Chikhalidwe cha amayi ndi chimodzi mwa mavuto omwe ankaganiziridwa zaka zikwi zingapo zapitazo. Koma ndi chiani chomwe chimachititsa kuti amayi azikhala otere?
Zochepa zochokera m'mbiri
Kwa nthawi yoyamba, dokotala wodziwika Hippocrates anali kuchita nawo phunziro la hysteria, amene adatchula chodabwitsa ichi kuchokera ku liwu lachilatini "chiberekero", kutanthauza "chiberekero". Malingana ndi Hippocrates, chiberekero chimayendetsedwa ndi thupi lachikazi ndipo chimalowa mu ziwalo, zomwe zimayambitsa matenda osiyanasiyana.
Koma lingaliro lalikulu la hysteria linagwiritsidwa ntchito, ndithudi, mu zaka za zana la 20 zowala. Maphunziro ake anachitidwa ndi Freud, Jung. Komanso, pafupifupi akatswiri onse omwe amaphatikizidwa mu phunziro la munthu psyche anapereka gawo la moyo wawo kuti aphunzire za hysteria, koma sakanatha kufotokoza vutoli.
Hysteria: ndi zabwino kapena zoipa?
Ngakhale masiku ano, katswiri aliyense amachitira chithandizo mwa njira yake. Kotero, ena a iwo amaona kuti dzikoli ndilokutembenuka kuchoka ku chizoloŵezi, koma ambiri mwa ofufuzawa adapeza kuti izi ndizofunikira kwambiri.
Chofunikira kwambiri ndi mawonetseredwe azimayi, omwe ali ofooka kwambiri kuposa amuna, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo ayenera kukhala ndi mwayi wina wothandizira chilengedwe. Izi zimangochititsa kuti ife tisanakhale mkazi wapadera wokhala ndi moyo wake wokha, wokhoza kusokoneza chilengedwe komanso kusintha moyo wake.
Ndi nthawi ziti zomwe hysteria imawonetseredwa?
Kuphunzira za nkhanza kumanena kuti nkofunika kuyamba sdetstva. Zili choncho kuti mwana aliyense, kaya akhale mwamuna kapena mkazi, ali ndi zotchedwa hysterical reaction mechanism, zomwe zimamulolera kusintha mofulumira kwa chilengedwe ndikudziŵa mwamsanga, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kuti adziwe zambiri za chidziwitso. Ndiyeso ndi imodzi mwa njira zomwe zimapatsa ana mwayi wolandila ndikupanga zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zowonjezereka zomwe munthu angathe kuzigonjetsa kuyambira zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri mpaka kumapeto kwa moyo.
Kwa amayi, njira yowonongeka yowonongeka imalola, choyamba, kudziwa dziko lozungulira popanda kuzindikira kwake. Ngati chidziwitso chikudutsa, amai ayamba kufufuza, ndiye kuti chidziwitso chimapezedwa pang'onopang'ono. Ndichifukwa chake hysteria si matenda kapena chizindikiro cha matenda a mitsempha.
Inde, nthawi zambiri timadalira zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku, kunena kuti mkazi kapena mkaziyo ndi munthu wonyansa, psychopath yemwe sangathe kuchitapo kanthu mwakachetechete ndikupeza njira zina zopweteka. Makamaka mawu omwe timamva kuchokera kwa omwe amawona momwe mkazi akufotokozera mmene akumvera.
Koma ngati mumayang'ana mbali ina, zimakhala zovuta - izi ndizo gawo la mkazi aliyense, popanda zomwe zimakhala zovuta kukhala pakati pa oimira zachiwerewere.
Mukuona mwamtheradi, osakhoza kusonyeza maganizo anu pagulu, akazi, omwe adamva zowawa zawo? Chowonadi ndi chakuti, iwo sasiyana kwambiri ndi anthu.
Zikuoneka kuti zolembera zamatsenga zomwe zili mu chikhalidwe - zimakhala ngati kusiyana kwa umunthu, zomwe zimalola mkazi kuti azitha kuwonetsa chilengedwe chonse, komanso makamaka amuna.
Pali lingaliro lakuti mu zinyama pali zinthu zina zotchedwa pheromones, zomwe zimakopa anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Zhemeanizmom zoterezi zimatha kuonedwa kuti ndi hysteria, yomwe ndi mtundu wa pheromone wa msonkho, umene umakopa chidwi, pokhala wogwiritsa ntchito mwaluso poyankhula ndi ena.
Funso lina ndilokuti pali akazi oterewa, omwe nthawi zambiri samakhala amisiri, amasonyeza kuti ali ndi chikhalidwe chodetsa nkhawa, ndipo kulankhulana kwawo kumakhala koopsa kwambiri. Ngati, ngakhale, chiwonetsero chimasonyezedwa mofatsa, mwachifatso, ndiye chikhoza kugwirizanitsidwa ndi luso la amayi omwe amachita nawo anthu.
Zindikirani kuti kumayambiriro kwa zaka za m'ma 90 chisokonezocho chinachotsedwa ku matenda osiyanasiyana, zomwe zimatanthawuza kuti ngakhale mayi wokonda kwambiri maganizo omwe amachitira mwamphamvu mkhalidwewo akuwoneka ngati mankhwala okwanira. Kuchita kumasonyeza kuti moyenera mayi wonyansa amatha kuyambitsa chidwi chenicheni kwa amuna, pamene anthu omwe sakhala ndi chidwi amakhala osasamala.