Sakramenti la Magic la Ukwati

Ukwati ndi chochitika chofunika m'moyo wa wokhulupirira aliyense, ali ndi tanthauzo lalikulu; uwu ndi sitepe yaikulu ndi yofunikira yomwe imachitika kamodzi pa moyo. Ambiri amanena kuti ukwati unalengedwa ndi Mulungu m'paradaiso. Yesu Khristu anayeretsa ndi kutsimikizira mwambo waukwati, pamene anali pa ukwati ku Kana wa ku Galileya. Kuyambira pachiyambi cha zaka khumi zapitazo, udindo wapadera wa ukwatiwo unayamba kuwoneka pang'onopang'ono.

Panthawiyi, ukwatiwu wakhala wofewa kwambiri. Pa nthawi ya ukwati, okondedwawo amakhala okwatirana kwamuyaya kwa Ambuye, adalitsikitsidwa kwa moyo wautali, wokondwa pamodzi ndi kubadwa kwa ana. Koma nthawi zina okwatirana amakhala okwatira ndipo patapita zaka zingapo za banja.

Pochita mwambo wokongolawu, okwatiranawo ayenera kukhala okonzekera bwino. Kawirikawiri makolo, ngakhale agogo ndi agogo awo amatha kulangiza chilichonse. Mu nthawi yawo, sikunali kulandiridwa kukwatira, chifukwa iwe ukhoza kulipira ntchito kapena tikiti ya phwando.

Malinga ndi malamulo a tchalitchi, mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ayenera kusungidwa osachepera masiku atatu, ndipo wina ayenera kuvomereza ndikudya mgonero. Kusala kudya kwa wokhulupirira ndiko kudziletsa osati kudya, komanso kugonana. Ndibwino kuti pa nthawi ya kusala kudya, munthu amakhala moyo wosungulumwa, osatengeka ndi zochitika zowopsya komanso phokoso, amathera nthawi yambiri yopemphera mapemphero.

Pa pempho lawo, okwatirana akubwera kukambirana ndi wansembe kuti afunse mwatsatanetsatane za tanthauzo ndi tanthauzo la mwambo wa tchalitchi, kuti alandire madalitso kuti afotokoze ukwati, komanso kuti adziwe zomwe ziyenera kutengedwa kutchalitchi.

Chimene mukufunikira kutenga ku ukwatiwo

• Chikalata chovomerezeka chaukwati, cholembedwa ndi ofesi ya registry. Ngakhale, monga mukudziwa, maukwati amapangidwa kumwamba ndipo atsogoleri ndi anthu okhulupirika. Nthaŵi zambiri, mpingo sumafuna kuyankhula kwawo, kudalira kuwona mtima kwa okondedwa okwatirana. M'nthaŵi yathu ino ndizozoloŵera kuti asanakwatirane ukwati wa okwatiranawo walembedwera mwalamulo. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kupanga zochitika ziwiri tsiku limodzi, ndiye kuti okwatiranawo ayenera kupita ku ofesi yolembera, ndikupita ku tchalitchi cha ukwatiwo.
• Miyendo yaukwati, imene anthu amene anali atangokwatirana kumene kale anasinthanitsa nawo ku ofesi yolembera. Mipukutu iyi idzagwiritsidwa ntchito pa mwambo waukwati. Mu mpingo wansembe adzawakonzanso, koma wapatulidwa, pa zala za okwatirana kumene.
• Zithunzi ziwiri. Kwa mkwati, monga mutu wamtsogolo wa banja - chithunzi cha Khristu Mpulumutsi, chifukwa cha mkwatibwi, ngati wotsogolera mtsogolo wa banja - chizindikiro cha amayi a Mulungu.
• Makandulo achikwati (chizindikiro cha chikondi changwiro ndi chiyero ndi chisomo cha Mulungu) akhoza kugula mwachindunji mu tchalitchi kapena zojambulajambula. Zili zosiyana kwambiri ndi makandulo wamba. Mu maonekedwe, makandulo aukwati ndi aakulu kwambiri, ndipo akhoza kukongoletsedwa okongoletsedwa ndi zojambulajambula, maluwa, ndi mafano. Makandulo amasankhidwa ndi okwatirana okha, koma nkofunika kuti iwo ayeretsedwe. Ndi bwino kutenga makandulo ndi mipango yapadera kuti phula lisagwedezeke pa zovala za mkwatibwi ndi suti la mkwati.
• Chovala choyera kapena chopukutira ndi nsalu zinayi nsalu yazing'ono. Pa thaulo (chizindikiro cha chiyeretso chaukwati), mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi akuyenda pamphindi wina waukwati, ndipo wansembe amamanga manja a mwamuna ndi mkazi wake mwachikondi, mophiphiritsira kuphatikiza zigawo ziwirizo. Mipango iwiri ya nsalu ikulani makandulo awiri achikwati, ndipo ndi mipango iwiri yokha, mboni zaukwati zimakhala ndi korona za tchalitchi pamwamba pa okwatirana kumene.
• Miphambano yamtambo , yomwe nthawi ina inamveketsa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi. Onse okwatirana ndi mboni zaukwati ayenera kubatizidwa ndipo ayenera kudzinenera chikhulupiriro cha Christian Orthodox, ngati ukwati ukuchitika mu Tchalitchi cha Orthodox. Mitanda ikhale pamutu, sayenera kuchotsedwa ndikupatsidwa kwa aliyense. Ngati makolo sanakubatizireni, ndiye kuti musanakwatirane, muyambe kukonzekera mwambo wobatizidwa.
  

