Zolemba zovuta zokhudzana ndi ubale wa banja

Vutoli siliri latsopano, koma ngakhale chosiyana ndi chakale kwambiri. Koma zikuwoneka kuti m'masiku athuwa sikuti ndizovuta, samalemba zambiri, kuyankhula pafupifupi, samakambirana kapena kutsutsa. Ndikulankhula za chiyani? Ine ndiribe kanthu koti ndichite, ine ndikukamba za? Pafupi ndi mkazi kapena mtsikana yemwe mayi anga sanamuuze ali mwana wake: "Mwana wamkazi, ndikukuchonderera, usagwirizane ndi amuna okwatirana, makamaka omwe ali ndi ana, simungathe kukondwera ndi mavuto ena."


Ndipo atsikana awa amadziwana bwino ndi amuna okwatira, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, ziribe kanthu kuti ndi wotani, amangokonda nkhope yake, komanso kuti samusamala, chifukwa amadziwa kuti wina ndi mkazi wake: "Mkazi sali khoma, mungathe kusuntha, ndipo ndi ana chiyani? Palibe, ali mwana, wopusa, wosadziwika, wowonongeka, wodzikonda. Ndipo anthu amagwiritsa ntchito, amanyengerera kuti msungwana ali wokondana naye, ndipo amuna omwe ali mu quadrangles amakula kwa nthawi yaitali. Sitikulankhula za "abambo", omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala m'banja, ndipo ana awo akhala akuluakulu.

Zikuwoneka ngati zonsezi ndi zophweka. Mabanja ang'ono okha amasonyeza chikondi paukwati, ndipo pamene moyo ukuyamba, monga nthawi zonse munthu sawakonda chinachake, ndipo chinthu chovuta kwambiri n'chakuti okwatirana sangathe kukhala pansi ndikukambirana za vutoli. Zonse mwazimene zimaganizira kapena kuganiza, zimayesa kuthetsa vutoli ndi momwe nthawi imasonyezera - yokha.

Apa akuyamba kukana kupita kunyumba - palibe yemwe akudikirira, osasangalala, amayamba kupeza ubale, ndipo amuna ndi amuna omwe ali ofooka, safuna kupeza ubale, kunyamula udindo. Choncho, pamene adadziwana ndi mtsikana wina, sakusamala. Choyamba, sanafune kubwezera chifukwa cha mkazi wake wovomerezeka - anadandaula, ndiye sankaganiza - zinali zotheka kupumula mu mtundu wina, mu kampani ina, kenako adaleka kubwerera kwawo ndipo sadzidziyimira yekha.

Mkazi, ndithudi, amamvetsa zonse kwa nthawi yaitali, ndipo anthu abwino amapezeka - amatha kunena, koma ali ngati wokonzeka, ali wokwanira, ndi mkazi womasulidwa, nthawi zina amapeza ndalama zambiri kuposa mwamuna wake kangapo, zomwe zimamuthandiza, mwanayo komanso Kwa nthawi yayitali inali nthawi yoti abereke ... Koma kwenikweni, mkazi wotayika angamve ululu waukulu, chifukwa adakondanso. Pansi pa moyo wake, amadana ndi wozunzayo, amamukonda kwambiri, akufuna kuti tsiku lina razluchnitsa adzikhala pamalo ake, ndi zina zotero. Ndipo zonsezi m'moyo nthawi zambiri zimachitika, koma kuzungulira ndi amuna okwatira sasiya, chifukwa chiyani?

Ndizomvetsa chisoni m'mabwalo awa okha. Mwamuna ndi mkazi wake ali osadziwika, ngakhale atakhala limodzi mpaka ukwati wa siliva kapena golidi, iwo amakhalabe alendo. Ndipo ndi ana okha omwe amawagawana nawo, chifukwa aliyense wa iwo amakhala mayi ndi bambo kwa mwana, yemwe anakhala wachibale wamagazi kwa onse awiriwo. Tsopano mwana uyu akukumana nawo kwambiri, iye akufuna kukhala ndi amayi ake ndi abambo, iye amawakonda iwo onse, koma palibe yemwe anamufunsa iye. Ndipo ndibwino, ngati makolo ali ndi nzeru zokwanira kuti asapatule mwanayo, kuti asamangoganizira za vutoli, makamaka popeza ana a m'zaka za zana lathu anganene kuti ali "apamwamba," nthawi zina safunikira kufotokoza chilichonse, amadziwa zonse, komanso kukonda makolo awo mofananamo, ndipo mofananamo yesetsani kulankhulana ndi onse awiri. Papa akubweretsa mwanayo ku banja lake latsopano, ngati ndinganene choncho.

Kawirikawiri mu registrar, amuna mobwerezabwereza safulumira, ndipo mwinamwake iwo samatero. Msungwanayu akutsatira mutuwu pamwambamwamba wokhala ndi mkazi wokhala ndi boma, pa malo oipitsitsa, ndipo makamaka anali wokongola - "mbuye"! Ndiye ndani amene anakwanitsa kuchita zonsezi? Ndikufuna kudziwa yankho la funso ili kwa aliyense amene ali ndi gawoli, kapena kuti katatu. Ife timusiya mwanayo yekha, ndiye wovuta kwambiri, ayenera kusintha, kuyankha mafunso ovuta a amayi ake, atachokera kwa papa.

Koma sindikhulupirira mwana wamkazi-razluchnitsu, ngati akunena kuti ali bwino. Iye sangakhoze kuchita chirichonse chabwino, iye sadziwa ngakhale chabwino ndi choyipa, ngati kuyambira pachiyambi iye anali wokonzeka kuchita choyipa choyipa_kuphwanya banja la wina. Iye tsopano akukula, nthawi yosangalatsa yatha, ndipo tsopano nayenso ali ndi moyo wamba tsiku ndi tsiku ndi mwamuna uyu, koma iye mwiniwake samavomereza, ngakhale chirichonse sichili chabwino konse. Ndipo mwamuna yemwe adakhalabe naye, posakhalitsa, akayamba kukangana, kamodzi, koma adzamunyoza: "Mwamphwanya banja langa!" Chifukwa m'maganizo mwake banja loyamba limeneli lidzakhala ili nthawi zonse malingaliro ake mwa iye amasungidwa ndi mwana yemwe amamukonda.

Atsikana, tiyeni tibwerere ku nthawi ya agogo ndi agogo aakazi, pamene zochitika zoterozo zinali zosatheka. Pamene akazi oterewa ankanyansidwa ngakhale achibale ake, pamene kulera kumapeto sikulekerera kuchita zimenezo! Kodi zinapita kuti? Ngati Mulungu akupatseni mwana wamkazi, musaiwale kumuuza kuti sadzakhala ndi chibwenzi ndi amuna okwatirana, mumamvetsa izi kuchokera kwa inu nokha, koma palibe chomwe chingakonzedwe.

Mupangitse ana anu aakazi kukhala osangalala, okondedwa, ndipo palibe wina amene ali ndi chifukwa chotsatira iwo kuti anene choipa, choipa ndi nkhanza! Samalani chikondi!