Chilimbikitso.
Ngati mwanayo akuwonetsa mphanda kapena supuni, izi sizikutanthauza kuti kuyambira nthawi imeneyo adzayamba kuphunzira malamulo a khalidwe pa tebulo ndikuwatsatira nthawi zonse. Mofanana ndi mwana aliyense, mwana wanu adzakhala ndi maganizo abwino komanso oipa. Nthawi zina amafuna kudya chakudya chamasana mwiniwake, ndipo nthawi zina amapempha thandizo. Ngati mwanayo akukana kuphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito supuni, muyenera kumuganizira.
Samalani osati kokha kwa zakudya komanso zakudya zomwe mwana amakonda, komanso momwe chakudya chikuwonekera. Ana amakonda chirichonse chowala ndi chokongola, mbatata yosasuka yosakaniza ndi phala akuwoneka ngati osasangalatsa, makamaka ngati izi sizokonda kwambiri. Khalani wochenjera kwambiri. Gwirani maluwa a masamba ndi ndiwo zamasamba ndikuwonetsa zakudya ndi mbatata yosakanizika, kusonyeza malingaliro, osatumikira mbale zokha, koma kuseketsa masentimita kuchokera kuzinthu zosiyanasiyana.
Ngati mwanayo ali ndi njala, ingoyikani supuni pafupi ndi mbale ndikuchotsani pang'ono. Tangoganizani kuti muli ndi bizinesi yowonjezereka mu chipinda china. Mukabwerera, mwinamwake, mwana wanu adzidya chakudya chamasana mwiniwake, chifukwa sakufuna kukudikirani. Zoona, ife sitingathebe kulankhula za kulondola.
Lembani momveka bwino cholinga cha kudula. Izi sizitanthauza chidole, ziribe kanthu momwe iwo aliri okongola. Spoons, mbale ndi mugs zikhoza kuoneka patebulo panthawi ya chakudya komanso popanda njira ina, pamtundu wina, mwanayo adziwoneke ngati chakudya.
Musaike mafelemu a nthawi. Ndibwino kuti mwana wanu asamangokhalira kumbuyo ana aamzake, ndipo amakonda kudyetsedwa ndi amayi ake. Ana onse ndi osiyana, koma posachedwa adzaphunzirira kudzitumikira okha. Khalani wofatsa, koma musamamukakamize kuti adye yekha.
Tetezani zotsatira.
Mwana wanu akamaphunzira kugwiritsira ntchito supuni mosakayikira, ntchitoyo idzakhala yogwirizanitsa luso lomwe adapeza ndikuphunzitsanso luso la tebulo.
Pangani mpweya wapadera pa tebulo. Chakudya chingatumikire mosiyana, koma ndibwino ngati mwanayo adakali atawona zakudya zokongola, akudya chakudya chokoma, zovala zopanda pake. Izi zidzamuthandiza kukhala ndi chidwi ndi zomwe akutsatira ndikutsatira malamulo.
Mukawona kuti mwanayo sadakayike ndi supuni ndipo zakudya zambiri zawonongeka, tengani yachiwiri ndikudyetsa. Poyamba ichi ndi chovomerezeka. Kotero mwanayo adzakhala wodzaza, koma pa nthawi yomweyo adzidya yekha.
Pewani kuyesayesa konse komwe mukusewera ndi chakudya. Vuto lalikulu silingapeweke pamene munthu wamng'ono amaphunzira kudya phala, msuzi kapena puree. Zakudya zambiri zidzaperekedwa kulikonse, koma osati pa mbale kapena m'kamwa mwa mwana. Musati mulimbikitse zochitika zotero, musati mukhudzidwe ndi momwe mwana wanu akudziwira molondola mukhoma. Musamadzudzule mwanayo, koma asonyezeni kusakondwera kwanu. Ngati simukuchita zinthu zoterezi, ndiye kuti mwanayo mu miyezi ingapo adzadziwa momwe angakhalire bwino pa tebulo.
Musapange zolakwitsa.
Kuyambira mibadwomibadwo, nthabwala "ya bambo, ya amayi", yomwe idakonzedwa kuti ikhale chakudya chokwanira kwa mwanayo, imafalitsidwa. Koma kodi ndizothandiza kuzigwiritsa ntchito? Kodi nkofunika kuti mwana adye patebulo?
Ndibwino kuti musamudziwe kuti akhulupirire komanso kuti asayambe kudyetsa. Mulole mwanayo asadye bwino kwambiri. Zikatero, mupatseni ola limodzi kumapeto kwa chakudya chotsatira kapena mupatseni chotupitsa pakati pawo. Mukamakakamiza mwana kuti achite chinachake chimene sakonda, chikoka chofunika kwambiri chiyenera kuchitika. Zotsatira zake, mwanayo sakanadya popanda nthano, nthabwala komanso makolo.
Ngati muwona kuti mwanayo sali wokondwa, sangathe kudzimva, ndiye musafulumize kumuika patebulo. Mulole mwanayo akhale chete, adzike yekha ndi kuyamba kudya chakudya chabwino.
Yesani kudya ndi mwanayo. Akusowa chitsanzo chokhala ndi moyo, ndipo makolo ndiwo njira yabwino kwambiri. Kuonjezera apo, iye sadzatopa, mungathe kuyankhulana pa chakudya chamadzulo.
Musagwiritse ntchito chakudya, ngati kuyesa khalidwe la mwanayo. Musamamulimbikitse ndi lingaliro lakuti yemwe amadya bwino ndi mwana wabwino, ndipo wodya bwino ndi woipa. Musamalimbikitse chakudya chamadzulo, chifukwa chakudya - ndi chachibadwa, palibe chifukwa cha mphatso. Mukhoza kuyamika chifukwa cha khalidwe labwino komanso khalidwe labwino, koma osati mofulumira kumene mwanayo amadya chakudya chake chamasana.
Pambuyo pa mwana wamng'onoyo pali zambiri zomwe zachitika ndi zopinga. Aliyense wa iwo ndi ofunika ndipo aliyense adzagonjetsedwa. Chinachake chimapatsidwa mosavuta, koma chinachake chimatenga mphamvu zambiri. Khalani ndi makolo achikondi kwambiri, musamaphunzire mwanayo mwa kupambana kwa anthu ena, kumbukirani kuti ali ndi ufulu wokhala payekha. Ndipo musayiwale - khalidwe lake ndi chikhumbo cha kuphunzira chimadalira pa inu nokha.