Zikhulupiriro, zikhulupiliro, zizindikiro, chiyambi ndi tanthauzo

Kuti tiyende pamsewu, kuti tiponyenso ndalama zomwe tikufuna kubwerera, ambiri a ife tiri ndi zikhulupiriro zathu zazing'ono. Koma nthawi zina pali zambiri zomwe zimatilepheretsa kukhala ndi moyo. Bwanji osawalola iwo kuti azikhala ovuta kwambiri? Zikhulupiriro ndi chikhulupiliro cha mphamvu zosadziwika zomwe zingakhudze tsogolo lathu ndi kupambana. Kuchokera pamalingaliro a psychology yozama, ichi ndi khalidwe lachibadwa la psyche yathu. Zikhulupiriro zabodza zinachokera kuumunthu ndikuyenda nawo m'mbiri yonse. Werengani mfundo zowonjezera za "Zikhulupiriro, zikhulupiliro, zizindikiro, chiyambi ndi tanthawuzo."

Pewani chisokonezo

Katswiri wa zamaganizo Christos Andre (Chris-tophe Andre) akulongosola kuti: maziko a zikhulupiliro ndi chikhumbo chathu chokhazikitsa mgwirizano weniweni pakati pa zochitika. Kulingalira koteroko kunali kofunikira kuti makolo athu apulumuke. Choncho, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosavuta kuti malingaliro athu apange kugwirizana kwa matsenga pakati pa zozizwitsa ziwiri zokha kusiyana ndi kulola mwangozi mwangozi. Kotero ife timapanga dziko losayembekezereka bwino kwambiri - ngakhale ngati lingaliro lathu chabe. Tsiku lonse ndikuzunzidwa? Ndibwino, ziyenera kukhala, chifukwa lero ndi Lachisanu, la 13.

Zidzakhala Zowonongeka

Ife timadziwa mozama kuti pali mphamvu zomwe sitili nazo mphamvu, ndipo zingatipangitse. Mwachitsanzo, ziribe kanthu momwe ndithandizira bwino ndalama zanga, mavuto azachuma padziko lonse adzandigwirabe. Sitingathe kulamulira chilichonse. Kumverera uku kumabweretsa nkhawa. Ndipo kusagwira ntchito kumawonjezereka. Zikondwerero ndi zizindikiro ndi mwayi wochita chinachake pofuna kuteteza mavuto, kukhazikitsa mgwirizano ndi zinthu kapena kutonthozedwa. " Mwachitsanzo, chizindikiro cha anthuchi chimati: "Kusowa ndalama kumakhala patsogolo pa chuma" ndipo limalangizanso kupereka mphatso zachifundo kuti ukhale wolemera. Pamene tikumangokhalira kudandaula, m'pamenenso timafunikira kukhulupirira zamatsenga. Miyambo imakhala ndi mphamvu yomweyo yolimbikitsa monga mapemphero. Mavuto, pamene zotsatira sizidalira munthuyo, koma mwangozi, zimapanganso kufunikira kwa kukhulupirira zamatsenga. Malingana ndi chiwerengero, ochita masewera a zamalonda, Formula 1 oyendetsa ndege ndi matadors ndi zamatsenga kuposa anthu wamba.

Kugawana kukumbukira

Zikhulupiriro sizinangokhala kugwirizana pakati pa zenizeni, koma komanso zenizeni - pakati pa anthu. "Timakhudzidwanso kwambiri ndi cholowa cha banja komanso chikhalidwe," adatero Christophe André. Ngati ife nthawi imodzi tikulavulira ndi wina kumbali ya kumanzere kapena kupita kumbali, tikawona pamsewu wakuda wakuda, tidzamva mderalo. Mwinamwake, ndi nkhani yachinsinsi kwa ife mu ubwana iwerenganso mofanana. Sindinayambe ndikuyika mkate mukutsika - osati chifukwa ndikukhulupirira kuti ndizosautsa, koma chifukwa agogo anga adandiphunzitsa choncho, ndipo ndikuchita ndikukumbukira. Ndipo nthano zamakono - mwachitsanzo, za mzimu wa Emperor Paul I, amene akutsimikiziridwa, akuyendayenda ndi malo a Mikhailovsky Castle - kubwezeretsanso mbiri yathu yodziwika bwino, kuisangalatsa kwambiri. Mwina kugula nkhuni ndi kukumbukira kuti makolo athu ankakhulupilira mu mzimu wamtengo wapatali, womwe iwo adaitanira kuti atetezedwe ku choipa.

Kudziwa Kuyeza

Zikhulupiriro ndi malo athu a psyche, sizingakhale zabwino kapena zoipa. Mpaka izi zitithandizira kukhala ndi moyo, koma sizikusokoneza, zonse ziri mu dongosolo. Tonsefe - kapena pafupifupi onse - amasangalala nthawi zina podutsa ming'alu pa asphalt. Komabe, ngati titachita izi, "kupeŵa chisangalalo," ndi mantha, poyendetsa mofulumira pamtsinje, izo zimawoneka ngati neurosis. Pankhani iyi, zingakhale zothandiza kufunsira kwa katswiri. Talingalirani mfundo iyi ingakhale nthawi yambiri ya zochitika zolimbitsa thupi, ndi zikhulupiriro zingati zomwe munthu ali nazo, ndi momwe amalekerera ufulu wake. Tsopano tikudziwa zikhulupiliro, zikhulupiliro, zizindikiro, chiyambi ndi zofunikira zawo.