Zotsatira za mphamvu ya malingaliro

M'nkhaniyi ndikufuna kukuuzani zomwe mphamvu ya kulingalira ili pa thanzi la mkazi. Mukudziwa, amayi anga okondedwa madokotala sakhala nthawi yotsiriza yomwe amatipatsirana bwino, nthawi zina chifukwa cha kusoĊµa nzeru, nthawi zina chifukwa cha kusowa zipangizo zofunikira, ndipo nthawi zina chifukwa chosowa chilakolako. Koma sindikuganiza kuti atamva izi kapena matendawa, tiyenera kudziganizira tokha, monga momwe matendawa amachitira. Ndikhulupilireni, matenda onse amaberekera m'mutu mwathu, ndipo tikhoza kukakamiza malingaliro athu, kapena "kuyendetsa" tokha ndipo matendawa adzayamba, kapena kuyamba kuganiza moyenera, motero kugonjetsa matenda onse.

Ndikukupatsani zitsanzo zina. Pano pali mayi yemwe, popanda kukayikira, amapita kukayezetsa thanzi lake ndi dokotala atayesedwa kuti: "Wokondedwa wanga, ndinapezedwa ndi khansa." Kodi mukuganiza kuti "bwalo la nkhondo" linayamba bwanji, pamutu pake ndi m'maganizo mwake. Bwanji osangotenga chisankho: Sindimavomereza matendawa, ndikuwononga matendawa, ndikudalitsa thupi langa.

Kodi mukuganiza kuti ngati mutayamba kukhala ndi moyo wambiri, ngati kuti palibe vutoli, kodi chidzachitike ndi chiyani? Matenda omwe amapangidwa mu malingaliro, akhoza kuwonongedwa pachiyambi pomwe, mumutu mwanu, kumene mukuganiza.

Ndipo apa pali chitsanzo china pamene chinachake chimapweteka kwambiri, ndipo palibe piritsi yomwe iwe ukusowa yomwe ingachotse ululu uwu, ndipo ngati utangotenga vitamini, koma umati ndi mankhwala amphamvu omwe amathetsa ululu wako mu kamphindi, ndiye ululu wanu, ndikukhulupirirani kuti ndiime pomwepo. Izo zatsimikiziridwa.

Azimayi amaposa amuna omwe amadziwika, amadzimangirira pamutu pawo, chifukwa ndi zomwe ndikukulemberani, wokondedwa wanga. Palibe chifukwa cholimbitsa chirichonse, chirichonse chiri chophweka kwambiri. Dzikondeni nokha osati m'mawu okha komanso m'maganizo anu. Musalole kuti matenda ena a munthu akule bwino pamutu mwanu.

Tsopano pali matenda ambiri ndipo nthawi zonse timawopsezedwa ndi makanema a pa televizioni, koma zimakhala kuti palibe matenda. Inde, mwamvetsa bwino, kulibe. Zimakula m'mutu mwanu, chifukwa mumawalola kamodzi ndikuyamba kuwaopa, kuziganizira, kuzigwirizanitsa kwambiri.

Ndipo ubongo waumunthu ndi makina amphamvu kwambiri opanga kuganiza, ndi makompyuta omwe amalamulira thupi. Ambiri mwa anthu odziwika kwambiri amadziwa chinsinsi ichi, ndipo kuti pansi pa mawu amatanthawuza - matenda (osati ofunikira kwambiri) mungathe kumusokoneza munthu ali ndi chirichonse chomwe mumakonda, koma pali vuto limodzi kuti mumulowetse mu ubongo wanu komanso ngati mukulikulitsa .

Ndikutsimikiza kuti aliyense wa ife akhoza kukhala wathanzi monga momwe akufunira. Ndipotu chinthu chachikulu sikuti matendawa alowe m'maganizo athu, koma malingaliro athu amabadwira mutu ndipo zimakhudza thupi lathu lonse. Akazi okondeka kuti pamene mwadzidzidzi mumanena kuti khungu lanu limatha kapena mumataya thupi, chifukwa chinachake chimadwala, musati mutenge.

Ndipo apa ndi zomwe ndikufuna kukuuzani motalika chinthu chachikulu mu moyo ndikupanga chisankho ndi chisankho chachikulu m'moyo ndikuchipeza ndikutsatira choonadi chokha, osati kunama. Pambuyo pa tsiku limodzi, ndikukhulupirira bodza ndikulivomereza mu malingaliro anu m'moyo wanu, ndiye kuti zidzakhala zovuta kuti mutulukemo mdziko lino, chifukwa pamene mumakhulupirira, mumadzipatulira ku zomwe mumakhulupirira. Ndipo ngati mwadzidzidzi, zonse zomwe mumakhulupirira ndizobodza, nthawi zina sitifuna ngakhale kugwirizana nazo.

Momwemo, tikuganiza, izi ndi zomwe ndimakhulupirira kotero, sizingakhale kuti izi ndi zabodza. Okondedwa, akazi okondedwa, lolani mu moyo wanu ndi m'maganizo anu nthawi zonse choonadi ndi maganizo abwino amabwera. Ndipo ngati winawake agogoda pa moyo wanu ndi choipa, muuzeni kuti: Sindinadwale, ndipo sindidzadwala, chifukwa mutu wanga uli watsopano komanso woyeretsa ndipo palibe malo alionse odwala. Zonse zaka zabwino za moyo padziko lapansi!