Kulimbana ndi kupambana.
Chilichonse chimadziwika kuti ndikofunika kuti amuna akhale kapena akuwoneka ngati apambana. Tangoganizani izi: Mwamuna wanu ndi mtsogoleri woonekera kapena akufuna kukhala naye, koma kupambana ndi kwanu nokha. Ayenera kutsimikizira kuti iye si woipa, osati kwa inu okha, komanso kwa abwenzi, achibale, ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, kwa iye mwini. Tiyerekeze kuti munayamba ntchito yanu panthawi imodzimodzi ndi zofanana: maphunziro ofanana, luso lofanana, zolinga ndi zolinga. Mu zaka zochepa inu muli kale bwana, ndipo akadali mlaliki wofatsa. Mwamuna amatha kupanikizika nthawi zonse, akuyesera kukumana ndi inu, adzawona ngakhale akusowa, akuchitira nsanje komanso kupambana kwanu, ndi amuna ena opambana. Ndipotu, maanja oterewa amakumana ndi kusintha kwa maudindo a amuna, komwe mtsogoleri amakhala kwamuyaya kapena kwa kanthawi.
Ngati mumayamikira munthu wanu, yesetsani kuti moyo wake ukhale wosalira zambiri, chifukwa momwe mumakhalira ndi iye, zimadalira ubale wanu. Ngati ali ndi nsanje kwa anzake, musawabisire. Mwachitsanzo, funsani mwamuna wanu ku ofesi, komwe angatsimikizire kuti, ngakhale mutapambana, alibe oyenerera. Mukamamuyamikira, musamangoganizira za umunthu, koma makhalidwe abwino. Chiyamiko si kukongola ndi mphamvu, koma nzeru, luso la kulingalira, kulingalira. Koma musanyalanyaze, izo ziwoneka mwamsanga. Khalani wonyada pa iye, ndipo msiyeni iye amve izo nthawizonse momwe iye angafunire.
Limbani ndi "medal".
Nthawi zambiri, munthu wokondedwa wanu ali kutali ndi woyamba, ndipo amadziwa bwino kwambiri. Ngakhale kuti akunena kuti amatsatira maganizo aulere ndipo alibe chotsutsana nacho, kuti musanakhale ndi chidziwitso mu ubalewu, izi sizikutanthauza kuti iye alibe nsanje. Mwamuna wapatsidwa chiwerengero chachikulu cha mantha ndi makompyuta, omwe sitingathe kuziganizira. Iye amadziyerekeza nthawi zonse ndi iwo omwe akhalapo nanu kale, ndipo izi sizimakonda kwenikweni. Mwamuna akufuna kukhala woyamba ndi wopambana, koma malingaliro ake amabereka ziphona zakugonana zomwe zakuzungulirani kale.
Mutetezeni ku nkhaŵa zopanda pake. Musayankhe mafunso opusa, musamukakamize kuti asakayike kuti iye ali wabwino koposa omwe anali ndi inu. Ngakhale izi siziri choncho. Kuti apite nsanje, zokwanira kumutsimikizira kuti simukukondwera ndi kukula, njira kapena nthawi, koma chifukwa chakuti ndiye amene amachita. Izi zidzamuthandiza kuti akhulupirire yekha.
Kulimbana ndi mizimu.
Ubale umene unali nawo pamaso pa mwamuna wako, uwu si nthawi yokha ya kukayikira pabedi. Inu mosakayikira mumatchula oyambirira - winawake anali woipa kwambiri, wina wabwino kwambiri, winawake wakuponya iwe, munthu wina. Mwamuna wanu akukwiya kwambiri, ndiye akuwotchedwa ndi nsanje kapena kaduka. Ndipo nthawi zonse amakayikira ngati mumamukonda kwambiri, kodi simukuganiza kuti mumaganiza za Vasya wotaya kapena Petya womanizer?
Choyamba, lekani zokambiranazo kamodzi. Ngati mukufuna kukambirana chinachake, sankhani nokha - lankhulani ndi bwenzi lanu kapena katswiri wa zamaganizo. Choyamba, inu nokha muyenera kutseka chitseko pambuyo pa ubale wanu wakale. Ngati mafunso ndi zokambirana zikuuka, molimba mtima akunena kuti zonse zomwe zinali zakale siziyenera kuziganizira. Mutsimikizireni munthu kuti mumakonda naye ndipo ndinu wokondwa.
Kulimbana ndi ufulu wachinsinsi.
Kodi simunazindikire kuti amuna samakonda kufotokozera ena zomwe anakumana nazo? Ndipo, mwinamwake mwatha kuzindikira kuti kukambirana kwanu kwa telefoni kapena kutalika ndi abwenzi kukhitchini, nawonso, sikumabweretsa munthu wokondwera? Iye samamvetsa chifukwa chake kudzipatulira ku mafunso apamtima kwambiri pa moyo wanu wa alendo. Izi ndizo kwa inu, Lena kapena Marina - mabwenzi abwino kwambiri ochokera kumayamayi, koma kwa iye izi ndizo miseche. Kuonjezera apo, amuna nthawi zonse amaopa kuti m'makambirano awa sangafotokozedwe makhalidwe awo abwino, zolephereka ndi zolakwa zonse.
Choyamba, musabisike kwa abwenzi anu abwenzi anu, ngati sangafune kudziŵa nokha, zomwe zingachititse zotsatira zosayembekezereka. Koma osalankhulana mochuluka, chifukwa chakuti pali chidziwitso chilichonse chomwe chingagwiritsidwe ntchito motsutsa iwe. Lankhulani zomwe simungachite manyazi kumva kuchokera kwa ena.
Ubale nthawi zonse umagwira ntchito. Zimakhala kuti si ife okha omwe timachita mantha, nsanje, nsanje kapena kukhumudwa. Samalani munthu wanu, chifukwa nthawizina iwo ali ofooka kwambiri ndipo amafunikira chitetezo chathu ndi chisamaliro chathu.