Masiku ano masitolo akuluakulu amadzaza ndi mitundu yonse ya kugonana, ndiko kuti, akhoza kudzitamandira ndi zidole zambiri zogonana, choncho posankha kutuluka m'maso! Ndithudi anthu ambiri sangathe kuwoloka manyazi ndikupita ku sitolo yotere, ndipo ngati wina achita izi, amayamba kukonda zonse, popanda kuganiza ngati chidolecho ndi chofunikira ndipo makamaka mavuto omwe angabwere ndi chilengedwe cha thupi atatha kugwiritsa ntchito mtundu wina wa " mtundu uliwonse wa zinthu zogonana. Inde, malonda ogonana akukula mofulumira, motero sakulepheretsedwa ndi mankhwala achi China.
Asayansi akuyesera kusintha kayendetsedwe kowonjezera katundu wa chiwerewere, koma ziyenera kunenedwa kuti, monga lamulo, sizili bwino nthawi zonse. Komabe, mfundo zina zokhudzana ndi zolaula zogonana pa thupi laumunthu zatsimikiziridwa kwa nthawi yaitali, ndipo sizingatheke. Nthawi yomweyo muyenera kuzindikira kuti nkhanizi ziyenera kukambidwa kokha ngati anthu akulankhula za anthu omwe ali ndi thanzi labwino lomwe lafika pakukula msinkhu. Inachemozhno amakumana ndi anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo osokonezeka, omwe ali ndi khalidwe lachidziwitso kapena olumala, ngati anyamata amenewa amagwiritsidwa ntchito kwa anthu omwe alibe chibadwa chokwanira. Koma ngakhale izi sizinapangidwe ndi malire enieni enieni. Ndipotu, tonse timadziwa kuti munthu aliyense ali payekha, choncho nthawi ya kutha msinkhu komanso digiri ya mania imangodziwika ndi dokotala wodziwa bwino.
Pafupifupi zinthu zomwe lero zimagwiritsa ntchito munthu muzogonana, zowunika nthawi. Pafupi zaka ziwiri ndi theka zikwi zapitazo ku Igupto wakale, zosangalatsa za kugonana ndi zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana zinali zofala, zikhoza kuwerengedwa ndi kuziphunzira kuchokera m'mabuku ambiri a mbiriyakale. Dzifunseni nokha kuti malingaliro a munthu aliyense ndi osiyana, ena amakhala ndi chitukuko chosauka, ndipo ena amangochoka pang'onopang'ono, choncho pafupifupi chinthu chilichonse chingagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati chidole chogonana. Koma kumbukirani kuti tikuyankhula anthu wamba, popanda kusokonezeka maganizo. Munthu akhoza kukhala ndi chilakolako chilichonse chogonana, sizingakhale zofunikira, komanso, chifukwa cha kafukufuku wamakono ambiri adadziwika kuti uwu ndiwo moyo wa munthu aliyense ndipo palibe yemwe ali ndi ufulu woweruza. Chabwino, tsopano ndikudziŵa zambiri za zonse.
Akatswiri ambiri pa nkhani za kugonana ndi psychology amanena kuti anyamata ogonana amatha kukhala otetezeka ndipo ambiri amakhala opanda vuto chifukwa cha thanzi labwino komanso thanzi la munthu. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti mungathe kubwera kusitolo ndikutenga chidole choyamba chimene mumapeza kuti mukhale ndi chilakolako chogonana. Kumvetsetsa kuti musanapereke ndalama zambiri kwa mkazi wa "raba", munthu "wopanga" kapena ziwalo zawo, mosamala mosamala komanso kuyang'anitsitsa katunduyo. Musaiwale kuti muyenera kusankha, komanso moyo, sankhani mnzanu wogonana. Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri chimene mungachite ndi kuyandikira zosankha za kugonana moyenera, mfiti ziyenera kusamalira chitetezo chaumwini. Zoonadi mumavomereza kuti sikudzakhala zosangalatsa kwa inu pambuyo pa zosangalatsa za kugonana kotero kuti mupite ku ofesi ya chipatala. Izi sizikutanthawuza kuti masewero a "sado-maso" (mitundu yonse ya handcuffs, bandage ndi lashes) sayenera kugula konse. Kugwiritsa ntchito mophweka kumafunika kukhala moyenera komanso ndi malingaliro! Mwachitsanzo, ngati mumasankha vibrator (abambo ndi amuna), chidole, mipira, mphete, chikazi chojambula kapena cholembera, ndiye poyamba choyamba muyang'ane kukula kwa ziwalo, zomwe mudzalowemo "kukhudzana".
