Chiwembu, ngati chikugwiritsidwa ntchito moyenera, chimaonedwa ngati chimodzi mwa zochita zamphamvu zamatsenga. Ndi chithandizo chake, pali kuthekera kochiritsa matenda ena, kuchotsa mavuto a maganizo, mukhoza kubweretsa chinachake kwa munthu wina ndi zina zotero. Kawirikawiri anthu omwe ayesa kuwerengera chiwembu chilichonse kuti akwaniritse zofuna zawo ndipo sanalandire zotsatira zoyenerera, alephera kukhulupirira ndi matsenga. Koma amaiwala kuti sikokwanira kungowerenga mawu ena a chiwembu kuti akwaniritse. Chinthu chofunikira ndi momwe angawerenge, zomwe angakumane nawo nthawi imodzi ndi zina zambiri. Ndikofunika kuti muwerenge bwino chiwembucho.
Mphamvu zonse za chiwembucho ndizofanana ndi momwe zimagwirira ntchito zowonongeka, komanso phokoso lina lomwe limakhala lopadera. Chofunikanso chofunika ndi momwe chateaux imatchulidwira ndi mawu ofunika. Zimaganiziridwa kuti zizindikiro zina zingathe kuchita mwanjira ina mu ubongo, ndipo kudzera mwa iwo ndi thupi lonse, amachiritsa. Chikhulupiriro, monga mchiritsi, chimakhala ndi tanthauzo lalikulu mukumatha kwake kuchiza, komanso wodwalayo kuti athe kuthandiza wodwala. Kupanda kutero, polemba ziwembu, palibe ntchito iliyonse.
Musanawerenge chiwembu chachikulu, ndikulimbikitseni kuti muwerenge pemphero la "Atate Wathu" katatu, kenako limatanthawuza oyera mtima (mwachitsanzo, wofera chikhulupiriro, dzina lake Samoy, Guria ndi Aviv, woyera Martyr Varvara, woyera machiritso Panteleimon, etc.). ) ndi kupempherera chikhululukiro cha machimo, za iwo eni ndi okondedwa, za machiritso, ndi zina zotero. Komabe, musayesetse kuchita zimenezi.
Kuti chiwembu chizigwira ntchito moyenera, ndibwino kuti zinthu izi zichitike:
- Nthawi yabwino yopanga chiwembu ndikumadzulo kapena m'mawa.
- Kuti uyankhule chiwembu, iwe uyenera kuyima ndi nsana wako kumadzulo. Chiwonetsero chisanayambe, mpweya wamtendere umatengedwa, pambuyo pake chiwembucho chimatchulidwa, kotero kuti mawu omalizira amveka pamapeto a kutuluka, pambuyo pake mutenge mpweya wanu kwa kanthawi kochepa. Ngati chiwembucho ndi chotalika kwambiri, yesani kuchuluka kwa mpweya wotuluka mpweya kotero kuti mawu omalizira adayenera kutuluka.
- Chimodzi mwa zofunika kwambiri kwa chiwembu - muyenera kuwonetsera momveka bwino ndi mophiphiritsira zomwe mukufuna.
- Maganizo ayenera kukhala oyera, ngati palibe cholinga chothandiza kuchokera mumtima, chiwembucho sichidzakhala ndi mphamvu.
- Ngati madzi ayamba kuyankhula, ndiye kuti mumayenera kumwa pang'ono, kusokoneza pakapita mphindi pang'ono kwa mphindi zisanu. Zonse zinayi sipopu madzi amatsanulira kudzanja lamanja ndipo khungu la khosi ndi nkhope likuchotsedwa.
- Zokambirana pochita chiwembu zimakhala ngati izi - kuimirira bwino, komabe mutu uyenera kuchepetsedwa.
- Pomwe chiwembu chikulankhulidwa, muyenera kuomba pang'onopang'ono.
- Ngati ndi kotheka, mukhoza kubwereza kuti kulimbitsa chiwembu. Chiwerengero cha kubwerezabwereza chiyenera kukhala chosamvetseka, ndipo mawu enieniwo asanayambe kudya kwa kanthawi kochepa.
Pali malamulo awiri ofunika pa chiwembu chilichonse. Choyamba mwa iwo ndi chakuti ngakhale simukukhulupirira kuti chiwembu chingagwire ntchito, yesetsani kutchula mayina omwe atchulidwa mmenemo mwaulemu. Awalankhule momveka bwino, popanda kumeza makalata ndi zida. Chiwembu chomwecho chimatchulidwa bwino, popanda kuthamanga kapena kufulumira.
Lamulo lachiwiri ndiloti ngati mukuwerenga chiwembu chochiritsa, muyenera kufotokozera momveka bwino zotsatira zoyenera. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufuna kuthandiza munthu amene ali ndi zilonda zakuya, ndiye kuti muyenera kulingalira momwe mabala ake akugwera ndi kutha. Ngati ndi kovuta kuti muwone matenda ena, ganizirani kuti munthuyo ali wathanzi komanso wokondwa.
Kodi chilankhulo chimatanthauzanji?
Mukhoza kutchula mokweza komanso mokong'oneza, ngati zili bwino. Ngati mukuwerenga chiwembu kwa munthu wakunja, ndiye powerenga, ayenera kumva chiwembucho. Mukawerenga chiwembu, simuyenera kutembenukira kwa iye, koma kwa Mphamvu Zapamwamba, omwe adzachite kudzera mwa iye, monga mwa otsogolera. Pachifukwachi, dzina lake liyenera kutchulidwa. Pamapeto pa chiwembu, onetsetsani kuti mukuthokoza Amphamvu Aakulu omwe mwawapempha kuti awathandize.