"Kodi mukukumana ndi aliyense?", "Kodi mukakwatirana liti?", "Chifukwa chiyani mulibe ana?", "Kodi mumayesa kuchuluka kotani tsopano?", "Kodi mwamuna wanu ali ndi malipiro otani?" muyenera kulingalira zifukwa za mafunso osayenerera awa ?! Kodi mungatani mukamachita zimenezi? Nanga ndi ndani amene mungalankhule ndi momwe mungalole kuti ena asokoneze ubale wanu ndi mwamuna wanu? A witty amayankha mafunso osamveka ndi ndemanga ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo akufotokozedwa pansipa.
Mukhoza kuseka mozungulira, mutsimikizire aliyense kuti ndinu wokondwa, kapena, mosiyana, khalani opanda khalidwe poyankha mafunso onse, zotsatira zake zidzakhalabe chimodzi. Mpaka inu nokha musaleke kudandaula za izi kapena kuti, simudzamva kumva mau awa ndikuusa moyo kuchokera kumbali.
Sindimayera
Kuchokera kwa ana okha mavuto "," Sindikukonda, "" Ndili ndi zaka 18 "...
Bwanji mukubwera ndi zifukwa zabwino? Ndipo chimachitika ndi chiyani ngati mukunena zoona? Yesetsani kudzipatsa nokha mayankho a mafunso awa. Kodi muli kunja kwa zokambirana za ukwati wanu? Choncho ndiuzeni moona mtima kuti: Chibwenzi changa sichitcha kuti ndikwatirane. Kodi mukuwopa chiyani? Kodi abwenzi anu ndi achibale anu amatsutsa mfundo zokhudzana ndi mnzanuyo? Kodi mukudziwa chifukwa chake sakufuna kukwatira? Ngati sichoncho, ndiye nthawi yothetsera vuto ndi chibwenzicho.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti mwa kukwatirana, kuchepa thupi, kubereka mwana kapena kusintha ntchito, mudzakhala osangalala, mukulakwitsa. Mpaka mutaphunzira kuyamikira nthawi iliyonse ya moyo wanu, simungasangalale mu ukwati, mwana wobadwa, kapena msinkhu watsopano waketi. Musanaphunzire kukana "pochemuchkam" yovuta, muyenera kusiya kuganizira za vutoli.
Diso la diso, Tiyeni tilowe njira ya ankhondo
Ngati achibale anu ndi abwenzi anu samvetsa zomwe mwafotokoza kuyambira nthawi yachitatu, ndi nthawi yoti muike ma bulati onse pa "i". Poyankha mafunso awo, funsani nokha. Kotero, kumva kuti: "Kodi mukakwatirana liti?", "Kodi mumakonzekera kukhala ndi ana?" Ndipo "Kodi malipiro a mwamuna wanu ndi chiyani?" - nenani: "Mukufunsanji?", "Kodi kusiyana kwake ndi kotani?" , amathetsa munthu wosayankhula mwanzeru.
Kuonjezera apo, kusunga lamulo la atatu "osati", mukhoza kuthetsa mwamsanga maofesi ndi "ofunira zabwino". Kotero, palibe:
MUSATI kusonyeza kuti simukuzikonda izi kapena mutuwo.
Musamachite mantha kuti muyankhe. Palibe amene amaganizira za momwe mumamvera.
MUSAKHALA okhumudwa. Inde, mwinamwake awa okondeka komanso osakonda bwino akulondola. Inu nokha mukufuna kukwatira, khalani ndi mwana ndipo muyang'ane bwinoko pang'ono. Chabwino, ndiye muli ndi cholinga chomwe muyenera kuyesetsa.
Mwamuna kuti athandizidwe
Kawirikawiri, "ofunira zabwino" amalowa mu ubale pakati pa okwatirana. "Nchifukwa chiyani sakukumana nawe pambuyo pa ntchito?", "Anakupatsani chiyani tsiku la kubadwa kwake?", "Ndi liti pamene mudzakhala ndi ana?" Mafunso okhwima ndi mamiliyoni, ndipo simukusowa kuwayankha okha. Ngati simukukonda chinachake ndipo inu, monga ena, ganizirani kuti ndi nthawi yoti mukwatirane, mukhale ndi mwana, mukufuna kupita kutchuthi pamodzi, kapena kuti mwamuna wanu anakumana nanu pamtambo, musakhale chete ndikuvutika. Ndi bwino kuyamba ndi kukambirana. Pamapeto pake, mnzanuyo sali womveka bwino ndipo sangathe kuganiza kuti simukukhala ndi nthawi yabwino. Chinthu chachikulu sikuti tiyambe ndi mlandu. Amuna amakonda kukondedwa, oyenera komanso ofunikira. Choncho lolani wokondedwa wanu kuti amve kuti mukufuna kumukwatira, kubereka mwana kuchokera kwa iye (chilankhulo choimba ndi mawu), ndi zina zotero. Fotokozani chifukwa chake izi kapena zochitikazi ndi zofunika kwambiri kwa inu, zimalimbikitsa malo anu ndi kumvetsera mfundo zake. Mwa njira, akatswiri a maganizo amalangiza kulankhula ndi amuna pang'onopang'ono, kutchula mawu ofunika. Inde, zimakhala zovuta kudzilamulira nokha pazokambirana kofunikira, koma bwanji osayesa? Kumbukirani: pamapeto pake mumakhala ndi mwamuna uyu, chifukwa mumamukonda. Kotero, tiyenera kumumvera iye ndi maganizo ake. Ndipo ndi anthu ena ati omwe akunena apo - ndilo vuto lawo ...