Kuvulaza Zogonana Zogonana
Poyamba, tiyeni tiyankhule za zidole za kugonana. Choyamba, musanayambe "kugonana", muyenera kuyang'anitsitsa chidole ndikuchotseratu kuwonongeka kwa makina. Kenaka kumbukirani kuti pazinyala izi ndi bwino kusasunga ndalama, koma kugula mankhwala abwino, chifukwa ndi za thanzi lanu. Inde, kalata ya khalidwe yomwe simungapeze ndikuti pamene takimizobilii chidole chilichonse kupereka chitifiketi n'zosatheka. Koma muyenera kudziwa bwinobwino ngati chinthu chingakhale ndi zotsatira zoipa pa thupi lanu mwachindunji ndi kugonana.
Ngati mwatsimikiza kale kuti mutha kugwiritsa ntchito chidole chilichonse, ndiye kuti mukhale ndi thanzi lanu, khalani olimba mtima ndipo funsani wogonana kuti apite ku sitoloyi pamodzi ndi inu. Musakhale wamanyazi! Kumbukirani kuti amatenga ndalama ndi izi - ndi udindo wake!
Chonde dziwani kuti chinthu chilichonse chiyenera kupangidwa ndi zokondweretsa zachilengedwe, kotero kuti panthawi yogonana ndi mucous nembanche ndi khungu palibe choipa ndi chovulaza. Ngati mutasankha chidole cha kugonana osati nokha, chomwechi chikukonzekera kugwiritsidwa ntchito pagulu, ndiye muyenera kulingalira malingaliro a anthu ena kapena mnzanu kuti agwiritse ntchito. Mwina, zokondweretsa zokhazo zidzakondweretsedwa, ndipo zidzakhala zachilendo kwa anthu ena omwe akugonana nawo. Kumbukirani kuti ngati mwadzidzidzi mumagonana pa nthawi ya kugonana, mutha kungotsutsa. Komabe, pafupifupi anthu onse amaganiza kuti malingaliro awo ndi malingaliro awo pa nkhaniyi ndi olondola kwambiri ndipo ena ayenera kutsatira chimodzimodzi, koma musati muwone zoopsa, zikhala bwino ngati mutalangizidwa. Mwinamwake mnzanuyo sangakuthandizeni, koma amaperekanso malingaliro ndi malingaliro!
Kugwiritsa ntchito masewera achigololo
Anthu ambiri amanena kuti atayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zoseŵera za kugonana mumoyo wogonana, atha kukhala ndi thanzi labwino, koma kwenikweni ndi chinyengo. Mwinamwake iwo amawonetsa moyo wa kugonana, kuwonjezeka kwa chiwonongeko chonse ndi kusintha kwabwino, koma ndizosatheka kusintha thanzi motero!
Palibe mgwirizano wachindunji wa anyamata ogonana pofuna kusintha kapena kuwonongeka kwa thanzi, ngati akugwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zonse. Zonse zomwe angathe kuchita ndikutenga mitundu yowala mumoyo wapamtima wa munthuyo ndikuthandizira kuti ubale wawo ndi mnzanuyo ukhalepo. Chifukwa cha nkhani zoterezi, munthu akhoza kuzindikira malingaliro ake onse okhudzana ndi kugonana, omwe sangathe kuchitika ndi kugonana kwachikale. Koma palinso phindu linalake la zidole za chiwerewere. Mayiko ambiri amagwiritsa ntchito nkhani zogwirizana kwambiri ndi maphunziro a kugonana kwa achinyamata, choncho amagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati nkhani zomwe zimachitika mosavuta. Komanso, madokotala amalimbikitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zidole zina zogonana pofuna kupewa ndi kuchiza matenda ambiri. Izi zimaphatikizapo zotupa, matenda a hormone, prostatitis komanso osteochondrosis.