Kuchokera kwa amayi obereka ndi nthawi yovuta kwa mkazi. Choncho amayi amafunitsitsa kupeza ntchito zawo, kuthandiza kuthetsa nkhawa ndi "kupuma." Nkhaniyi ikufotokoza njira zingapo za "zosangalatsa".
Mkazi paulendo wobereka
Zikomo! Ngati mukuwerenga nkhaniyi, ndiye kuti mwinamwake muli 99% mwakhala kholo losangalala. Ichi ndi chisangalalo chachikulu, chosayerekezeka ndi china chirichonse. Inu munali kuyembekezera mwana uyu, mukukonzekera kubadwa kwake, mukugula rashonki wokondeka, zikhomo ndi zoperewera, mukuwerenga mazana ambiri a ma encyclopedia apamwamba kuti mulere mwana, ndipo tsopano, potsiriza, nthawi yayitali yodikirayo inabwera ndipo mudakhala amayi ndi abambo! Nkhaniyi ikukhudzidwa kwambiri ndi amayi, chifukwa ali paulendo wobereka (osasamala kwambiri). Choncho, m'tsogolomu, zidzakhala zokhudza zomwe mungachite pa nthawi yobereka.
Chaka choyamba cha moyo wa mwana wanu chidzakhala nthawi yovuta kwambiri, mudzakhala mukusamalira mwana wanu ndipo ndi bwino kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu yaufulu pa maloto, kusamba kosamba kapena kucheza ndi mwamuna wanu.
Koma mutatha kudutsa mzere wa chaka, mwana wanu adzakhala wodzisankhira: pitani popanda kuthandizira akuluakulu, kudya ndi supuni, kumwa zakumwa komanso kwa kanthawi mosasewera ndi masewera omwe mumawakonda. Wamkulu, mwanayo adzalandira luso latsopano. Motero, kumasula amayi anga kuchita ntchito zina. Choncho ndi zaka ziwiri patsiku la tsiku pali maola angapo omasuka. Kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi ino kudzakambidwa.
Kodi mungachite chiyani amayi nthawi ino? Wina amasankha maloto abwino, wina amakonda kuyang'ana kudzera mu magazini kapena nyuzipepala, chabwino, wina angokhala pa intaneti kapena kuwonerera TV. Zosankha zonsezi zili ndi malo. Koma amayi ena amapita patsogolo ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yothandiza.
Malingaliro angapo ogwiritsa ntchito nthawi yaulere kwa amayi
- Zosafunika. Uku ndiko kupukuta, kugaya, kupaka dothi, kupanga ikebana, komanso ngakhale kujambula mitengo, omwe ali ndi malingaliro okwanira. Pali zinthu zambiri zoterezi, zosangalatsa, ngakhale zokondweretsa, zimakupangitsani kugwiritsira ntchito malingaliro ndi manja, simukusowa ndalama zambiri, ngakhale kuti simungathe kupeza phindu lililonse. Ngati mulibe luso lapadera pantchitoyi, ndiye izi ndizozizoloŵera zanu, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti simungakhoze kuyembekezera zopindulitsa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mulibe maphunziro apadera ochepetsera, ndiye kuti simungathe kusoka zinthu zamtengo wapamwamba kuti muzikonzekera, m'malo mwake mankhwala anu adzakhala a mwana wanu, kwa inu kapena kunyumba.
