Tiyeni tiyankhule za munthu wamba amene amakonda mkazi ndipo amawoneka ngati iye. Kodi mukufuna mwamuna ndi chikhalidwe chachikazi kapena mwamuna? Mwinamwake, kukhala ndi moyo mu moyo, koma bwanji za chithandizo mu moyo? Mwachitsanzo, mumadumpha ndi chimwemwe, ndipo amalumpha ndi inu. Mwina muli misozi, ali misozi. Kawirikawiri amai samvetsa zomwe akufuna. Taganizirani za munthu yemwe ali ndi khalidwe lachikazi. Kodi amai amamva bwanji ndi amuna ofatsa? Ndipo mu chikhalidwe ichi pali zowonjezera ndi zoperewera.
Muzikwatira "ndakatulo"
Tangoganizani munthu yemwe amagwira ntchito bwino, samasuta, samamwa. Iye ali wokhudzidwa kwambiri, kulira, kuyamikira dzuwa litalowa. Iye sangatsutsane, ngati mukufuna kupita naye ku dziwe, iye adzapita nanu, ndipo ngati mutakhala kunyumba madzulo ano, adzakudziwani. Pamaso pathu pali mtundu wa ndakatulo wamwamuna. Koma amayi ambiri samawakonda. Kupatula ngati muli ndi zaka 16. Amuna awa sali othandiza pamoyo, vuto lililonse limamupangitsa kukhala wodetsa nkhawa. Mkazi pafupi ndi mwamuna uyu ayenera kukhala wamphamvu. Nthawi zina mu moyo palibe kukongola, ndipo ngati mulira kwa anthu awiri, zidzakufikitsani ku zotsatira zoopsa.
Amuna ndi otchuka kwambiri
Azimayi ambiri akhoza kusewera "mwa amayi", mvetserani kuvomereza kwa munthu, kupukuta mphuno yake. Ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo ndikudikirira munthu kuti akhale thanthwe limene ndikanafuna kubisala kumphepo ndi mkuntho. Mu moyo, kawirikawiri muli amuna amene angakhale khoma lalikulu kwa inu ndi kutsegula moyo. Ndiyeno amasewera. Chinsinsi cha munthu wopambana ndi chakuti sangakhale wamphamvu ngati "samachita" munthu. Amuna ndi otchuka kwambiri. Pamene munthu woteroyo akuwona kuti mkazi ali mumatsenga, samamvetsera maganizo ake, iye ndi mwamuna ndipo sayenera kuchita. Koma musafulumize kuweruza, mwinamwake akufuna kulira, nthawi zambiri munthu amaletsa kumverera. Kotero fano imamupangitsa kuchita zimenezo, safuna kudzilemekeza.
Mwana wa Mamenkin
Munthu yemwe ali ndi khalidwe laulemu sangathe kudziwona yekha kuchokera kunja, kotero musakhale wamanyazi. Mudzadziwa zomwe zikuchitika mu moyo wa munthu wanu. Kuyambira pano ndikufuna kukhala ndekha ndikukhalitsa. Mwamuna uyu ali yekha ndi amayi ake. Sangathe kupanga chikhalidwe popanda mphamvu ya amayi. Mkhalidwe wabwino wa munthu umatsimikizika muunyamata, pamene iwe uyenera kuchotsa mwana wako kuchokera kwa amayi ako. Zakale zapitazo, anthu ambiri adachotsa mnyamatayo kuchokera kwa amake, adamutumiza kukaphunzira, kugwira ntchito, ndi kutsekera pakati pa anyamata omwewo. Mwinamwake ndibwino kukhala ndi munthu wofatsa. Taganizirani za ubwino ndi zomvetsa chisoni za munthu uyu:
Zotsatira:
- Iye ndi wocheperapo kwa inu nonse, mumamva mwamphamvu.
- Kawirikawiri iye ndi banja labwino, amakonda ana.
- Sangakhale ndi nsanje.
- Simukusowa kuyang'ana bwenzi, mwamuna ndi bwenzi lanu kulankhula zakukhosi.
- Mu moyo sangakudodometseni ndi chirichonse, ndipo ndi zabwino.
- Amatha kupita kukagula limodzi ndi inu tsiku lonse.
Wotsatsa:
- Mudzasokonezeka naye.
- Mudzatopa kwambiri ndi kuvomereza kwake, mudzasokonezeka muzinthu zake, muli nazo zanu.
- Mu nthawi yovuta sitingathe kumuthandiza. Adzayamba kukumana ndi inu, m'malo momatha kukukhalitsani ngati mwamuna.
- Iye sali mmodzi wa iwo omwe angapange ndalama zambiri, chifukwa chakuti palibe khalidwe.
- Mu moyo wapamtima, simungakwanitse kufika pamapiri, mudzalakalaka munthu wamphamvu.
Dzifunseni nokha mtundu wa munthu yemwe mumamufuna, muyenera kumakhala naye limodzi. Pali amayi omwe amaletsa, kulemekeza, kusakhala ndi umuna samagwira ntchito iliyonse. Nthawi zina mkazi amakwatira mwamuna mwachikondi ndikukhala naye moyo wake wonse, koma amanjenjemera. Ndipo mkazi wina amasankha munthu wamphamvu, pamodzi ndi iye pali mikangano, kusamvetsetsana, koma kukhala naye ndi kosangalatsa.