Kuvuta kwa kusankha mphatso kwa mtsikana sikutanthauza mwayi, koma mosiyana - mwa kuchuluka kwawo. Mwachidule, vuto lalikulu la kusankha mphatso yangwiro ndilokuti amayi amafuna kwambiri, zomwe amakonda zimasiyana kwambiri, ndipo zokonda zimaphimba pafupifupi chirichonse. Chovuta kwambiri khalidwe la mkazi ngati limeneli limapanga chisankho choyambirira. Pambuyo pake, sayenera kukhala ngati mtsikana, kukhala ngati chizindikiro choyanjana ndi woperekayo, komanso kukumbukiridwa monga chinthu chosadabwitsa. Ngakhale mu gawo lake ndi chinthu, chimene iye anali atalota kale.
Chiyambi cha mphatsoyo sichimake.
Pofuna kukondweretsa wokondedwa wanu, mnzanu kapena bwenzi lanu ndi mphatso yachilendo, simukusowa kusankha chinthu chimene sakuganiza ngati mphatso, koma adzasangalala nazo. Pambuyo pake, mphatso zoyambirira za msungwanayo zidzatengedwa monga choncho osati pokhapokha ngati palibe amene adawapatsa aliyense. Ngati mukufuna, chophweka chokhala ndi maudindo angakhalenso chopanda phindu, ngati mukuchipereka mwachilendo kapena kuchikonzekera mu mawonekedwe osakhala ofanana.
Kulamulira kwakukulu posankha mphatso yapachiyambi kwa mtsikana sikuyenera kuiwala zilakolako za nthawi yaitali. Mzimayi pankhaniyi ndi wophweka kwambiri kuposa mwamuna: amakonda kukambirana za maloto ake, amachitira kawirikawiri, koma nthawi zonse amakhala mu mawonekedwe obisika. Ndicho chifukwa chake akatswiri a maganizo amalephera kubwereza: Yemwe amadziwa kuti samamvetsera kokha mkazi, komanso kumvetsera, komanso chofunika kwambiri-kumvetsa, adzatha kusankha mphatso yapachiyambi kwa iye mu mphindi zochepa. Ndipotu, pochita izi, palibe chomwe chiri chovuta, chifukwa mphatso yomwe yasankhidwa malinga ndi mawu a mtsikanayo ikukhudzidwa ndi iye yemwe sali woyenera, ngati chifukwa chakuti munthuyo amupereka ndi umboni wakuti amamvetsera mawu ake. Ndipo izi ndi za mtsikana aliyense - mphatso yamtengo wapatali, yosadziwika, yapadera komanso yosakumbukira mphatso.
Ngati mphatsozo zikufotokozedwa kwa mtsikana poyamba, ndiye kuti zidzakhala zopanda pake kwa iye. Zili zoyenera kusintha konse, komwe lingaliro la munthu lingathe. Kupasula mphatso pa ulusi wa golide kuchokera pamwamba. Kuti mubiseke mnyumbamo ndi kuika pambali mfundo zomwe zimamuthandiza kumupeza, agaŵeni mphatsoyo ndikuzikonzekeretsa ndikukonzekera phunziro la msonkhano wake.
Mphatso yosagwirizana ndi mphatsoyo.
Kupatsa mkazi holide ndi njira yabwino yodabwitsa. Koma ngati mukufuna, mphatsoyo ingakhale yoyambirira. Pano pano mwamuna kapena mnyamata adzalandira nthawi osati popanga ndondomeko yapaderayi, koma pofuna kufufuza malo ogulitsira mzinda wake pofunafuna gizmos. Chiyambi cha mphatso kwa mtsikanayo molunjika chimadalira chikhalidwe ndi ziyembekezo za mphatso.
Nthawi zina mapensulo ophweka ndi apaselusi angakhalenso opanda pake - ngati nthawi yachinsinsi imawonetsedwa mu moyo wa wokondedwa, ndipo sangathe kusankha zochita za m'tsogolo. Kapena, atapanda kudandaula chifukwa chosowa zosangalatsa m'moyo wake, amatha kupereka masewera angapo panthawi imodzi kuti apeze zosangalatsa zake: kamera kapena chithunzi chojambulajambula, choikapo cha decoupage, chojambula chake choyamba chokongoletsera, etc. Ngati nthawi yopereka mphatsoyo idakutsogoleredwa Kutsutsana, mungathe kupereka chinthu chophiphiritsira, koma chosadalirika: tomahawk yokongoletsera kubisa udani, kutsanzira chiwombankhanga kuti chilango chilango chokhumudwitsa kapena ngakhale kuthamanga kwa masewera achikondi. Koma pano ndi koyenera kusamalira chisamaliro chachikulu: msungwana ayenera kumvetsetsa bwino momwe mphatsoyo iliri ndi kukhala ndi chisangalalo.