- Kuphika . Ena amapanga kuphika mu gawo la nsalu, malinga ndi mfundo "yopangidwa ndi manja". Koma izi si zoona. Timakamba za kuphika osati monga momwe munthu amafunira kukwaniritsa zosowa zake zakudya, koma monga luso. Mungaphunzire kuphika zakudya zapadziko lonse zosiyana siyana, kuyambira kummawa mpaka ku Mexico, kuchokera ku Italy kupita ku Chiyukireniya. Kachiwiri, chinthu chachikulu ndizoziganizira! Zosangalatsa zoterozo ndizoyenera kuyamikiridwa ndi achibale ndi abwenzi, ndipo makamaka chofunika mwamuna wanu. Njira yopita kumtima wa munthu, monga akunenera, imagona m'mimba. Nzeru za anthu ndipo sitidzatsutsana nazo. Komabe, nthawi yapadera imeneyi ndi yofunika kwambiri! Ichi ndi chiwerengero chanu! Pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwana, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kuti akazi abwererenso mawonekedwe awo akale. Choncho, ngati muli olemera kwambiri ndipo mukufuna kuchotsa, dziwani za ntchitoyi. Makamaka kwa gawo lotsatira.
- Masewera . Inde, inde! Ngati pali mwayi wopita ku masewero olimbitsa thupi, malo ochizira thupi kapena dziwe losambira - chabwino, ngati sichoncho - sichoncho vuto. Pali masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe mungathe kuchita pakhomo, popanda zofanana. Ndipo njira imodzi yowonjezeretsa yobweretsera chiwerengerocho, kuteteza minofu, kusintha maganizo, kuchotsa nkhawa - kuthamanga. Ndikoyenera kudziwa, mu masewerawa, pali mndandanda umodzi - muyenera kukonda njira ndikudzipangitsa nokha kuti zotsatirazo zidzakhala, ndipo zidzakuposa zomwe mukuyembekeza. Apo ayi, mphamvu yanu sidzatha nthawi yaitali ndipo masabata angapo masewerawa adzasinthidwa ndi kukhala pabedi patsogolo pa TV.
- Muzigwira ntchito panyumba komanso nthawi yochepa . Inde, zosangalatsa kapena zosangalatsa zosangalatsa sizitchulidwa, koma zimabweretsa ndalama zomwe sizingasinthe. Malingana ndi mtundu wa ntchito yanu, maphunziro omwe mulipo komanso ntchito, mungadzipangire nokha ntchito ya nthawi yochepa. Izi zikhonza kukhala kusunga makalata panyumba, kugwira ntchito monga wogwira ntchito pa foni, kumasulira malemba, nkhani zolemba, etc. Koma chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti ntchitoyi sikukukwiyitsani, ndipo zimakhala zosangalatsa. Mayi aliyense ali ndi maudindo ochuluka, zovuta za thupi ndi zamaganizo, kotero musamachite ntchito iliyonse yosasangalatsa mulimonsemo.
- Maphunziro apamwamba, kuphunzira chinenero, kubwezeretsa chidziwitso . Ngati mukufuna kuwerenga ndipo nthawizonse mumaganiza kuti palibe chidziwitso m'dera lina, pitani! Inde, monga ndanenera m'ndime yapitayi, izi ziyenera kusangalatsa. Anthu ena amapeza pa intaneti maulendo osiyanasiyana a pa intaneti, akhoza kukhala okhudzana ndi ntchito zanu zaluso, moyo wanu kapena chilichonse chogwirizanitsidwa. Winawake akulowa mu dziko la mabuku ndipo amachokera kumeneko zofunikira zonse. Zonse ziri kwa inu. Pankhani yophunzira chinenero, mabuku a audio, mapulogalamu apakompyuta apadera, mabuku ndi zolemba zamtunduwu m'chinenero chomwe chili mufunsoli zidzakhala zosasangalatsa.
Ngati mwatsiriza kuwerenga, simunasankhe zomwe mukufuna kuchita nthawi yanu yopatula, ndikukulangizani kuti muyese ntchito zomwe ndapanga. Simunganene kuti: "Sindikufuna," "Sindikudziwa," "ndizovuta," popanda kuyesera.
Mwina mwa inu, amayi okondedwa, matalente obisika, omwe simunakayikirepo. Ndipo kuchoka kwa amayi otha msinkhu ndi nthawi yabwino kuti muwaulule iwo.