Tiyeni tiyesetse kuona ngati akazi awiri angathe kukhalapo kwa zaka zambiri, popanda kupanga wina ndi mzake mavuto, ndiye kuti ali ndi ubale weniweni komanso womuthandiza.
Mgwirizanowo.
Zikuchitika kuti pali akazi awiri omwe ali osiyana kwambiri ndi wina ndi mnzake. Mmodzi wa brunette, wachiwiri blonde, wochenjera, wachiwiri wokongola, wina amakonda kwambiri, wina wolemera ndi zina zotero. Iwo alibe chofanana, ndipo movutikira pali mitu yolankhulana ngakhale nthawi yopanda chinthu cholankhulana, iwo si adani, osiyana basi. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi akaziwa amakhala mabwenzi abwino kwambiri omwe amadziwika bwino kwa onse.
Kusintha kwadzidzidzi kotereku kuli ndi chifukwa chomwe chimalongosola chirichonse. Wachitatu wosavomerezeka akuwoneka mmiyoyo ya akazi awa. Ndipo gawo lachitatuli limapanga mavuto ofanana ndi akazi awiriwa osiyana-siyana - amasokoneza ntchito, flirts ndi amuna awo, amayesera kutenga malo awo pakati pa anzawo omwe amadziwika nawo. Kunena zoona, pali mpikisano yemwe angathe kuwononga kusamala kumeneku komwe kunasungidwa, chifukwa cha kusiyana kwa abwenzi omwe anali atangobereka kumene.
Chigwirizano chimenechi nthawi zonse chimatsutsana ndi wina, ndi chothandiza komanso chokhazikika, malinga ngati pali chinthu chokhumudwitsa - wotsutsana. Mwamsanga pamene wopikisanayo atha, kufunika koti wina ndi mzake apitirizane kumadutsanso.
Ndalama yamtengo wapatali.
Kawirikawiri, akazi ndi abwenzi kwa zaka zokha chifukwa cha phindu. Ngakhale kuti zomwe zimawoneka zimakhala zachikazi, makamaka, akazi salekanitsidwa ndi khalidweli, amangofotokoza mosiyana.
Pazochitika zotero, mkazi mmodzi amakhala ndi udindo wotsogola, ndipo wachiwiri umakhala nawo. Chimodzi chimapindula pa ntchito yake, m'moyo wake, wachiwiri akuyesera kupeza ntchito yabwino chifukwa cha kugwirizana kwa bwenzi lake lapambano, kapena mwamuna wabwino, chifukwa cha kugwirizana komweko ndi mgwirizano wochititsa chidwi poyamba.
Kulumikizana kotereku kungakhalepo mofanana ndi kuleza mtima kwa mzanu - mtsogoleri - ndikwanira. M'kupita kwa nthawi, pamaziko a "mchira" wosasokonezeka pali mikangano, nsanje yosapeŵeka ndi zizolowezi zopanda pake, zomwe ndi chifukwa chake chibwenzi choterechi chikugwera.
Kutsimikizira.
Amuna samatopa ndikudabwa: nchifukwa chiyani atsikana okongola nthawi zonse amakhala mabwenzi abwenziwa? Ndi zophweka! Kulimbana ndi zosaoneka bwino zosavuta kumakhala zosavuta kuwoneka ngati kukongola kokongola. Kusiyanitsa uku kumagwira ntchito ndipo koposa zonse ndimakonda zonse ziwiri.
Mkazi wokongola amalandira chidwi chake kuchokera kwa amuna, ndipo bwenzi lake limatonthoza iwo amene mphepo yamkuntho yamakana. Popanda bwenzi labwino kwambiri, mkazi wonyansayo sakanamveretsa amuna, ndipo mkazi wokongola ayenera kulimbana ndi anthu amphamvu.
Ubwenzi wotero umatha pamene mkazi wokongola amapeza mtsogoleri ndikumangokwatira. Bwenzi lake liribe kanthu koti lingagwire, ndipo iwo amagawana.
Kapena mayi wachikulireyo amamveka modzidzimutsa ndipo amayamba kukopeka kwambiri ndi iyeyo kuposa momwe mnzakeyo akanafunira.
