Mmene mungasinthire malingaliro anu kuntchito, kuti moyo usakhale wachizolowezi

Moyo umakhala wowawa, wokhumudwitsa, wokhumudwitsa. Ndani sanakumane ndi zoterezi? Ndipo adabwerera ku miphika ndi zovala zonyansa - moyo ndi wosatha. Choncho, tifunika kusintha maganizo athu kwa izo kuti zikhale zomasuka. Nazi malingaliro a momwe mungakhazikitsire nkhani zapakhomo komanso musamachite manyazi panthawi imodzimodzimodzi ndi chizoloŵezi ndi phokoso. Bungwe 1. Philosophically ikukhudzana ndi untidiness amuna ndipo wokondedwa sakufuna kusunga nyumba mwachitsanzo chabwino
Kotero iwo analengedwa, amuna awa. Mwachitsanzo, akuti, akatswiri amati, osati kuti ndi ofooka, koma okhulupilika kwambiri kwa fungo lakuda la fungo. Zosasunthika, mmalingaliro athu (kapena zonunkhira), munthu amakwiyitsa kwambiri (kapena ngakhale kulimbikitsa). Ndi chifukwa chake tili ndi masiketi a pansi pa bedi lomwe limakupangitsani kukwiya, ndipo mnzanuyo sazindikira, ndipo samva. Pa chibadwa cha chibadwa, chizoloŵezi choyang'anira chisamaliro cha mwini yekha ndi banja (pambuyo pake, mdani wonyansa kapena wodya nyama akhoza kufooka pa nthawi iliyonse) amafuna kuti chirichonse chofunikira chomwe chingagwiritsidwe ntchito ichi chiri pafupi, ndipo osati penapake paliponse masaliti. Kotero, kwa wokondedwa, chidziwitso cha zinthu zolakwika ndi chabe chokhetsa chochepa. Ngati mutaganizira izi, ndipo T-shirt yonyansa iliyonse ikuponyedwa kumbuyo kwa mpando, osati m'mabasiketi ochapa zovala, sichiyang'aniranso ngati sabata ina yotsatiridwa pa inu nokha ndi kuitanitsa mnyumbamo, ndiye kuti peresenti yaikulu ya kukhumudwa kwanu idzapewedwera. Koma palinso oimira amphamvu ogonana omwe amasamba mbale zawo, kutsuka nsapato zawo, kutsuka masokosi awo? Inde, amuna otere amakumana. Kawirikawiri m'mizinda ikuluikulu. Malingana ndi malipoti ena, chiwerengero chawo chimakula ngakhale kale ndi ... pang'ono peresenti ya 1%.

Chidziwitso 2. Chotsani chinyengo chakuti mumakhala ndi mwamuna wanu pamutu panu, ngati ndinu mayi wam'banja
Malingana ndi akatswiri, kutsuka (ngakhale ngati pali makina, nthawizonse pali zinthu zoti zigwirizane ndi dzanja) zimagwirizana ndi ntchito ya wogulitsa matakitala, kusindikiza ku ntchito ya masoni. Kugwira ntchito panyumba panu, mumayenera kukhala wothandizira, wophika, wochapa zovala, wosamalira zovala, wochapa zovala, namwino, mlongo, mkonzi ... Ndipo ngakhale masikola apamwamba ngati katswiri wopanga mapulogalamu (matepi - ndikofunika kukonza mofulumira) Woyendetsa phokoso ali ndi mwana kuti akwezere kunthaka yachisanu popanda chipangizo - ntchitoyo si yosavuta). Ndipo onse kwaulere, mungathe kunena, chakudya. Mwa njirayi, akatswiri a ku America adapeza: Ngati mumaganizira kuti ntchito yomwe mayiyo amagwira masana ndikutenga ndalama zake pa mtengo uliwonse, ndiye kuti phindu lake lidzapitirira malipiro a mwamuna wake nthawi zitatu. Ngati titasulira ndalama zathu, amayi sangabweretse, koma amasunga banja pamwezi 70-80,000 rubles. Ndipo izi zikhoza kuyang'anidwa poitanira namwino kwa mwana wodwala, wophika kuphika chakudya chamadzulo ndi chakudya chamadzulo, woyeretsa, wotsogolera yemwe angathandize ana ndi maphunziro, woyendetsa galimoto, kum'tengera kusukulu ndi kukaphunzira m'magulu, ndi zina zotero masamu. Kumuthandiza iye ndi mwamuna wake, ndipo nthano ya "kukhala" kunyumba pamene akugwira ntchito, idzabalalitsidwa kamodzi.

