Momwe mungapezere kudzidalira ndi kuchotsa zovuta

Aliyense wa ife ali ndi chikoka cha maofesi. Tinaleredwa ndi anthu omwe anali ndi maofesi angapo. Ngati zingatheke kuphunzitsa anthu mothandizidwa ndi makina, ndiye kuti izi sizingasinthe mkhalidwewo, ndipo popeza munthu sangathe kukhala yekha, ndiye kuti atalowa m'gulu la anthu, akadapeza malo ochuluka kwambiri. M'nkhani ino tikambirana zifukwa zowonekera kwa maofesi ndikuyesa kuyankha funsoli: "Mmene mungapezere kudzidalira ndikuchotsani makompyuta."

Kodi maofesiwa amachokera kuti?

Chilichonse chiri chophweka ndipo nthawi yomweyo chimakhala chovuta. Kutiteteza ife ndi "matenda" awa ndi omwe adagwira nawo ntchito polera - makolo, agogo, agogo, aphunzitsi, aphunzitsi, ndi zina zotero. Inde, satipangira mwadala mwachinsinsi, mantha komanso mwina phobias. Maphunziro a munthu ndi sayansi yabwino kwambiri. Mamilioni ambiri asayansi amagwira ntchito imeneyi, ndipo chaka chilichonse uthenga wambiri umalembedwa pa maphunziro, koma lingaliro la "maphunziro abwino" silinapangidwe komabe. Wolemba aliyense amapereka malingaliro ake pa momwe angakhalire molondola ndi molondola pamene akulerera mwana. Koma ngakhale ngati mutatsatira mwatsatanetsatane malangizo osankhidwawo, munthu amakula osati kuchotsa zovuta. Chifukwa chake ndi chakuti pakadali pano munthu adzasowa chikondi, adzangokhala ndi chidziwitso. Ndipo aliyense wa ife amafunikira kukhudzidwa, osati athu okha, komanso alendo.

Mavuto ndi osavuta kupeza, koma n'zovuta kuwachotsa. Mwachitsanzo, mayi adakali mwana sanawonetsere chikondi chapadera kwa mwanayo, ndipo amatha kukhala wovuta kwambiri. Kapena abambo angawauze mwana wake kuti "Mukung'ung'udza, ndiwe mtsikana ameneyu?" Ndinaganiza kuti ndili ndi chibwenzi, "kapena mwana wanga" msungwanayo ayenera kukhala waukhondo, ndipo muli ndi tinthu tating'onoting'ono, nkhumba basi. " Awa ndi mawu ophweka, koma adanena kuchokera mumtima, akhoza kuchoka mu mtima wa mwanayo. Ndipo izi zimamutsatira m'moyo wake wonse. Chovuta ndi miyala ndi mizu, ndipo amakhala mbali ya umunthu wa munthu.

Maofesiwa ali ndi mbali ina. Iwo amawonetsedwa kokha pamene akusonyezedwa ndi munthu yemwe maganizo ake timamuganizira. Vomerezani kuti nthawi zambiri sitikusamala zomwe munthu wosadziwika anganene za ife, zomwe siziyenera kulemekezedwa ndi ife. Koma ngati chinachake chapafupi chikutiuza chinthu chosasangalatsa kwa ife, chingatichititse manyazi komanso kukhumudwitsa.

Chinthu chinanso cha maofesiwa ndi chakuti atsopano amawonetsedwa mwa anthu omwe ali kale ndi zovuta. Anthu odzidalira sakudziwika kuti ali pangozi yotereyi. Iwo samanyalanyaza zomwe iwo amafunikira kapena amawasamala iwo palimodzi.

Kodi mungatani kuti muchotse maofesiwa ndikupeza chidaliro?

Musachite mantha komanso kudandaula. Izi zimalepheretsa kulandira chisankho choyenera. Kuonjezerapo, mantha ndi maganizo zimakhudza thanzi. Ndipo kotero kuti iwo achoke, yesani kumwetulira ndi kuseka kwambiri. Ndikhulupirireni, ndizosavuta komanso zokongola kwambiri kuti ndikhale ndi moyo, ndikuyenda moyo ndikumwetulira ndi chiyembekezo. Poganizira mozama za maofesi awo, anthu okhawo amachititsa chitukuko chawo. Kawirikawiri, kuchokera pamene ambiri a ife timapanga zovuta, tikhoza kuonetsa ngati khalidwe labwino, lomwe lingathe kusiyanitsa ndi ena. Koma kupambana kumadalira kokha maganizo anu. Makhalidwe abwino kwa inu nokha, ku zolephera zanu ndi makhalidwe anu adzakuthandizani kuchotsa makompyuta.

Yambani kukhulupirira nokha. Khalani otsimikiza mu chirichonse chimene inu mumachita. Yesetsani kudzikondweretsa nokha poyamba, chifukwa aliyense samakukondani. Musachite mantha kuti musonyeze chidaliro chanu. Muyenera kukhala ndi chidaliro mwa inu nokha ndi m'mawu anu, komanso muzilankhula zoona ndikukhala mogwirizana ndi choonadi ichi. Izi zidzakupangitsani kukhala munthu wokondwa kwambiri. Mukuyamba kulemekeza ena, mumakondedwa. Koma chikondi ndicho chinthu chapamwamba kwambiri pa ubale uliwonse. Moyo wanu udzakhala wosangalatsa ndi wowala.

Kumbukirani, zotsatirapo zothana ndi zovuta, ndi zina zilizonse, zingatheke chifukwa cha zifukwa ziwiri - chikhulupiriro ndi zochita. Choncho khulupirirani nokha ndikuchitapo kanthu, ndipo mudzapambana.