Anatsimikiza kukhulupirira. Popeza chiyembekezo cha kachilomboka sichikutseguka, ndipo dikirani mpaka wina akuwoneka bwino komanso atsimikizirika kuti "atha", - kamodzi, yambani kuchita nokha. Pambuyo pa zonse, monga zanakhalira, chiyembekezo chimatha ... kuphunzitsa. Asayansi a ku America apanga phunziro limene anthu odzipereka anapatsidwa maopaleshoni apadera omwe amachititsa kukhala ndi chimwemwe chokhalitsa chimwemwe: modzidzimutsa pamaso pa galasi, chitani chinthu chomwe mumaikonda, ngaŵane nkhani zosangalatsa. Ndipo chinachitika ndi chiani? Ndipo adadzipereka kuti apitirize kusintha maganizo awo ndi matupi awo mothandizidwa ndi maganizo abwino. Amayi asayansi a ku America ndi ambuye abwino kwambiri pa kafukufuku wofuna chidwi, koma panopa ndi koyenera kuwerengera njira zawo. Pambuyo pake, munthu wokhulupirira kwambiri ndi munthu amene amamvetsa bwino kuti ngati simungathe kusintha zinthu, ndiye kuti musinthe maganizo anu kwa iwo. Kukhala ndi lingaliro ndi malingaliro abwino a dziko.
Tikuphunzira za chiyembekezo - kukhala ndi maganizo abwino padziko lapansi. Musadandaule za moyo ndipo musabwereze zomwe zimavuta kwa ena. Ngati pali vuto, liyenera kuthetsedwa, mmalo mofukula mmenemo, kusankha mwatsatanetsatane. Limbikitsani magulu anu kuti mupeze njira yothetsera vutoli, chifukwa mumalankhulana kosatha za mavuto anu, mumakumana nawo mobwerezabwereza. Mwa njira, n'zotheka kuti panjira yothetsera yankho mudzamvetsa kuti, mwinamwake, chirichonse sichili choipa, ndipo zinthu zidzakuyenderani inu ndi mbali zabwino. Kumbukirani lamulo lalikulu la chiyembekezo - chilichonse chomwe chimachitika - kukhala bwino! Khalani omasuka ndi ochezeka kwa anthu ena, kumwetulira nthawi zambiri. Inde, bungweli ndilovuta kugwiritsa ntchito kwa antchito ena a mabungwe a boma, koma ngakhale miyoyo yawo yopanda malire ingasungunuke ndi kukoma mtima.
Yesani! Sinthani sitima ya ganizo. Mudzadabwa kwambiri mukawona kuti zinthu, zochitika, anthu amasintha. Choncho musataye maganizo anu potsutsa ndikufufuza olakwa. Pambuyo pake, tsiku lidzafika ndipo padzakhala mwayi watsopano! Musakhale aulesi tsiku lililonse kuti mulembe muzolemba zokhudzana ndi kutentha kwa mtima - kuchokera kuzinthu zowonjezera, monga kuwalipira, kwa ang'onoang'ono, monga kupsompsona kwa mpweya, womwe unatumizidwa kwa inu ndi woyendetsa galimoto yotsatira. Kenaka werengani izi - zolimbikitsa kwambiri! Ngati zikuwoneka kuti zonse sizikuyenda monga momwe ziyenera kukhalira, yambani zomwe zimachitikira anthu omwe amadziŵa okha zomwe zili ngati kuyang'ana kuwala kumapeto kwa msewu.