Kukhala wachifundo kumawoneka kuti ndibwino ndi kulondola. Munthu wabwino amathandizira mavuto, kumvetsetsa ndi kulandira winayo monga momwe aliri. Koma izi ndi zabwino. Ndipo mu moyo wamba, anthu ambiri amadzifunsa okha: chifukwa chiyani anthu akuchitira nkhanza kwambiri? Nchifukwa chiyani mukupempha munthu wabwino kuti akuthandizeni - sizikutanthauza kupeza thandizo lomwe likufunikira? Ndipo ndi motani kuti "tikuchita zabwino" nthawi zonse, pomwe sitimapempha?
Malangizo abwino ndi chithandizo amafunikira kokha kumene kuli koyenera. Mwatsoka, zabwino sizikutanthauza nzeru. Kuthandiza mwana kuvala pamene akuyenera kuphunzira izi, thandizani mtsikana wa kukhitchini pamene akuyesa kuphika chakudya ndi nkhanza kwa anthu omwe akufuna kudzimana okha.
Mukufunikabe kukhala okoma mtima!
Mu mtima wa munthu aliyense pali kukoma mtima. Nthawi zina chifundo ichi chimangowonekera kwa abale athu ocheperako, koma kawirikawiri kwa anthu. Ndipo apa ndikufuna kumvetsetsa, ndipo nchifukwa ninji anthu akuchitira nkhanza kwambiri? Nchifukwa chiyani iwo akufuna kuchita zabwino?
Si zabwino zonse zomwe zimapindulitsa mofanana!
Kukambitsirana ndi anzanga, tadutsamo magawo angapo a kumvetsetsa zabwino. Pano inu mumayenda mumsewu, mukuwona - dona wachikulire akuyang'ana ndikulakalaka kudutsa pamsewu wopanda kuyenda. Tanthauzani iye - ndipo izo zikutuluka, iye sanasowe! Samalani ndi kukhala okoma mtima.
Kapena mosiyana. Inu mudzafunsa munthu wovutika maganizo, monga iye. Adzanena kuti ndi zachilendo. Mudzakhulupirira, mutha kukhala wokoma mtima - osati kusokoneza munthu. Ndipo mawa sadzakhala ...
Kapena apa pali. "Ndibwino kuti ukhale ndi zida zako." Choyamba, kwa ndani amene-ngati mwabwino munthu "akukankhira" mwamphamvu? Ndipo ganizirani za izo - zikuwoneka ngati ziyenera, chifukwa zabwino zonse zimatchedwa kulimbana ndi ulamuliro wa zoipa m'moyo uno. Ndipo chirengedwe chiri ndi chikhumbo chachibadwidwe cha malo apumulo wopambana - ndiko, ku chisokonezo chachikulu.
Kukonzekera bwino, kutentha kwabwino, zabwino kumathandiza kukula ndi kukula ndikukhala ndi mapiko a munthu wina.
Koma ndizolakwika kwambiri kuti mukufuna kufuula, ngati ndakatulo: "Ndipo n'chifukwa chiyani anthu ali achipongwe kwambiri?"
Kuti asakhale wankhanza, kukoma mtima kumafuna khalidwe lapadera - kuti anthu ali osangalala ngati akuwonetsedwa chifundo, chifundo kapena thandizo. Ndipo khalidwe lotero nthawi zambiri ^ zokwanira!
Sikuti aliyense angadziwe ngati mkazi wachikulire wosauka amafunikira mbali yolakwika ya msewu, kapena amangoiwala zomwe akupita? Kapena_kodi ine ndikusowa thandizo la mkazi wosauka, yemwe ali pa khonde ndi dzanja lake lotambasula, kapena kodi iye adzamenyedwa chifukwa cha ndalama zomwe wapeza?
Nchiyani chomwe chimatsogozedwa kuti musamachite "zabwino, chitani zabwino"?
Kodi akatswiri a zamaganizo amaseka bwanji,
- nthawi zina munthu amafuna kukhala wabwino, ndipo chifukwa chake amachita zabwino.
- Nthawi zina munthu amafuna kukhala womasuka - ndipo chifukwa chake amachita zabwino.
- Nthawi zina munthu amafuna kulandira chikhululukiro - ndipo chifukwa chake amachita zabwino.
- Ndipo nthawi zina munthu amakhala wokoma mtima.
Chikhumbo chochita bwino
Kawirikawiri chilakolako chochita bwino chimangoletsa kapena kuvulaza. Pachifukwa ichi, sikupanda phindu kudandaula za anthu omwe, chifukwa cha kukoma mtima kwawo, ali ndi nkhanza komanso osasamala za anthu ena (ndi zina zotero).
Langizo: khalani ndi chokha chanu cha chimwemwe. Ndipo ndi iwo omwe amawononga-kukhala ndi malonda okha, osalola kuti azikhala nawo payekha.
Kuwonetsa zolakwika zanu
Pansi pa chizindikiro "Chitani zonse, choncho, inunso!" Moyo umakhala wabwino ndi zida zazikulu kwambiri. Pa nthawi yomweyi, afotokozereni munthu yemwe "amachita chabwino", kuti anthu onse ndi osiyana, koma sanachite zoyendetsa bwino za anthu "kodi mumachita bwanji izi?" Akugwedeza pa khoma la kusamvana.
Malangizo: khalani ndi malo omveka bwino, moyenera, ndipo musamvere malangizo a anthu ena. Monga inshuwalansi yowonjezereka, tenga (kapena kuonjezera osonkhana) anzanu omwe akuthandizira, m'malo mopondereza mu dothi kapena kuyesa njira yanu yamoyo.
Chikhumbo chothandiza zinthu
Chilakolako chovuta kwambiri, chimene chimakhala chovuta kumenyana nacho. Pambuyo pake, mwamuna akufuna kuchita ntchito yake chifukwa cha kukoma mtima kwake - koma chisamaliro chimenechi ndi nkhanza kwambiri. Ife tabwera ku dziko lino, osadziwa kanthu. Ndipo komabe, taphunzira chinachake. Ndendende chifukwa tinaloledwa kuyenda pa nthawi, kudya, kumanga nsapato ...
Malangizo: funsani thandizo, koma ganizirani kuti nkhaniyi iyenera kupangidwa ndi inu. Palibe amene angabereke mwana kwa inu, ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka zovuta komanso zosamvetseka.
Kotero, mwa kukoma mtima kwawo, nthawizina anthu amapita kutali kwambiri.
Ntchito ya munthu aliyense sikuti ingopewera zoipa, komanso nthawi, popanda kumverera "bastard wa wotsiriza", kunena "zikomo, musati" ndikuchita chinachake. Tengani nokha chisankho ndi kutenga udindo wake. Izi ndizochitika zachibadwa, ndipo ngati wina aiŵala za izo - musazengereze kumukumbutsa za izo.