Wadikira nthawi yaitali kuti munthu uyu awonekere mmoyo wako ... Ndipo tsopano, pamodzi, mukugwirizana, makolo anu akusangalala komanso akusangalala chifukwa cha inu, patsogolo pa tsiku losangalatsa kwambiri ndi loyembekezeredwa mu moyo wa mtsikana aliyense, koma mu moyo wanu muli ndi nkhawa, maganizo osiyanasiyana ndi mantha. Kodi mtsikanayu amaganiza chiyani zaukwati usanachitike, ndipo ndizithunzi ziti zomwe zili pamutu pake?
Kuwopa kulondola kwa kusankha kwanuKuopa uku kukuyenderedwa ndi mkwatibwi aliyense. Ngati mwakhala nthawi yayitali kwa moyo wanu wokondedwa ndi kukonda wosankhidwa wanu, palibe chimene muyenera kuchita mantha, iye asankhidwa kapena ayi, zolinga, monga mukudziwa, palibe, chifukwa munthu aliyense ndi chomwe ali komanso chomwe chiri chokongola, chifukwa chakuti mwamupeza kale panjira sikuti mwangozi . Koma, ukwati sungakhale wolemetsa, ziyenera kusangalatsa, kusonkhanitsa pamodzi, kuchititsa anthu kukhala anzeru, anzeru, kuphunzira kuchita zinthu zotsutsana. Mulimonsemo, ndi bwino kukwatira kusiyana ndi kuopa kupanga moyo wanu wonse ndikulephera kudziwa za chisangalalo cha banja komanso umayi. Kukayikira kwanu sikuli koyenera. "Mimbulu ikuopa - musapite ku nkhalango."
Kuopa moyo wa banja komanso kutayika
Musananene kuti "EYA", ganizirani ngati mwakonzeka kukhala moyo wanu ndi munthu yemweyo, kuti mupulumuke ndi amradosti komanso mwinamwake, popeza kuti nthawi zonse ukwati sutetezeka. Anthu amayesedwa mu zovuta, zomwe zimatha kuthetsa mavuto osiyanasiyana. Osakangana ndi zopanda pake, munthu amene mwamusankha kukhala mnzanu ndi mnzanu wapamtima, amene nthawi zonse amatha kugwirizana. Nthawi yoyamba, anthu amamangirira wina ndi mzake, amakondana wina ndi mzake, koma amadziwa kuti aliyense wa iwo amatha, zomwe zingakhale vuto lalikulu, choncho ndikofunika kuti tigwirizane wina ndi mzake, kuti tizindikirane. Zikuwoneka kuti izi ndi zophweka kokha pakuyang'ana koyamba. Anthu onse ndi osiyana, anthu omwewo salipo, koma izi ndizophatikiza, ndinuwekha. Kuti musataye mtima wanu ngakhale mutakwatirana, musaleke kukonda ndi kuchita zomwe mudakonda kuchita, zokopa ndi zokondweretsa siziyenera "chifukwa chaukwati" zikuchoka m'moyo wanu, mumapangitsa moyo wanu kukhala wosangalatsa monga mukufunira. Pambuyo pake, wosankhidwa wanu amakukondani chifukwa cha inuyo, choncho khalani ndi chidwi naye nthawi zonse.
Kuopa kusokonezeka maganizo
Lingaliro limeneli likuchitanso mu mtsikana aliyense asanalowe m'banja. Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti choti muchite ndikutayika, ziribe kanthu momwe zingamveke mantha, koma mantha omwe akuopa kuti mutaya chikondi amatanthauza kuti mumakonda. Mmene mgwirizano wa maukwati atsopano pambuyo paukwati udzatha kumadalira omwe angokwatirana kumene. Ukwati ndi ntchito yosalekeza, yovuta pa ubale wanu, womwe simungathe kudzipatula nokha. Okwatirana ayenera kukhala okhulupilika wina ndi mnzake, osamanama, osanyengana, kusamalirana ndi kukondana wina ndi mzake.
Choncho, mantha a zomwe amakhulupirira ndizopusa. Samalirani malingaliro anu, ngati mukuwasowa kwenikweni ndipo alipo, samalirani, muzichita mphoto, kuchita zinthu zopenga, mwachimwemwe, mukondwere pa nthawi ya banja losangalala. Koma chinthu chachikulu ndichokwatirana chifukwa cha chikondi.
Kuopa kupandukira wokondedwa
Maganizo amenewa nthawi zambiri amayendera mitu ya atsikana. Apa ndikofunika kuti musasinthe ndikuyamba manthawa pamutu mwanu, chifukwa zotsatira zake ndizokhumudwitsa, kunyoza, kupanikizika, kusamvetsetsana, zopweteka, zomwe zingalimbikitse chiwonongeko ichi. Muyenera kukhala anzeru. Kawirikawiri, okwatirana amapita ku chiwembu, pamene amakumana mu maubwenzi awo kusamvetsetsa, kusayanjanitsika, kudziona kuti ndi osayenera ndipo akuyang'ana onse kumbali ndikupeza. Ndikofunika kukhulupilira, kumvetsera ndi kumvetsana. Kumbukirani momwe mudakumanirana, chifukwa cha chikondi chimenecho, kodi chisindikizo mu pasipoti yanu chimasintha moyo wanu ndikuchigawaniza "pamaso" ndi "pambuyo", mgwirizano wa okwatirana pambuyo pa ukwati sungasinthe, koma chikhalidwe chanu chidzasintha.
Musalole mnzanuyo kukunyengani, ngakhale m'maganizo anu. Zonse ziri mu mphamvu yanu.
Bytovuha
Musalole kuti izi zikhale, konzekerani njira yanu ya moyo ndikupuma nthawi. Podzipangitsa kuti moyo ukhale wosalira zambiri, zowonjezereka zomwe zapangidwa mu teknoloji, kupeza nthawi ndi kutuluka m'nyumba nthawi zonse.
Maganizo okhudza kukonzekera ukwati . Iyi ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri kwa mtsikanayo. Iye ali ndi nkhawa za chirichonse - kuchokera ku mtundu wa nsalu ya nsalu kwa mtsogoleri wa gululo. Monga lamulo, zambiri za kukonzekera ukwati zimatenga mkwatibwi.
Choncho, kuti nyengoyi ikhale yofunika kwambiri pamoyo wanu, musamangokhala ndi mantha, ndikofunika kupanga ndondomeko ndikukambirana zomwe aliyense ayenera kukonzekera lero. Gawani zochita pakati pawo, mkwati, makolo ndi mabwenzi apamtima omwe ali okonzeka kukuthandizani. Ndondomekoyi ikuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yoyenera, pambali pa mndandanda muyenera kukhala wass pambali panu, kuti mupitirize kuwonjezera ndi kusintha. Fotokozani zochitika zonse zoyamba, kukonza ndondomeko yonseyi kunali kosavuta.
Kusokonezeka kwathunthu ndi nkhawa, ndithudi, sizingapewe - chifukwa kuti iye ndi ukwati, ndikufuna kuti zonse zizipita mwangwiro, ndi tsiku lofunika, koma posakhalitsa zonse zidzakhala kumbuyo, mudzakhala mwamuna ndi mkazi ndipo mudzakumbukira mavuto onse ndi kumwetulira. Chofunika kwambiri ndikuti pafupi ndi munthu wapamtima komanso wokondedwa amene amakukondani kwambiri!