Memo kwa okwatirana kumene
Zovala zaukwati ndi kavalidwe kaukwati, monga akunena ku Odessa, ndizosiyana zazikulu ziwiri. Monga ngati simukufuna kuyang'ana mafashoni, zovala zaukwati siziyenera kukhala zosokoneza komanso zosaoneka bwino - mitundu yowala (mwachitsanzo, yofiira), yozama kwambiri, kutalika kwake kwachisangalalo ndi zozizwitsa zapamwamba mu mpingo sizilandiridwa. Chinthu chabwino ndikutsatira kalembedwe ndi mtundu woyera. Ichi ndi chitsimikizo chakuti wansembe adzakutengerani ku ukwati ndi kuti abusa a mpingo wa mpingo sangakutsutseni. Ngati gawo lina la chovalacho sichigwirizana ndi malamulo a tchalitchi, ndi bwino kuliphimba ndi chovala choyera kuti chifanane ndi mtundu wa kavalidwe kapena kuponyera bolero.

Kwa tsitsi la mkwatibwi, palinso zofunikira zina: ndi bwino kukhala ndi masitidwe apamwamba popanda "frills" ndi zokongoletsera. Panthawi imodzimodziyo ndi zofunika kuika chophimba pamwamba. Ngati tsitsi silikupereka chophimba, ndiye kuti mukufunika kutenga nanu ku ukwati kofiira, yomwe mungathe kuphimba mutu wanu panthawiyi.

Ndizozoloŵera kukhala ndi mboni paukwatiwo, amatchedwanso bwenzi ndi bwenzi, ndipo nkofunikira kuti mnyamatayo ali wosakwatiwa ndipo mtsikanayo sali pa banja. Pochita mwambo wa ukwati wa mboni kumeneko, ziyenera kukhala zodalirika pa mutu wa okwatiranawo kuti asunge korona. Kugonana, zaka, chikwati pazochitikazi sizingathandize.

Mwachibadwa, mudzafuna chikondwerero kutenga zithunzi ndi kanema. Kuwombera m'kachisi nthawi zambiri kumaloledwa. Koma ndibwino kuti tikambirane mafunso onse ndi wansembe nthawi isanafike kuti tipewe zodabwitsa zodabwitsa. M'kachisi, kuunikira ndi zithunzi ndi mavidiyo apamwamba ziyenera kuperekedwa kwa anthu odziwa bwino ntchito.

Mkwatibwi
Mwambo waukwati ukuchitika mu magawo awiri - chiyanjano ndi ukwati. Wansembe amanyamula mphetezo pa tray. Amayandikira, amaunikira makandulo, amawapereka m'manja mwa okwatirana kumene. Pambuyo pake, mkwati ndi mkwatibwi amayendetsa mphete zitatu. Okwatiranawo amasuntha mphetezo katatu pamtengatenga ndipo amavala zovala zawo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti okwatiranawo amadzipereka okha kwa wina ndi mnzake pa moyo wawo.

Pa nthawi yaukwati, wansembe amawayang'anitsitsa ndi korona ndipo amadalitsa. Kenaka werengani Mauthenga, ndiye mbale ya vinyo imabweretsedwa, kuchokera pamene mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ayenera kumwa zakumwa zitatu. Vinyo ndi tchalitchi cha sherry kapena Cahors. Pambuyo pake, banjali lidzakhala limodzi.

Wansembe amaphatikizapo kulumikiza manja abwino a anthu okwatiranawo ndi dzanja lake ndi kuwatsogolera kuzungulira fanolo katatu. Ndi chizindikiro chakuti ukwati wa achinyamata udzakhala mgwirizano wosatha wa miyoyo ndi mitima.

Pambuyo pake, okwatiranawo amabweretsedwa kuzipata zachifumu. Chithunzi chotsatira cha Mpulumutsi chimpsyopsyona mkwati, ndipo fano la amayi a Mulungu ampsompsona mkwatibwi. Kenako amasintha malo. Komanso, wansembe amene ali ndi Mtanda amamupsompsona. Pambuyo paukwati, zithunzi izi zidzapachikidwa ndi anthu okwatirana kumene m'nyumba zawo m'chipinda chogona pamwamba pa kama.

Zizindikiro zogwirizana ndi ukwatiwo
Musanakwatirane m'mawa muyenera kuika chovalacho pakhomo, mwamsanga pamene okwatiranawo atadutsa pamsewu, muyenera kutseka fungulo ndi fungulo, kutaya chinsinsi, ndi kusunga chinsinsi cha moyo wautali wautali!

Ngati makandulo akuwotcha bwino ndi bwino pa nthawi yaukwati, zikutanthauza kuti moyo wosangalala ndi wokondwa uli kuyembekezera achinyamata, koma ngati makandulo akuphwanyika, ndiye kuti moyo udzakhala wopanda pake.

Makandulo a Ukwati pambuyo pa mwambowu ayenera kusungidwa kunyumba kwa moyo.

Zilonda zoyera zomwe anthu okwatiranawo adayimilira, palibe yemwe ayenera kuperekedwa m'manja ndipo ndikofunikira kusunga nyumba kuti akhale osangalala.

Panthawi yaukwati, okwatirana omwe akukwatirana kumene sayenera kuyang'ana, izi zingachititse kuti anthu azichitira nkhanza.

Pamapeto a ukwati wa sakramenti yabwino, achinyamata adathokoza mpingo ndi mkate watsopano, womwe uyenera kuti ukhale wokutidwa ndi nsalu ya nsalu.