Phwando la Zogulitsa
Makolo ambiri amanena kuti akawona kusambitsika, abambo awo amayamba kusangalala ngakhale asanamwe madzi. Mwa njira, chisangalalo chomwe onse akulu ndi wamng'ono kwambiri alandira kuchokera ku njira zamadzi, akatswiri a maganizo amagwirizana mwachindunji ndi kukumbukira thupi lathu za amniotic fluid.
Tiyeni tiyankhule?
Chikhumbo cholankhulana chikuonekera mwa mwanayo kale kwambiri kuposa pamene akuyamba kulankhula. Ndipo kumwetulira koyamba amayankha zomwe zikuchitika pozungulira. Zimadziwika kuti pakakhala tulo pamimba ya ana obadwa timawoneka "kumwetulira kwa Angelo". Ndipo ngakhale kuti nkhope iyi ikuchitika chifukwa cha zifukwa zenizeni zakuthupi, amayi nthawizonse amawoneka ngati kuwonekera moona mtima kwa chisangalalo. Koma choyamba, pafupifupi kumwetulira kosadziwika sikupita kufanana ndi kuseka kwachangu, komwe kamangokondwera kamodzi kwa masabata angapo mwana wamkulu. Kuseka uku sikuli chabe mphatso yowonjezera kwa iwo omwe awalongosoledwa, komanso komanso mphunzitsi wabwino wopititsa patsogolo mwanayo. Kuseka kumabadwa ndi kuseka. Kusangalala kumakhala kofunika nthawi zonse. Mwanayo monga chinkhupule amachititsa chidwi chathu: momwe amasekerera (ndipotu ngati zili choncho), zimadalira kwambiri momwe mayi amachitira - kukhala wodekha kapena wamantha. Kusangalala kwa ana kumabadwira kunja kwa kufunika kokambirana ndi okondedwa, ndipo kumuthandiza mwanayo kuti alowe mu gulu la anzako. Ana a zaka zitatu amamvetsetsana bwino. Iyi ndiyo njira yawo yodzipatula okha kudziko la akuluakulu. Kusangalala kwawo kumakhala chizindikiro cha kukhala pagulu la anzanu, njira yoyamba kutuluka kwa katatu ndi "Bambo, Amayi, ine".
Kubadwa kwa kuseketsa
Pokhala osangalala chifukwa cha kuphwanya malamulo, ana amadziwana bwino kwambiri, ngakhale asanapite ku sukulu. Choncho, prankster, yemwe ali ndi zaka chimodzi amayamba kulira phokoso kuti asangalale ndi anthu ena, m'zaka ziwiri adzasunthira madzi soapy pakamwa kuti amusule mbale wake, pa asanu adzalenga mawu odabwitsa koma osati "apolisi" komanso chaka kuseka, kupeza mumtambo kufanana, nkuti, ndi njuchi zamphongo. Ndipo sizodziwika kuti nthabwala "zopusa" za "pi-pi" ndi "ka-ka" zikuwoneka pa zokambirana za ana pamene ndendomeko yothamanga imatayidwa kunja ndipo zochitikazo zinasiya kukhala zonyansa. Zonsezi zimanena momveka bwino kuti: "Ife tiri kale achikulire ndipo timatha kuseka cholengedwa chosadzidzimutsa ndi chosasunthika chomwe poyamba chinali!"
Zonse mwadongosolo!
Chaka choyamba:
Thupi lokha limapereka kwa mwana zambiri zokondweretsa, kumveketsa poyamba (ali ndi zaka pafupifupi zisanu ndi zitatu) ndi kuseka (miyezi itatu). Iye amakondwera ndi zowawa, zokopa zokoma, mau okondwa, mawu omveka ndi maonekedwe ...
Chaka chachiwiri:
Pa usinkhu wa zaka chimodzi, ludzu la zowawa likukula, komanso chikhumbo chokhazikitsa malo atsopano. Chiwerengero cha maonekedwe okondweretsa chimawonjezeka pamene ufulu wa kuyenda ukukwera: kumbukirani kuseka kokondweretsa, komwe kumatengera sitepe yoyamba ya mwanayo! Iye amasangalala ndi chilichonse chimene chimayenda, kaya ndi ndege youluka kapena kuchokera kumapiri a ana. Ndipo ndibwino kuti nyumba yanu ikhale yopangidwa ndi madontho!
Chaka chachitatu:
Panthawi iyi, mitundu yonse ya kuseka yomwe tafotokozedwa pamwambayi ikuphatikizapo imodzi. Kugwira, kubisala, kusekemera, kusewera ndege - ndizozizira kwambiri. Pamene mawu akukamba, kuseka kumapitirira kupenya kwa thupi ndikukhala "luntha". Kusangalala ndi anzanu kawirikawiri kumawalola kuti apange ubwenzi - zomwe ana sangakwanitse kuchita pokambirana nawo.
Chaka chachinayi ndi kupitirira:
Mawu opotoka ndi "kudzikuza" amathandiza kwambiri omvetsera a ana - ngati atchulidwa ndi ana omwe. Ngati "mawu oipa" amalankhulidwa ndi akuluakulu, ana amawopsya. Ndipotu, ndi bwino kuswa malamulo okhawo omwe amawonedwa ndi ena onse ... Poyamba kumva zozizwitsa m'mawu ndi m'maganizo, ana amodzimodzi amaphunzira kuwona zojambulajambula m'mabuku, zojambulajambula.
