Ndi mphatso ziti zomwe mungapatse msungwana? Amuna, musamaperekepo mphete zotsika mtengo. Pano pali choonadi, zomwe mudzaphunzire m'nkhani yathu.
Tonse timadziwa kwa nthawi yaitali kuti munthu yemwe akufuna kupambana mtima wa mkazi kwa nthawi yayitali, akhoza kuchita bwino ndi mphete. Ndipo padzakhala zodula komanso zowonjezereka kwambiri, zimakhala zomveka bwino kwa onse okondedwa, komanso kwa amayi ena omwe ali pafupi naye, kuti bamboyo ali wokonzeka kugawana zinthu zake ndi mkazi uyu. Ndipo ngakhale munthu ali ndi ndalama zochepa, ndiye bwino kutenga ngongole ndi kugula mphete yamtengo wapatali kuposa kumupatsa mkazi chokongoletsera chaching'ono komanso chotchipa.
Nchifukwa chiyani chikhalidwe cholimba chiyenera kutero? Amuna ambiri samvetsa izi. Ndipotu mphatso imeneyi ndi yofunikira kwambiri kwa mkazi. Mwini wa mpheteyo amamuyang'ana nthawi zonse, akukumbukira malumbiro onse omwe mwamunayo anamupatsa. Mkaziyo amasonyeza mphete yake kwa amayi ena omwe, poganizira za mphatsoyo, amayesa kuzindikira chikhumbo cha munthu kuti apange mgwirizano. Pakapita nthawi, pokhala ndi banja, banjali likhoza kumakhala m'nyumba yochepetsetsa, ndikuyendetsa galimoto yakale. Koma kwa mkaziyo, chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi chinthu china: mphete yokongola idzakondweretsa mbuye wake, chifukwa adagulidwa mwachindunji kwa iye ndipo ndiwonetseratu za momwe amamukondera komanso momwe mwamuna wake akufuna kukhala pafupi naye.
Apa ine ndikufuna kupereka chitsanzo kuchokera ku moyo.
Mwamuna wina dzina lake Dmitry amadziwa bwino kuti kuli kofunika kwa mkazi kukhala chitsimikizo cha chikondi cha amuna ngati mphete yamtengo wapatali, choncho nthawi zambiri amagula zovala zokongola kwa mkazi wake, pomwe iye mwini sanavele zodzikongoletsera, kupatula mphete yachikwati ndi wrist maola.
Mbale wa Dmitri Viktor sanadziwe kanthu za momwe amai amawerengera amuna. Kotero, iye anapatsa mkazi wake Elena zibangili zosawerengeka, ndipo mobwerezabwereza, nthawi yonse yomwe iwo anali palimodzi, iye anamupatsa iye: mphete imodzi yotsika mtengo, yomwe inagulidwa mu pawnshop ndi maunyolo angapo, omwe anabweretsa kuchokera ku Thailand. Iye sanazindikire kuti ndi mphatso zoterozo anafooketsa chikhulupiriro cha Elena pokhala ndi chikhumbo chofuna kukhazikitsa mgwirizano wa nthawi yaitali ndi iye. Pambuyo pake, amadziwa kuti akhoza kumuthandiza ndi mphatso zamtengo wapatali, koma pa chifukwa china sanawapatse. Victor sanapereke maluwa ndi magulu a mkazi wake, chifukwa, malingaliro ake, maluwawo mu masiku pang'ono adzafota, ndiko kuti, kugula maluwa, mukumvetsa kwa Victor, ndi kungowononga ndalama. Elena anaganiza motero: maluwa onse ophika amapatsa Victor mpata woti amupatse chatsopano ndikumuwonetsanso chikondi chake. Mukumvetsa kwa Victor, mphatso yabwino kwambiri ndi maluwa mu mphika, chifukwa idzapindula ndi nthawi yaitali. Ndipo kotero tsiku lina iye anagula Elena maluwa ena mu mphika, nthawi ino iyo inali duwa. "Maluwa achikondi," adalengeza mwamphamvu. Patangopita nthawi pang'ono anawonjezera kuti Elena, ngati akufuna, akhoza kuchotsa zitsamba zamtunduwu, kuwaza ndi kuzigulitsa. O, iye akhoza ngakhale kutsegula shopu la maluwa! Nkhani yomalizirayi inali motere. Madzulo omwewo, pamene Elena adalandira mphatso yotsatira, dokotala adatulukira msana kuchokera kumabowo a Victor, masiku angapo Victor adzatha kukhalanso.
Makhalidwe a nkhani ya moyo uno ndi awa: Ngati munthu amaganiza moyenera komanso akuganiza kuti maluwa mumphika ndi mphatso yamtengo wapatali kusiyana ndi maluwa a maluwa - munthu wotero ayenera kugona yekha. Malangizo athu kwa anthu ndi awa: mukhoza kusunga moyo pazinthu zambiri, koma musamapange zokongoletsera zomwe mumapatsa mkazi. Ngati pachiyambi cha chibwenzi mupereka mphete yanu yokondedwa, popeza muli ndi ndalama zing'onozing'ono, ndiye kuti mwamsanga, mwamsanga mungathe kumupatsa mkazi chovala chokwera komanso chokongola. Kodi mukuganiza kuti izi ndi zabwino kapena ayi, mulimonsemo zingasinthe moyo wanu. tikukulangizani kuti muzimvetsera za mtundu wanji wa mphatso zomwe mungathe kupereka kwa mtsikana.