Kumbukirani kuti pogwiritsa ntchito malangizo athu mosalekeza, ngakhale amuna opirira kwambiri sangathe kukhala kutali ndi inu. Koma kumbukirani, musanayambe kuchitapo kanthu, ganizirani mosamala kuti munthu uyu sali woyenera kapena inu mukuganiza choncho.
Kotero, momwe mungathamangire amuna osayenera mofulumira ndi mwabwino.
Sintha mbiri yanu .
Pa maphwando, pafupi ndi munthu wosayenerera, ayambe kuchita zinthu zochititsa mantha kwambiri. Kupita ku phwando kapena mtundu wina wa zochitikazo, valani zosayenera komanso zosayenera zovala ndi zovala zomwe sakuzikonda. Mwachitsanzo, kuyenda naye mu cafe, komwe kumakhala madzulo ndi anzake, kuvala pamwamba, nsapato zazing'ono ndi nsapato zapamwamba. Pano iwe mwachionekere udzakhala wosiyana ndi gulu, ndipo ukwiyire munthuyo, osati woyenera kuwamvetsera.
Kudzetsa .
Kuchotsa munthu wotero kumathandiza kuti azilamulira nthawi zonse ndikusewera. Sinthani sitepe iliyonse. Inde, kumuyang'ana mukupanga siko konse, koma kulamulira kosavuta sikungapweteke. Nthawi zonse onani zinthu zake, imelo, foni ndi zina zotero. Mukonzekerereni mafunso nthawi zonse, amunyozeni ngati sanafike nthawi kapena atachedwa. Mwamsanga munthu akamamuimbira foni, ponyani zonse ndikufika "pamutu". Ndiye mumuzunze iye ndi mafunso, yemwe ali ndi zomwe inu mumayankhula. Kumbukirani, nkofunika kuti inu mufufuze muzinthu zonse ndikufotokozerani tsatanetsatane, kuti wanu okhulupirika adziphangitse yekha mu umboni wake.
Pukuta ma scandals.
Kuchotsa amphwali osayenera sikungakhalenso chifukwa cha zokhumudwitsa nthawi zonse. Pokhala pamalo ammudzi, kuzunza munthu woteroyo ndi zonena zake nthawi zonse. Mutsutseni za machimo onse padziko lapansi ndi zolakwa. Ndipo chitani zonse mwa mawu okwera. Limbikitsani anthu omwe ali pafupi kuti akhale mboni. Mwa njira, mukufuna kuchotsa mkwatibwi wotero, musayambe kukangana ndipo musawononge mkangano. Mipukutu ndi yabwino kuyendetsa, pamene abwenzi anu ndi mabwenzi anu ali pafupi. Mu mkangano uliwonse, nthawi zonse mumayenera kuima nokha kufikira mutsirizidwe. Ngakhale chifukwa cha mkangano ndi chopanda pake. Muuzeni kuti nthawi zonse mumalondola ndipo izi sizikukambidwa!
Musamulole iye ataya mtima.
Mudziko pali lingaliro lomwe msungwana sayenera kutchula poyamba. Koma lamulo ili silikuthandiza kuthetsa amuna osayenera. Choncho itanani okondedwa anu theka la ola limodzi. Pakuitana, nthawi zonse khalani ndi chidwi ndi komwe iye ali ndi zomwe akuchita panthawiyi. Iye samatenga foni - kuyitana mpaka atatenga izo! Ngati simunadutse - lembani mauthenga! Chabwino, ngati izo sizikuthandizani, konzekerani ndi kupita komwe iye angakhale. Ndipo pomwepo, muzimunyoza.
Khalani achisoni.
Amuna osayenerera amatha kusindikizidwa mothandizidwa ndi nsanje nthawi zonse. Mwachitsanzo, funsani nambala ya atsikana onse mu foni yake, funsani za chibwenzi chake chakale. Pogwiritsa ntchito njirayi, ganiziraninso zomwe zingatheke. Pemphani kuti muwone chithunzi chake, funsani mafunso osokoneza maganizo. Komanso mungathe kutenga zolemba za asungwana ake omwe amawadziwa bwino.
Pangani zisangalalo .
Khalani nokha mosadziŵika. Yambani kulira mokweza ndikuyamba kuseka. Makhalidwe amenewa amanyansidwa kwambiri ndi amuna, ndipo mukufunikiradi. Komanso mungathe kumuuza kuti ngati akusintha, mudzadzipha nokha. Ndipo mwakukulu, kugwedeza ndi misozi ndikufuula nyumba yonse. Kumbukirani kuti chikhalidwe chimodzi chimakhala chokhalira chonchi.
Kuwongolera luso lake la kugonana .
Ndizowona amuna akulefuka ndi chikhumbo chokhala ndi mkazi woterowo. Choncho, muuzeni za anzanu akale omwe muli anyamata komanso omwe mumakhala nawo osakumbukira. Nthawi zonse mumamufotokozera za zolakwa zake panthawi ya kugonana ndikupereka zitsanzo zabwino za yemwe ayenera kukhala wofanana naye. Komanso, mukhoza kunena kuti abwenzi anu aakazi anali osowa kwambiri kuposa inu, chifukwa anyamata awo ali maso. Mawu anu onse amayesetsani kutsimikizira ndi kutsutsana.
Kunyenga.
Ndipo ndibwino kuti tichite zimenezo pa chifukwa chilichonse. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kaya zinthu zomwe chinyengo chanu chidzakhudza. Pano mungathe kulembetsa nkhani zosiyanasiyana molimba mtima zomwe zingamuike munthu m'mitsempha. Mwa njira, ngati ali wotsimikiza kuti mukumuuza zabodza, musataime ndikupitiriza kuyankhula nthano. Mubweretse iye kuti iye yekha asokonezeke, kumene kwenikweni ndi choonadi, ndi kumene chinyengocho. Makhalidwe anuwo adzamukakamiza kuti aganizire ngati mukuyenera kukhala pamodzi.
Chotsani abwenzi ake osayenera omwewo .
Dziyeseni nokha kuti mfundo yakuti abwenzi ake ndi anthu omwe sali woyenera kuwamvetsera. Choncho, nthawi zonse, mwamsanga mutapeza kuti okhulupirika anu akukumana nawo pamapeto a sabata, auzeni kuti muli ndi zolinga ndipo okondedwa anu sangathe kuziwona. Ndipo chitani nthawi zonse, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti wanu womenyera nkhondo sakudziwa za izo. Kuwabweretsani ku izi, kotero kuti iwo okha adzanyansidwa ndi wosayenera wanu woyenera. Koma pamene mukuyenda mu gulu limodzi ndi abwenzi ake, musabwerere kumbuyo kwa munthu wanu, ndipo nthawi zonse, mutenge mkono wake, mumutengere kunyumba.
Yang'anirani tsogolo lanu molakwika .
Funsani mafunso okhumudwitsa omwe tili nawo komanso momwe mungakhalire ndi munthu wosayenera. Mafunso awa muyenera kufunsa chibwenzi chanu nthaŵi ndi nthawi, ndikuwonetsa kuti iye ndi wosayenera kwa inu. Ngati ayamba kutanthauzira mawu anu mwachisawawa, musataye mtima ndikupitirizabe kukhala ndi chikhalidwe chofanana ndi kukula kosalekeza.
Malangizo onsewa pamwamba, adzakuthandizani kuchotsa amuna omwe, ndi zizindikiro zonse, sali oyenerera inu ndipo simukufuna kuti mutaya nthawi yanu. Kotero, yesani, inu nonse mukuliza makalata mmanja mwanu!