Chabwino, kodi tidzakasewera?
Mu chaka mukhoza kumuseka mwanayo, kumuwonetsa khalidwe losazolowereka. Onetsani kuti mudzadya mwa kukweza supuni ku khutu lanu, kapena kuyika kapu ya mwana pamutu panu kapena mabotolo m'manja mwanu. Tidziyerekezere kuti mukuwopa, mwachangu, mpira wodumpha - wokondweretsa, kusewera, ndi mawu osinthika, akufuula kuti: "O, ndikuwopa, ndikuwopa!" Madzipangire kuti mufuna kumwa zakumwa kuchokera ku botolo la mwana. Mukhoza kuyika maapulo kapena zofewa zofewa pamimba ya mwana ndipo potero muziwapititseni kuzipinda zina. Konzani: chinthu chilichonse, chachilendo kwa mwana wazaka chimodzi, chingamuchititse kuseka.
Liwu lina
Sinthani mawu anu ndipo muyankhule zamaseĊµera osiyanasiyana. Onetsani masewerawo masewera aang'ono ndi nyama zazing'ono, zomwe, mwachitsanzo, zimasewera. Perekani chidole chimodzi kwa mwanayo, msiyeni iye ayese kuthawa ndi khalidwe lanu, abiseni ndi kulikweza. Mutha kusintha mau anu pafupi ndi masewera alionse. Mungayesere kuyankhula mu chitoliro (nyuzipepala) kapena mtundu wina wa chotengera. Lembani kuti mwanayo nayenso alowe mu chitoliro.
Kusinthanitsa
Mphoto yopambana-kupambana. Ndikofunika kuti mwanayo ayembekezere kutchulidwa ngakhale musanakhudze thupi lake. Iye akuseka kale ndipo akungogwera kuchokera kuseka. Lembani zovuta zong'onoting'ono zomwe zimapangitsa chidwi kwambiri. Muuzeni mwanayo: "Lembani mwendo ku chimbalangondo!" - ndiwonetseni mwendo wa chimbalangondo; "Lembani mimba ya tchizi!" - zina. Pamene mwanayo ayamba kuyambanso chimbalangondo, gwedeza chidolecho, ngati akuseketsa, ndikuseka mokweza. Pambuyo pa chidole chilichonse chokopa kamodzi kanikitseni mwanayo pamalo omwewo - chisangalalo chili chotsimikizika.
Patadutsa zaka zitatu
Sungani maluwa
Masewerawa amapanga kayendetsedwe ka kayendetsedwe ka kayendetsedwe ka kayendetsedwe kake ndipo ndizochita zolimbitsa thupi, koma izi sizinthu zofunika kwambiri. Iyi ndi masewera a nthabwala, masewera achinyengo. Ana amazindikira mwamsanga malamulo ake ndipo amadzionetsa okha nthabwala. Pogwedeza modzidzimutsa pamutu ndipo panthawi yomweyi muthamangitse lilime lanu. Tsopano tadzikani nokha kumbuyo kwa khutu lakumanzere ndipo mwamsanga mutenge lirime kumanzere, ndiyeno mubwerezetseni kayendedwe kupita kumanja. Pamapeto pake, yesani khosi lanu ndipo nthawi yomweyo chotsani lilime. Kodi mumaganiza kuti munthu wamkulu sagwirizana nawo kwambiri? Mukulakwitsa: kuseka ndi nkhani yofunika kwambiri. Mungathe, kuphimba nkhope yanu ndi manja anu, nthawi zonse musinthe kwambiri kusonyeza chisangalalo ku chisoni komanso kubwerera. Tsopano musiye iye ayese anawo.
Zaletsedwa kuseka!
Kusewera ana (chabwino, ngati mukukonzekera atatu kapena anayi - angakhale mabwenzi a mwanayo, azichimwene ake ndi alongo ake) ayenera kubwereza mawu amodzi "I" ndipo musaseke. Ndani mwa ana sangathe kuletsa choletsedwa choyamba, ayenera kuwonjezera pa mawu akuti "Ine" dzina lina kapena dzina lake. Ana onsewo akupitiriza kubwereza pokhapokha "I". Cholakwika chotsatira ndi Kuwonjezera kwa mawu atsopano. Kawirikawiri, musaseke m'masewerawa n'zosatheka! Smeshinka ndikugwera m'kamwa mwa osewera aliyense.
Masewera ndi mithunzi
Muyenera kusewera pa tsiku lotentha. Ntchitoyi ndikuthamanga pamthunzi wa adani. Mungayese kubisala mthunzi wanu ku tchire, koma yesetsani kupambana chigonjetso choyamba. Pambuyo pa masewerawa, mutha kuzungulira mthunzi ndi choko. Lolani mwanayo kuti ayime mochititsa manyazi, ndipo mumayesa kukhala ndi malo osangalatsa kwambiri a thupi. Dory mithunzi pamaso ndi mphuno, komanso chofunika kwambiri - kumwetulira!