Symphony of Chikondi
Ngati mukuyembekezera kukwatirana mwakuya ndipo kwa nthawi yaitali, ndiye kuti kufanana kwanu pakati pawo ndi kofunikira. Tangoganizani kuti miyoyo yanu ndi zida zoimbira: sizomwe zimagwirizana pokhapokha, chinthu chofunikira ndi kusewera limodzi limodzi, kuchita chikondano chachikondi. Yang'anirani mosamala, ndi ndani mwa mafaniyo omwe amagawana zofuna zanu. Ndipo amachichita moona mtima! Mwachitsanzo, ngati nonse mutadziwa chakudya chabwino, ndiye kuti simudzakhala kusagwirizana mukamagula chakudya, kuphika ndi kusankha chodyera. Ngati inu nonse mwansanga mukuyenda, sipadzakhala kutsutsana momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito tchuthi. Koma kufanana sikuyenera kukhala kotheka! Kukhala ndi buku lanu lenileni kumakhala kovuta. Anthu onse amafunikira mtundu wosiyanasiyana.
Komanso timamva kuti timafunikira munthu wapafupi kuti adziwe zofooka zathu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati inu ndi mkazi wanu mulibe ndalama, ndiye ndani amene angasamalire bajeti? Ngati zonse sizigwiritsidwa ntchito kusunga dongosolo, ndani angatenge masokosi ake ndi makosi anu? Ngati nonse mukumvetsera nyimbo mokweza, ndiye ndani adzakumverani?
Ngati mukufuna kuti banja likhale losatha, sankhani mwamuna wa yemwe ali ndi makhalidwe omwe mulibe. Mosakayikira, ndizovuta: osankhidwa anu ayenera kukhala ofanana ndi inu ndipo nthawi yomweyo akuthandizani inu mokwanira.
Ndani ali ndi chiyambi?
Ndani angakuuzeni momwe mungakwatire molondola: wina amakonda, koma samakonda kuitanitsa, wina samakukondani kwambiri, koma amagona ndi ma-e-ma-SS masks - palibe malo oitanira ku misonkhano? Mwamuna mwa chilengedwe ndi wopambana ndipo nthawi zonse amayesera kukwaniritsa cholinga chake. Ngati akufuna kuti mukhale naye, adzalandira nthawi ndi njira zakugonjetsa mtima wanu. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti adzakupatsani mwayi, kuitana, kuumirira kuti muzidya madzulo pamodzi, kupita ku lesitilanti, gulu.
Koma amuna ena amachita ngati kuti saloledwa kukusamalirani. Nchiyani chikuchitika? Nthawi zina mantha enieni amalepheretsa kulimba mtima, kulimbika mtima ndi kupambana (pamene si mkazi) choyamba kukuchitirani chotsutsana. Akuwopa kukanidwa! Zonse maphikidwe, momwe mungathandizire wokondedwa wanu wodziletsa, tsoka, palibe. Chidziwitso cha mkazi mmodzi yekha, chothandizidwa ndi zokoma, chingathandize kupeza njira yopulumukira.
Ngati chibwenzi chanu chikufunikiranso kwambiri, yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito ... kuti mupatukane. Ingotayika kwa kanthawi kuchokera kumaso kwake. Ngati mumamuuza zambiri, iye adzakupezani. Ndipo ngati sakuchita izo - chabwino, samayiwala za iye: movutikira simungakhale wabwino. Njira yovuta kwambiri, yomwe imawonekera kwa milungu ingapo, sichitha, sichilemba, ndiyeno pamisonkhano imayimba serenades za chikondi, ndikukuthandizani momwe mukufunikira. Ganizirani, mwinamwake muyenera kupeza mphamvu ndikuyiponya pamutu mwanu kapena kulemba ngati "abwenzi okha."
Sichiwerengera!
Okhulupirira za kugonana amakhulupirira kuti ndi bwino kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi wake akhale wamkulu kuposa mkazi wake zaka zitatu kapena zinayi. Malingaliro awo, uwu ndiwo kusiyana kwakukulu kwa zaka pakati pa okondedwa, momwe kugonana kokondana kwambiri kumakhazikika.
Komabe, palibe amene akunena kuti ichi ndi chitsimikiziro cha ubale wa banja. Banja losangalala ndi logwirizana silinapangidwe ndi malamulo. Ndani m'banja ali wamkulu - mwamuna kapena mkazi - sikofunika kwambiri. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukwanitsa, kulemekeza zofuna za wina ndikukumva mnzanuyo.
Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti ubongo wa munthu umakonzedwa mosiyana ndi wa mkazi.
Mwachirengedwe, mkaziyo ndi wosunga malo, ndipo mwamuna ndi mlenje ndi experimenter. Ndipo kusiyana kumeneku kumadziwonetsera kuyambira ali mwana: atsikana amasewera ana aamayi, anyamata - pankhondo ndi kuthetsa zidolezo.
Amuna amalingaliro amatha kusanthula, kupeza njira zabwino zothetsera vutoli. Maganizo osamveka ochokera m'maganizo (chikondi, chidaliro), sangathe kugwira ntchito. Chisokonezo cha kumverera ndi kumverera kwa mkazi kumakhala ndi matankhu ambirimbiri, ndipo mwamuna ali ndi mitundu isanu ndi iwiri yoyamba. Tikhoza kukonza zojambula monga momwe timafunira, koma zimangodabwitsa.
Tsoka, nthawizina zimachitika kuti wokondedwa wanu ndi mwamuna wokwatira. Nthawi zina amakhala usiku, nthawi zina amakufikitsani "kuunika" (kumene kulibenso abwenzi ndi anzako), amatha kuchita nawo tchuthi pamodzi ndi inu. Ndipo nthawi zonse amadyetsa inu ndi malonjezo kuti mumuchotse mkazi wake. Kotero izo zikhoza kukhala kwa zaka, ndipo inu simukuyenera kulingalira pa chamomile kuti muzimvetsa: ngati iye sakufulumira kuti agwirizane ndi chiwonongeko ndi inu, ndiye iye sazichita izo nthawizonse. Iwe ukuwononga moyo wako umodzi pa iye, ukuwupanga kukhala chisoni chonse. Kodi simukulamulira mtima wanu? Kenaka mosamala mwayang'anitse ubale wanu: kondwerani kuyandikana naye, koma musayembekezere zambiri.