Iwo anadutsamo
Irina, mtsikana wazaka 32 , anati: " Makolo anga ankafuna kuti ndikhale ndi chilichonse," monga anthu . - Choncho, patangopita miyezi isanu ndi umodzi nditakumana ndi Igor, pafupifupi tsiku lililonse anandifunsa tikakwatirana. Pansi pa zovuta zawo, tinkachita phwando laukwati. Komabe, amayi kapena abambo sankaganiza zotsitsa pansi. Ali ndi mutu watsopano: pamene adzalandira zidzukulu. Ndinkafuna ana, koma kwa nthawi yaitali sindinatenge mimba. Ine ndi Igor tinkafunikira chithandizo. Sindinkafuna kuuza aliyense za izi, koma patapita miyezi 7 ndikuwopsya ndi ena, sindinathe kupirira ndi kugwa. Ine mwachinyengo kwambiri ndinawafotokozera makolo onse ndi kuwaletsa iwo kuti andifunse za ana. Iwo anakhumudwa, koma kenako adasiya, ndipo mutuwo watsekedwa. Nthawi yomweyo ndinasiya kukonza, ndipo pasanapite nthawi tinakhala ndi Igor . "
Wolemba maganizo wotsutsa ndemanga: "Mwatsoka, nthawi zambiri zimathetsa kuthetsa mikangano imeneyi," anatero Maria Kashina, yemwe ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo. - Komabe, musataye moyo wanu wamaganizo kuti musapewe kukangana ndi achibale anu. Nthawi zina kugwedeza koteroko kungakhale kothandiza kwambiri. Ngakhale kuti Irina anakwiya, makolo ake anamusiya yekha, nayenso anafooka, maganizo ake atatha, ndipo zinakhala zosavuta kuti akhale ndi moyo. Komanso, kutenga mimba kwa nthawi yaitali kumachitika molondola pa nthawi ino. N'zomvetsa chisoni kuti Ira wakhala akudikirira motalika kwambiri. M'malo moseka, munayenera kulankhula ndi makolo anu nthawi yomweyo ndi kuwauza za mavuto anu, kapena, ngati simunathandize, funsani (ngakhale kuti mulibe mawonekedwe olakwika) kuti musayambe kufunsa mafunsowa kale. "
Katya, yemwe ali ndi zaka 27 , anati: "Sindinkafuna kukwatiwa . - Zangokhala choncho, koma kwa ine matampampu onse, madiresi ndi limousines akhala akufanana ndi zovuta zowononga. N'zoona kuti makolo anga kapena anzanga ambiri sangandimvetse. "Zingakhale bwanji ?! Kotero, simukukonda Danya! "- mnzanga wapamtima Ilona anandiuza nthawi zonse. "Koma chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti ine ndi wokondedwa wanga tikhale omasuka!" - Ndinayankha onse. Zotsatira zake, ndinakhala pansi ndikulembera anthu onse ofunika kwambiri pa mutu wakuti "Chifukwa chiyani sindifuna kukwatira"? Nditatha kufotokoza mwatsatanetsatane malo anga, ndinawauza kuti asandifunse funso ili. Ndipo ndimauza anthu atsopano kuti ndine wokwatira . "
Katswiri wa maganizo: "Katya anachita bwino. Atatha kulembera kalatayi, sadangolongosola aliyense payekha momwe akuonera ukwati, komanso adawongolera maganizo ake, - Maria Kashina akufotokoza. - Chinthu chokha chimene simukuyenera kuchita ndikunamizira anthu osadziwika komanso opanda pake. Chifukwa chiyani amasewera ndi malamulo awo, ngati mukutsimikiza kuti mukuchita zabwino? "
" Zinangochitikadi, koma ndinapereka moyo wanga kwa sayansi, " anatero Vadim, wazaka 32. - Ndipo nthawi zonse ndinkawoneka kuti Lena amandimvetsa. Komabe, tsiku lina ndinamupeza ndikulira. Zinapezeka kuti anali atangolankhula pafoni ndi amayi ake komanso nthawi ya zana anali wolungamitsidwa chifukwa chakuti sindinabweretse ndalama ku banja. Kwa ine izo zinali vumbulutso. Sindinadziwe kuti Lena wakhala akumvetsera zolakwa zomwezo kwa zaka zambiri. Ndinali wokhumudwa kwambiri, ndinayamba kufunafuna ntchito yosiyana-siyana, ndinagwiritsa ntchito zenizeni zonse ndipo, ndithudi, ndinali wotopa kwambiri. Lena nayenso anayamba kucheza ndi ine. Ananditsimikizira kuti iye sanachite manyazi chifukwa chakuti amapeza zambiri kuposa ine. Ndipo achibale amatha kunena zabodza kuti asapeze mikangano ndi zoopsa. Tsopano amayi ake amaganiza kuti ndimagwira ntchito monga katswiri wa kampani ya kumadzulo, ndipo ku dipatimentiyi ndimayambitsa zokambirana zingapo. Sindikutsutsana ndi bodza la chipulumutso! "
Ndemanga yamaganizo "Sindikuganiza kuti bodza ndi njira yabwino yothetsera vutoli. Ndipo chidzachitike ndi chiyani ngati choonadi chitatsegulidwa posachedwa? Ndikuganiza kuti Vadim ndi Lena adakambiranabe ndi makolo awo. Chinthu chachikulu sichichita mantha ndi mikangano ndi kuima molimba pawekha. Ngati mayi a Lenin akuona kuti mwana wakeyo akusangalala kwambiri ndi vutoli, adzakhumudwa. "
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