Mfundo 3. Mayi omwe akukhudzidwa ndi ntchito yogwira nawo ntchito kuthetsa mavuto apakhomo
Tiyeni tingoti, mbiriyakale, amuna samakonzedwa kuti azigwira ntchito zapakhomo. Kwa zaka masauzande amathetsa ntchito zosiyana siyana: amamenyana, amasaka, alima, amawombera ... Iwo ali okondwa kuti kusintha kwa sayansi ndi zamakono kunamasula iwo ku ntchito yovuta yowona, koma kuvomereza kuti tsopano ndikofunika kukakata kaloti ndi matabwa okhwima ndi bafa, ndizovuta kwambiri. "Si ntchito ya munthu." Chifukwa chake, iwo adzakakamizika mwanjira ina kapena ena kukakamiza, kukopa, kukankhira, kulongosola - mwa njira zawo zokha. Koma tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti ntchitoyi siyikakamiza wokondedwa kuti azichita zamalonda mmalo mwake, koma kugawa ntchito kuti athetse ulimi pamodzi. Pokhapokha ngati katundu wagawidwawo atagawanika, mumamva kuti kukhumudwa komwe kumakhudzana ndi kuthetsa mavuto osokoneza tsiku ndi tsiku kumakhala kofooka. Kuwonjezera apo, zimakhazikitsidwa: Ntchito yodzipereka yaumwini (Lamlungu kuyeretsa kapena kuphika chakudya) imayesetsa kulimbikitsa banjali komanso ikhoza kupereka zosangalatsa zenizeni.

Bungwe 4. Kutembenuza nkhani zachuma kuti zisakhale zosangalatsa
Ndipo ndi coefficient chofunika kwambiri! Ndipotu, kuchita ntchito zapakhomo poganiza kuti watopa kapena kusangalala, kutchova njuga - chisankho ndi chathu nthawi zonse. Mwachitsanzo, yesetsani kusewera masewera otchedwa "kuyeretsa". Pamene mkazi ali ndi bikini pansi pa zovunda za nyimbo zosamva, mwamunayo samangokhalira kumangokhalira kuganiza kuti akuchokera kunyumba ndipo samangoganizira mogona pabedi. Inde, ngati mumatsuka nyumba ndi ana, lingaliro lachilendo la chochitikacho si chabwino. Koma zinthu zachisangalalo, zokhazikika, mpikisano ndizovomerezeka. Kuwonjezera apo, iwo adzathandiza kuti azikonzekera chakudya chamasana kapena ukhondo muchisangalalo chosangalatsa chophimba kapena tchuthi losangalatsa la Moidodyr. Ndikofunika kupereka molondola ndi kutchula ntchito yomwe ikubwera panyumbamo. Mawu akuti "kutsuka," "kusindikiza," "kuyeretsa," "kuphika" mwa iwo okha amachititsa chidwi. Zopempha: "Inu mumapatsa 100 pel'menis!" kapena "Phwando lachikondwerero." Aliyense akuitanidwa! " zimakhala zowonjezereka komanso zowonongeka. Mu ichi mukufunadi kutenga nawo mbali. Mosakayikitsa, "Disco mwa zaka za m'ma 90" adzasonkhanitsa antchito odzipereka odzipereka kwambiri kuposa kuyendayenda kosasangalatsa ndi kuyeretsa kwakukulu kozungulira pakhomo.

