Kawirikawiri makolo amakangana kwambiri za njira zolerera ana. Ziri zosavuta kuona zolakwitsa za mnzanuyo, ndi kuwafotokozera, kusiyana ndi kumvetsera zolakwa zawo ndikuzikonza. Aliyense wa ife ali ndi udindo kwa ana athu, chifukwa cha kulera kwawo, pa zomwe adaphunzira komanso zomwe amatsatira. Zonse zomwe mumayika mu nyenyeswa zanu tsopano, zidzakhudza moyo wawo wonse. Pofuna kukonzekeretsa ana awo m'moyo wathu wovuta, muyenera kukhala oleza mtima, achikondi, omvetsetsa. Kotero, lero tili ndi msonkhano wa makolo - momwe tingathandizire makolo kukweza mwana wathanzi.
Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuti makolo apeze njira yabwino yophunzitsira ndi kuyandikira ana awo. Aliyense amadziwa kuti maphunziro amaphatikizapo chiyero ndi kufatsa, chilango ndi chilimbikitso ndi zina zambiri zomwe mumamvetsa pokhapokha pa moyo wanu. Pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwanayo, makolo ayenera kuvomerezana pakati pawo momwe angakhalire ndi ana mu moyo wawo wonse, kukambirana mfundo za kulera. Mukungoyenera kupeza malingaliro ofanana. Zindikirani kuti mnyamatayo mwamsanga akukula ndipo posachedwa adzakhala ndi malingaliro ake pa mafunso ambiri. Muyenera kuyesa kuwatsogolera molondola pamoyo, pamene simukuphwasula khalidweli, khalani odzidalira.
Ndikofunika kwambiri mu maphunziro kuti apange gulu limodzi lophatikizapo papa, amayi ndi ana. Banja likungoyenera kudalira pakati pa ana ndi makolo. Kuyambira ali wamng'ono kwambiri, yesetsani kulankhulana mochuluka momwe mungathere ndi wina ndi mzake, kukambirana zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku, mavuto ndi miyezi yosangalatsa. Kulankhula moyenera kumabweretsa ana pafupi, kukupangani kukhala anzanu. Ayenera kukhala otsimikiza kuti makolo nthawi zonse amamvetsa ndi kuwathandiza, kuwawalangiza ndikuyesera kuwasunga ku mavuto.
Ana alemekezeke chifukwa cha zochepa zomwe adazipeza, aziwatsitsimutsa ngati akulephera. Kawiri kawiri kanikikireni nokha, kukwapula pamutu ndikukamba za chikondi chanu. Ngati mwanayo si wolondola, musamufulumize kumufuula, kapena kumuwombera papa. Yesani kufotokoza chomwe cholakwikacho. Inde, nthawi zambiri mumayenera kubwereza kangapo, chifukwa ana aang'ono ndi osamvetsetsa komanso opanikizika. Koma khulupirirani ine, mwamsanga kapena mtsogolo iwo adzamvetsa chomwe ndi motani. Ndipo ngati simungathe kuchita popanda chilango, kumbukirani kuti mphamvu zakuthupi siziri zabwino kwambiri. Simungagule maswiti, musayang'ane zojambula zanu zomwe mumazikonda, kapena kuyika kangodya pakangodya. Kumbukirani chinthu chimodzi, ziribe kanthu kuti simukukwiyitsa mwana wanu, musanene kuti mukulephera kukonda naye kapena simukumukonda. Izi ziyenera kukhala tabuo weniweni kwa papa ndi amayi. Mwana sayenera kuopa kutaya chikondi cha makolo ake. Chilimbikitso chiyenera kutenga malo ofunikira, kuti mwanayo adziwe kuti atachita chinthu chabwino, adzatamandidwa. Kawirikawiri izi ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri.
Musagule chikondi cha ana ndi mphatso zamtengo wapatali, musakwaniritse zovuta zawo zonse. Ana mwamsanga amayamba kuzizoloŵera ndi kusiya kuyamikira. Ndipo kumvera ndi makhalidwe abwino sizikuwonjezera pa izi. Zimakhala zosokonezeka komanso zosasinthika, zomwe sizingawathandize. Chikondi ndi chidaliro cha ana ayenera kupambana nthawi zonse, kuchita zonse kuti akulemekezeni. Maganizo amenewa adzatengedwa ndi ana m'miyoyo yawo yonse.
Ndikofunikanso kuti makolo asayiwale kuti ana anu ali ndi malingaliro awo omwe ayenera kulemekezedwa. Ngati muwona kuti mwanayo ndi wolakwika, ndiye kuti mumutsimikizire kuti ndi wolemera, womveka bwino.
Zambiri zitha kunenedwa za zomwe ziyenera kuchitidwa ndi zomwe sizinachitike. Mu banja lirilonse, izi zimasankhidwa palimodzi. Chinthu chofunikira kukumbukira ndicho chakuti maziko a chiyanjano chanu ayenera kukhala chikondi, ulemu, kumvetsetsa. Ndipo mkwiyo, ukali ndi nkhanza ziyenera kuthetsedwa. Mwa zochita zathu zabwino ndi zolondola timapereka chitsanzo kwa ana omwe amayesa kukopera khalidwe lathu. Ndipo khulupirirani ana anu, ndiwo abwino omwe angakhale nawo pamoyo. Ndipo chikondi chimakuuzani momwe mungachitire izo molondola.