Kodi akazi amatha kunena chiyani?

Kawirikawiri funso likubwera chifukwa chake akazi ali chete? Kodi iwo akuganiza chiyani? Koma pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe safuna kugawana nawo malingaliro awo, mantha ndi ena. Ndipotu, nthawi zonse sindifuna kufotokoza makhadi anga, kotero kuti ena amatha kugwiritsa ntchito ngati "khadi" pamene akugunda. Njira yothetsera vutoli ndi kuyamba kanema, ndipo lembani mantha anu onse ndi maganizo anu mmenemo. Kapena, pokhapokha ngati zili choncho, n'zotheka kupita kwa katswiri, akhoza kuthana ndi kuthetsa nkhani zina.

Kawirikawiri akazi amakhala chete pa zomwe sakudziwa. Zimadalira zomwe zimachitika mmoyo wake, kusintha kotani kwachitika. Akazi samakhala chete ponena za chikondi ndi banja. Amene ali wosungulumwa, amaganiza momwe angakhalire banja, amapeza chikondi chake chokha. Amakhalanso chete pa zowawa zawo, zomwe zimabweretsa chikondi komanso moyo wathu. Kawirikawiri akazi amakhala chete pa ululu umene okondedwa awo, okondedwa awo ndi okondedwa awo amawachititsa. Koma simungazidziwe nokha, ndibwino kuwauza za izo kuti asayambitsenso.

Mayi akhoza kukhala chete osati zomwe zanenedwa pamwambapa, nthawi zonse amaganizira za kale, zam'mbuyo ndi zamtsogolo. Amafanizira ubale wake, malingaliro ake. Palinso akazi ambiri olota. Amachoka panopa, amaiwala chilichonse ndipo amangoganiza basi. Kotero iwo amataya nthawi yawo yamtengo wapatali, mmalo mokondwera ndi kukhalapo pakalipano. Pofuna kupewa izi, mwamuna ayenera kumukonda, kumuteteza, kumuyamikira, kumuuza kuti ndi wabwino kwambiri. Aliyense amadziwa kuti mkazi amakonda "makutu". Chifukwa cha chidwi cha okondedwa, iye sadzatayika mwa yekha, mu malingaliro ake.

Poyerekeza ndi amayi, abambo ndi ena odzikonda, amaganiza zambiri za iwo eni komanso za iwo, m'malo molota chinachake. Koma mkaziyo ali ndi chipiriro, chomwe chilibe malire. Mzimayi amasamalira malo ake, nyumba yake, ana ake. Amawasamalira. Chifukwa chokonda komanso kusamalira achibale ake, akhoza kukhala osangalala kwambiri.