Langizo 5. Dzimikizireni nokha kuti ntchito yapakhomo ndi yothandiza
Ambiri a ife timakonda kunena kuti ntchito zapakhomo ndi ntchito yosayamika, zimawononga, zimayesa khama lawo komanso zimadzikhumudwitsa. Koma banja lokhala ndi zosangalatsa limakongoletsera zakudya zokometsera kwa tebulo lopangidwa bwino ... Mwinamwake kuyesa kwa hostess ndi kukhalabe osatsegula, koma zotsatira ndi chinachake chomwe simungachione. Komanso, kusunga m'nyumba, monga asayansi apeza, kumalimbikitsanso thanzi. Malingana ndi kafukufuku wopangidwa ndi bungwe la kansa la Scotland, lomwe linaphatikizapo akazi 300,000 ochokera m'mayiko asanu ndi anayi a ku Ulaya kwa zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, zinapezeka kuti kuyeretsa tsiku ndi tsiku kumachepetsa chiopsezo cha khansa ya m'mawere.

Bungwe 6. Kuthetsa ungwiro
Kuchita khama kwambiri mwakhama kusunga nyumbayi moyenera ndikusandulika kukhala kachisi woyeretsa womwe umatonthozedwa ndi chithunzithunzi chomwe chimasiyanitsa nyumba yachilendo yomwe ili kunja kwa dziko. Azimayi ena amatha kutopa ndipo amawombera kuti achibale awo onse amawopa kusokoneza ukhondo ndi ndondomeko m'nyumba, posankha kukhala kusukulu ndi kuntchito. Nanga amawunikira ndani, ngati anthu ammudzi samanyamula mapazi awo? Kuyenerera, ndithudi, palibe malire. Koma maximalism ya tsiku ndi tsiku siimapangitsa kuti zinthu ziziyenda bwino ndipo sizikuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi maganizo abwino. Ziribe kanthu momwe kulimbikira kulimbikira kukonzekera mnyumba, mbuye wabwino wangwiro sadzamva konse kukhutira ndi zotsatira zake. Nthawi zonse amamva kuti banja siliyamikira kuyesetsa kwake ndipo siliteteza ukhondo. Tiyenera kumadzilola tokha kupumula ...

Akatswiri akhala atakhazikitsa kale kuti ana omwe anakulira pansi pa malo okhala, omwe ali osabala, amakhala ndi zotsatira za tizilombo toyambitsa matenda. Ndipo kufunafuna zabwino nthawi zambiri kumakhala kovuta, kutopa koopsa, kutaya chikhulupiriro mwa iweeni ndi kulepheretsa dongosolo lamanjenje.

Council 7. Konzani njira zachuma
Ngati simukunyalanyaza zomwe zasayansi akuchita, ndiye kuti moyo umakhala wolemetsa kwambiri komanso wosangalatsa. Ndipo komabe, kuti musamangokhalira kukaniza moyo, m'pofunika kuikonza, kugawira moyenera: mphamvu ndi nthawi. Ndipo ali ndi kudalira mosiyana - nthawi yomwe timagwiritsira ntchito ntchito zina zapakhomo, mphamvu yochepa imakhalabe pazinthu zina zapakhomo. Chimodzi mwa zizoloŵezi zomwe zimateteza nthaŵi ndizokonza kayendedwe ka katundu.

Ngati chirichonse chiri ndi malo ake (kutsuka ufa pansi pa bafa, zida za mafoni pamtengo wapamwamba wa chikhomo cha zojambula), ndiye kufunafuna zofunika kumatenga nthawi yochepa. Njira ina yosunga nthawi sikuti muchite zomwe simungathe kuchita. Mwachitsanzo, musaduke pamapeto a sabata iliyonse ndi burashi pamtengo, ndipo muupereke mowawuma. Ngati mutachotsa zinthu zonse zosafunikira kunyumba kwanu, nthawi yochuluka idzagwiritsidwa ntchito pa ulimi.