Ngati munthu wakuponya - thandizo la maganizo kwa inu lingakhale lothandiza kwambiri, makamaka ngati likuwoneka kuti dziko lonse latayika kufunika kwake, zonse zakhala zakuda ndi zosasangalatsa, zinachoka kwa inu, zatseka nkhope yanu. Palibe kukhudzika, pali kusamvetsetsa kwathunthu, ndipo moyo ndi malingaliro nthawi zonse zimapukuta m'makumbukiro akale, kubwerera nthawi yomwe mudali pamodzi, kufunafuna zolakwa zolakwika, ndikupukuta mitu yawo nthawi zonse ... Mukuganiza: chifukwa chirichonse chikhoza kukonzedwa, ngati sindinasinthe ... Ndiye akanadakhala ndi ine, akanadatambasula dzanja langa kachiwiri, akanadodometsa kwa ine kachiwiri ndi kuyang'ana ndi kuyang'ana kofatsa, iye akanakhala wanga. Pano pali lamulo loyamba: musadzitsutse nokha. Nchiyani chinachitika, izo zinachitika, inu simungakhoze kubwezeretsanso. Kawirikawiri, timadziimba tokha pa zomwe sizothandiza, ndipo izi zimangopangitsa mavuto a maganizo, kusokoneza komanso kutaya mtendere wathu wa mumtima. Ngakhale mutapanga zolakwika zapadera, pitani ku sayansi kuti nthawi ina ubalewu usasamalire. Mu moyo wonse, munthu ayenera kuyesetsa kuchita zabwino, kudzifunira yekha m'dziko lino, kukonza zolakwa zathu. Pambuyo pake, ziri pa iwo omwe timaphunzira bwino. Ndipo pa chiwerengero chachikulu cha milandu, palibe amene akuimba mlandu kuti ubale watha kapena iwe wasiya mwamuna. Izi zimangochitika kuti ubale watha, chikondi chachoka kapena chinachitika kuti simungokhala mtundu wa anthu omwe amafunikira wina ndi mzake. Pepani zochepa, ndipo perekani nkhaniyi mwamtendere: Zonsezi, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti mnyamata wina sanakuponyeni chifukwa chakuti muli ndi vuto linalake, koma chifukwa chakuti ali ndi zoyesayesa, ndipo poyamba anazindikira kuti palibe chomwe chidzabwere mu mgwirizano uwu . Ndi bwino kuyang'ana wina watsopano, kuyamba moyo watsopano, kusiyana ndi kuvutika ndi kuyang'ana zolakwitsa mu ubale wakale, popanda kupeza chisangalalo kwa iwo.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza nthawi yoyamba yomwe mumaponyera munthu, musataye mtima wokhumudwitsa ndikuwalola kuti atuluke. Lolani nokha kulira, ngati mukulifuna, musazengereze, chifukwa misonzi imakhala ndi ntchito zambiri za thupi, kuphatikizapo kuthandizira maganizo, kusangalala maganizo, zomwe mukusowa. Maola angapo oyamba mutatha kupweteka ndi zopweteka kwambiri. Pali kuthetsa kwa maganizo, munthu akukumana ndi zomwe wamva, akugwedezeka, kenako akuganiza zonse zomwe zinalipo kale, amayang'ana njira zosinthira chinachake, amaganizira zoyenera kuchita.
Mtsikana aliyense amadziona yekha kuti akuponya mwamuna. Zimadalira chikhalidwe, kugwirizana kwa wokondedwa, mkhalidwe wa maganizo pa nthawi yopatukana, maganizo a msungwanayo, kuchuluka kwake komwe ankakonda mnyamatayo. Ndiponso udindo wake ndi zaka zake, zomwe akudziwa komanso kudzidalira.