Posachedwapa, pakhala misonkhano yodziwika kwambiri monga mphatso yapadera kwa msungwanayo. Inde, zabwino, mosakayikira, zili zotetezeka. Ngati heroine wa mpira akhoza kuzindikira molondola zoyesayesa zomwe zimayendetsedwa mu rally ndipo akutsimikizika kuti asakhumudwe ndi chiwembu, ndiye kuti ntchitoyi ingakhoze kusewera kwa iye. Koma ndi bwino kukonzekeretsa wokondeka wakeyo ndi wokondedwa wake mu gawo lachilengedwe. Osati kubadwa apobe ndi mkazi yemwe safuna kuti wokondedwa wake apatsidwe mphamvu zachilendo. Ndiye bwanji osamuwonekera pamaso pa mwamuna wa kangaude, womenyera kapena vampire kuchokera pazinthu zomwe mumazikonda pa TV. Zovala za mtsikana nthawi zambiri zimakhala zabwino komanso, makamaka, mphatso yapachiyambi.
Standard osati yachilendo.
Zoonadi, pokhapokha chiyambi cha mphatso kwa okondedwa - lingaliro silopadera. Ndipotu, mwamuna aliyense wachikondi kapena munthu amafuna mphatso yake kwa iye, yokhayo, ikhale yosadabwitsa, yosakumbukika komanso yopanda phindu. Choncho, mphatso zoyambirira ndizolembeka ndi zoyambirira, zimakhala zovuta kutchula chifukwa cha kutchuka kwawo kwakukulu ndi kubwezeretsanso kosatha kwa mgwirizano ndi zatsopano za amuna.
Kotero, lero ndizotheka kutenga mphatso zingapo zoyambirira, zomwe nthawi zina zimayamikiridwa kwambiri ndi atsikana ndipo motero zinagwera gulu losazolowereka la "classic nontrivial gizmos". Choyamba, izi ndi zomwe zimatchedwa "Mphatso ya Mphatso": Mphatso, mapensulo, Tchiwuni, Mvula ya pulasitiki yoteteza mvula, misozi ya mwana, makandulo ndi zina zambiri zing'onozing'ono zomwe zingathe ndipo musalowe mwachindunji kwa msungwana mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, koma ndithudi mutenge tanthauzo lina lophiphiritsira. Mphatso imeneyi iyenera kufotokoza zambiri. Kapena ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito mwachindunji ku holide ya mtsikana: mwachitsanzo, kuvala iye mu bib ndi chipewa cha mwana ndikumudyetsa mkate ndi supuni ngati ali ndi tsiku lobadwa.
Chachiwiri, kuyankhula si mphatso, koma kukwaniritsa zokhumba. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mtsikana samalandira chinthu china, koma amakhala ndi mwayi wopatula nthawi yomwe amafunira nthawi yaitali. Izi zikhoza kukhala khadi pazinthu zambiri zomwe mumagula mu sitolo yanu yomwe mumaikonda, chiphaso cha ulendo wopita kuchipatala chokongola, sauna, salon yokongola, etc., kapena tikiti yopita kuchitetezo choyembekezeredwa kuwonetsero, cinema, chibonga. Palibe zoletsedwa muzinthu zogwiritsira ntchito. Koma pali lamulo lagolidi la kusankha kwake koyenera: ayenera kukhala ndi maloto akale a mtsikanayo ndikukwaniritsa zoyembekeza zake.
Chachitatu, gizmo ya chizoloŵezi cha mawonekedwe osazolowereka: ambulera monga mawonekedwe a mtima, bukhu la ndondomeko ya bokosi la chuma lomwe liri ndi chuma, barrette ndi nkhope yotchuka, chithunzi chomwe chimasonyeza heroine mwiniwake ngati udindo wa mfumukazi, mulungu wamkazi kapena cinema wotchuka kwambiri. Pano, chisankhocho chimakhalanso chachikulu: kuchokera ku chivundikiro chokhala ndi telefoni yokongola kwambiri ya pinki, ku chidole chomwe chikuwoneka mofanana ndi heroine ya holide. Kapena amene amapereka chidole kwa iye.