti: "Kodi anyamata ngati mtsikana amakonda"? Iwo sankakayikira nkomwe kuti mawonekedwe awo odzisokoneza adzawachititsa kukhala otchuka kwambiri mu zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana za mdziko.
Mwinamwake, ambiri awona kale filimu yatsopano ya ku Russia yopanga zoperekedwa ku mutu wa chithunzi - kukopa atsikana ndi chithumwa chawo chifukwa cha usiku umodzi wokondana. Zimakhala zovuta kuti tiwone mbali imodzi mwa maudindo akuluakulu, omwe amajambula mosiyanasiyana, komanso pamtundu wonse wa thupi. M'nkhaniyi, anyamata poyamba sanazindikire kukongola kwake kwachilengedwe, koma atachita manyazi chifukwa cha freckled, anazindikira kuti pali kukongola! Nkhaniyi ikuwonetsa kuti ndi angati anyamata omwe akulakwitsa ndikuwothamangira ku "nyama".
Ndipo pambuyo pa makanda onse pafupi, pafupi kwambiri, ndipo sikofunika kufufuza chikondi mu ufa wophimbidwa ndi ufa ndi kupanga munthu. Mosakayikira, mwayi wa msungwana uyu ndi woposa 75% kuposa abwenzi ake aakazi, kukopa ndi kukopa munthu aliyense m'manja mwake. Kaya anyamatawa ali ndi chiwerengerochi kapena ayi, ndizosawasankha, koma zimakhala zovuta kwa mtsikanayo, zowala ndi zowoneka mosiyana kuchokera ku kuwala mpaka mdima!
Mphamvu ya kukongola kwa mbalamezi zimagwirizana bwino ndi zovala zoyera komanso kumwetulira msungwana. Anyamata amangochita zamisala zokongola, osasuka komanso osangalala. Sizowoneka kuti azimayi amawoneka nkhope ndi thupi la amayi omwe amawotchera, chifukwa chakuti nthawi zambiri amaima pamatenda osiyanasiyana.
Pomalizira, ndikufuna kudziwa kuti ziwerengerozi zidzathandiza kuti msungwana apereke chisokonezo kwa mayi wina wokongola ndi chovala chokongola. Musawope zoipa zanu, ndipo musamenyane nawo, ingokhulupirira kuti chilengedwe cholengedwa sichikhoza kukhala choipa, koma chimangowonjezera ndikuchulukitsa kukongola kwanu ndi malingaliro anu.