Ubwenzi umenewu nthawi zambiri umayamba m'zaka zaunyamata ndipo nthawi zambiri umatha nthawi yaitali kuti bwenzi limodzi la atsikana lisatembenuke 25.
Malinga ndi malamulo a nkhalango.
Zakhala zikudziwika kale kuti akazi ndi achinyengo komanso zonyansa. Wodzichepetsa aliyense akhoza kubisa makhalidwe a zamoyo zenizeni, omwe amakhala mmenemo ndi kuyembekezera mwayi kuti awoneke mu ulemerero wake wonse.
Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, amayi nthawi zambiri amatcha chibwenzi kuti sangathe kuima. Zikuwoneka, chifukwa chiyani mukukhala abwenzi?
Azimayi amamvetsa bwino lamuloli - kusunga adani pafupi ndi anzawo. Wokondedwa wanga anayesera kutenga malo anu? Kodi munthu wachikulire ankadziŵana ndi mwamuna wake? Mnansi akuyesa kuyang'ana bwino ndi wamng'ono? Nthawi zambiri, izi ndizo chifukwa cha ubwenzi wapamtima kwambiri wazimayi. Cholinga cha chiyanjano choterocho ndi chimodzimodzi - gulu lovulazidwa limazindikira mfundo zofooka za otsutsana komanso pa nthawi yoyenera, pamodzi, zimamuchotsa panjira yake.
Nthawi zina zimakhala zosavuta kuzindikira mabwenzi amtima omwewa akuoneka kuti akukondana. Ndiubwenzi uwu umene umapereka chakudya chokamba za kuti amayi sangathe kukhala abwenzi nkomwe.
Club ya zofuna.
Zomwe anthu amanena, akazi kawirikawiri samachita chinachake monga choncho. Amuna samangomvetsetsa zolinga zonse nthawi zonse. Kawirikawiri atsikana awiri amapeza zofanana pa malingaliro, zizoloŵezi, zokondana wina ndi mzake ndipo ichi ndicho chifukwa cha ubale wautali. Ndizosangalatsa pamene wina amakumvetsa ndipo amavomereza kuti kukongola kuli kokondweretsa kwambiri kuposa kuyang'ana ma TV.
Ubale wamtundu uwu wachikazi ndi wapadera kwa madona aang'ono kwambiri kapena atakhala kale ndi amayi. Iwo sagwirizana nawo malo pansi pa dzuwa, koma amangokondwera nawo chiyanjano, chifukwa iwo ali pafupifupi magalasi mafano a wina ndi mzake, ngakhale osati kunja.
Zoonadi, zimachitika kuti kufanana koteroko kumabweretsa kuoneka kwa chinthu chimodzi chifukwa cha chilakolako, ndipo 3 mpaka 2, monga momwe akudziwira, sagawanika.
Chifukwa chake, ndi idyll yotereyi sichitha kutengeka ndi mphepo yamkuntho.
Koma panthawi imodzimodziyo pali amayi ambiri omwe amatha kukhala ndi ubale wolimba kuchokera pa unyamata ndi tsitsi. Kodi amachita bwanji zimenezi?
Pa ubwenzi, komanso pa ubale uliwonse, nkofunika kugwira ntchito. Mmodzi ayenera kunena momveka bwino, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo samvetsetsa. Muyenera kudalira, koma mvetserani zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito potsutsana ndi inu panthawi yomwe mungathe kukangana. Ndikofunika kuti musayende pamsewu wa mnzanu komanso musadere nkhawa ndi kupambana kwake. Pamapeto pake, simusowa kuti mutenge amuna ena.
Palibe aliyense wa inshuwalansi wotsutsa imfa, ndipo kutaya mnzathu kumakhala kowawa kwambiri kusiyana ndi kutaya wokondedwa. Zomwe zimagwirizanitsa, kukhulupilira, kumvetsetsa, kukhudzidwa, kukwanitsa kukhululukira ndi kusabisala - ndi maziko omwe angakhazikitse ubale wabwino. Ndiye mutha kukhala ndi mapewa odalirika nthawi zovuta komanso zosangalatsa m'moyo.