Patsiku loyamba, theka lachimuna limakhala ndi zotsatira zopsompsonana, ziwerengero zimati 65 peresenti ya amunawa safuna kubwera kumsonkhano womwewo. Kuti muphunzire msungwanayo, kumpsompsona molondola ndi munthu amene amamukonda, kumuthandiza kuthekera kumvetsera khalidwe lakumpsompsona lokha, ndi zinthu zomwe zikutsatira. Malo a kupsompsona, komanso kufuna kwa munthu wotchuka kuti ampsompsone pamodzi ndi njira ya ndondomekoyi, zimagwirizana ndi izi.
Kumene mungamupsompsone. Chibwenzi choyamba, mosakayikira, sichikuphatikizapo funso lokhudzana ndi luso loyenera la msungwana kuti ampsompsone, koma m'malo momwe mungachite. Kupsompsonana kwakukulu kumachitika m'malo osakhala ambiri, monga kugonana pogonana. Amayi achichepere ambiri amakonda kufotokoza malingaliro awo chifukwa chodziŵa zambiri, kudzikuza ndi mphamvu yomwe ilipo pa amuna, koma amuna akukonda mtendere ndi chete. Kuyesera kumpsompsona mwamuna yemwe amamukonda, ponse paliponse phokoso komanso phokoso, kaya ndi bar, kapena konsati, choyamba, kapena tsiku lotsatira, sikofunikira. Amuna omwe ali otchuka kwambiri, osakhala ndi mboni, malinga ndi Mateyu Hussy - katswiri woyankhulana. Udindo wa amayi ndiwotheketsa kukondana, limodzi ndi nyimbo zabwino ndi makandulo okhala ndi zofukiza. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti palibe chomwe chinamulepheretsa.
Timatsatira kukoma. Chotsatirachi chidzachitika kuti panthawi yopsompsona malo ofunikira ndikutsata zokopa zomwe zimachokera pakamwa ndi pamilomo ndi nkhope. Ngakhale kuti si anthu onse amaganizira fungo panthawi yopsompsonana, komabe ali ndi ufulu wotchedwa gawo lalikulu la kugonana. Kupsompsonana kwa munthu yemwe Sarah Woodley akulingalira - katswiri pa yunivesite ina, monga mayeso a thanzi la atsikana. Osati limodzi ndi fungo lina lakumpsompsona, lingatanthauze kuti palibe vuto lalikulu la chitetezo cha mthupi, kapena osachepera ndi chimbudzi. Choncho, ndi zamoyo zonse.
Timatsatira nthawi. Nthawi ndi yofunikira pa momwe mungaphunzire, mtsikana sakupsompsona. Sankhani nthawi yomwe bamboyo adzakhazikitsidwe ndikupsompsonana, ndichofunika. Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti abambo ndi okonzeka kukhala pachibwenzi nthawi zonse. K kumpsompsona sikungatheke, koma kumagona, mwinamwake. Pamene akudzutsa chidwi chokongola, malinga ndi Judy James, yemwe ndi wolemba buku lotchuka la Body Language, milomo ya theka lachinayi imakhala yotupa, komanso ikuwoneka bwino. Kupenda msinkhu wa nkhope ya munthu, kungakhale chizindikiro choonjezera kulakalaka kupsompsona. Amuna achimuna sakonda kupsompsona, zomvetsa chisoni, atagonana. Amaganiza kuti kumpsompsona kusintha kwa zochita zowonjezereka, zomwe zimafunikira, zomwe hafu yazimayi nthawi zonse si yokonzeka.
Timadya musanapsompsone. Chisangalalo sichidzatenga onse azimayi ndi aakazi theka, chifukwa kukupsyopsyona ndi makamaka osati pa chopanda kanthu m'mimba. Mayi wamng'onoyo amangoganizira za kudandaula kwake m'mimba mwake, kapena kupuma kwake. Mawu a ochita kafukufuku amatanthawuzidwanso, ndithudi, pokamba za chakudya musanadzipusitse nokha, apa pali zinthu zina zochepa. Mzimayi, atadya chakudya chilichonse, amapeza chilakolako chogonana. Aphrodisiacs anatchula dzina lomwelo kulemekeza mulungu wamkazi wachigiriki ndi wotchuka Aphrodite. Amachulukitsa kukondana, komanso kukakamizidwa pakati pa theka lachimuna. Matenda a Psychedelic angapezeke mosavuta mu zakudya: mu uchi ndi mtedza, ndiye nthochi ndi mapeyala, komanso bowa. Zipatso zamadzimadzi, zomwe zimathandiza kupanga mahomoni apamtima, zimathandiza kuti zikhale zowonjezera, mu kapu ya champagne ndi vinyo. Mawu ofanana ndi a Stephanie Tolle yemwe ndi dokotala.
Kusunthana wina ndi mnzake. Ma pheromoni amatha kukhala ndi zizindikiro zazikulu pofufuza wokondedwa, wokondedwa, ndi onse awiri, abambo ndi abambo. Enanso ofufuza asayansi atulukira chimodzimodzi. Pokumbukira kukhalapo kwa thupi lina laumunthu lomwe liri ndi ntchito yozindikira zilembo izi, wina akhoza kunena kuti kusankha kwa wokondedwa sikungakhale chifukwa cha zizindikiro za anthu. Matenda owopsa okha ali pakati pa mphuno ndi mphuno. Choncho musanapsompsone, mupatseni munthuyo mpata wophimba. Matendawa amamva chizindikiro chodziwika bwino, choyimiridwa ndi thupi la wina. Maselo othandiza, poyerekeza ndi malingaliro a fungo lodziwika bwino, amapereka chizindikiro kwa gawo lina la ubongo wa wokondedwayo. Iye ali ndi udindo wa maganizo a munthuyo mwiniwake.
Kungoyamwa chabe. Amuna samakonda chikondi cha mwana wang'ombe, komanso, ngati chikondi chapsompsona, ngakhale atatha. Pali malingaliro angapo omwe amatanthawuza yankho la funso la chifukwa chomwe mwamuna wamwamuna amachitira chipsompsonono chakuyamwa. Katswiri wa chikhalidwe cha anthu Helen Fischer anali ndi lingaliro lakuti mwa kupsompsona kotero mwamuna wamwamuna akuyesera kupatsira testosterone wake kwa mayi, zomwe zikutanthauza kumukondweretsa iye. Kwa theka lachimuna, kupsompsonana ndikofunika kwambiri. Kupsompsona koteroko, kumene kuli mabala ambiri, poyerekezera ndi kupsompsonana kwa chikondi, kumachepetsa mtima wake kufika pamtunda wokwana 120 pamphindi. Kafufuzidwe ndi kukhalapo kwa anthu 1041, osadziwika komanso opezeka ku yunivesite ya New York, adasonyeza kuti zopsompsona zophweka panthawi yogonana sizingakhale ndi malo awo.
Nthaŵi zina kumaphunzira msungwana mwachikondi kusiyana ndi momwe amayembekezera. Kupsompsona ndi wokondwa kwambiri moti munthu sangathe kumaganiza za iye kwa nthawi yaitali. Musalole aliyense kuthana ndi njirayi, koma tiyenera kuyesetsa izi. Pambuyo pake, kupsyopsyona si malo otsiriza m'moyo wathu.