Ngati kusamvana kwa inu kunali zopweteka kwambiri (kusasamala, nkhawa, nkhawa, kusowa kudya, kudzipha, kudzigonjetsa), ndi bwino kuonana ndi katswiri wamaganizo kapena wodwala maganizo kuti athandizidwe. Anthu oterewa ndi akatswiri m'munda wawo ndipo adzakuthandizani kuchotsa chinthu chanu chachikondi mofulumira komanso mwaluso. Katswiri wa zamaganizo sangakupatseni uphungu monga bwenzi lanu kapena amayi anu, kukangana ndi maganizo komanso mopanda malire. Adzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa nokha, kufotokozera mavuto anu ndikukukakamizani kuthetsa vutoli. Mukawona kuti zizindikirozo zimatchulidwa, komanso zingathe kukhala kuvutika maganizo - ndibwino kupita kuchipatala kukaonana ndi dokotala.
Kuti mukhale osamvetsetseka pamalingaliro osasangalatsa ndi mwamsanga msanga mabala a kusamuka, samalani bizinesi yanu yomwe mumaikonda, musamaganizire malingaliro osasangalatsa. Dziyang'anire nokha, pita kukagula, kulemba kuvina kapena masewera, sankhani nokha zosangalatsa zatsopano. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti musokonezedwe ndi maganizo oipa, komanso kuti mudziwe anzanu atsopano omwe angakupatseni chithandizo ndi kuthandizira.
Ngati mupitirizabe kuthandizidwa ndi maganizo, dzifunseni nokha, mufunanji? Mwinamwake, ndi kusamba ndi kubisala zolakwitsa za nthawi yayitali, mawu omwe munthu wosalankhula, ndi omwe mumamphwanya. Mwinamwake pali zinthu zosiyana kwambiri mu ubalewu, malonjezano omwe samakupatsani mtendere ndi momwe muyenera kumvetsetsa ndi kumvetsa zomwe akufunikira. Zikatero, mungathe kuyankhula ndi munthu amene adakuponyera, kapena, ngati izi sizingatheke, ndi katswiri wa maganizo, mayi kapena mnzanu. Lankhulani ndi munthu yemwe mumamukhulupirira, yesani panthawi imodzimodzi mwa inu nokha ndikuwongolera mkhalidwewo. Mwinamwake, interlocutor wanu adzakuthandizani kumvetsa mfundo zina zomwe mumakhudzidwa nazo.
Musadzilole kuti mukhale achisoni, musokoneze malingaliro olakwika - ichi ndi chithandizo chachikulu cha maganizo chomwe akatswiri alionse angakulangizeni. Chofunika kwambiri - musadziikire nokha, ndipo musalole kudzidalira kwanu kugwe. Azimayi ambiri anali ndi zochitika zoterezi, koma ankavutika molimbika. Ndipo iwo adatuluka monga atsogoleri, akulimbana ndi chisoni chawo. Bwanji iwe sungakhoze? Musakayikire nokha kuti ndinu ofunika komanso nokha. Mfundo yakuti munaponyera munthu, osati chifukwa chotsekera mphuno yanu. Tenga zinthu monga tsiku ndi tsiku, kuthana ndi zowawa zanu, pitirizani kukonda ndi kudzipangira nokha, muzichita masitolo ogula, kuyankhulana ndi anthu abwino ndipo mwamsanga muiwale zolephera zanu. Kuchokera kwa iwo ndikofunikira kuchotsa kokha kokha: kupeza chidziwitso chochuluka mu chiyanjano, kuzindikira zolakwa za munthu, kuphunzira zosiyana ndi moyo wokha.
Ngati munthu wakuponya, iwe ukhoza kudzipatsa chithandizo chofunikira cha maganizo. Musamangokhalira kuganizira zolakwika, zosadziwika ndi maganizo oipa ndi malingaliro olakwika, mutenge zinthu ngati zothandiza - ndipo mutheka. Posachedwa, musaiwale kuti mutsegule anzanu atsopano, ndipo mwina, kuti mukhale ndi chikondi chatsopano chomwe chingakuthandizeni kumvetsa kuti zonse zomwe zili patsogolo ndi zabwino komanso zabwino kwambiri.